Episode 539: The Most Common Questions Sex Therapists Get Asked

What are the most common questions that come up in sex therapy? In this episode, we're revisiting an important conversation from the archives that dives into five questions that come up over and over again. We’re also going to address when you should consider seeing out professional help for a sex problem and explore a few tips for maintaining happy, healthy, and exciting sex lives for the long haul.

My guest is Rachel Zar, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist. She holds a Master’s of Science in Marriage and Family Therapy from The Family Institute at Northwestern University, a PhD in Clinical Sexology, and certificates in sex therapy and sexuality education from the University of Michigan. Dr. Zar is a clinical supervisor at Avid Intimacy, a sex and relationship therapy private practice in Chicago.

Some of the questions we answer include:

• What if I can’t orgasm during sex?
• What if my partner wants more sex than I do?
• How do I ask my partner to try something new?
• We’re having less sex than we used to. Is something wrong?
• Are my sexual fantasies normal?

You can check out Rachel's website to learn more about her work and follow her on the socials @rachelzartherapy.

Got a sex question? Send me a podcast voicemail to have it answered on a future episode at speakpipe.com/sexandpsychology.

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