Infertility, Miscarriage & Marriage: How to Stay Connected Through Pregnancy Loss

Infertility and pregnancy loss are far more common than we talk about — and far more isolating than most couples expect.

In this deeply vulnerable episode, we sit down with Alan and Kasey to explore their journey through:

• Multiple miscarriages
• An ectopic pregnancy that nearly turned fatal
• PTSD and trauma after medical emergency
• The invisible grief of infertility
• And the complicated question: What does our future look like now?

What makes their story powerful isn’t just the pain — it’s how they stayed connected through it.

They share:

✔️ How to stay emotionally close when you’re grieving differently

✔️ Why proximity matters more than “fixing it”

✔️ The biggest mistake couples make during infertility

✔️ How trauma can impact intimacy

✔️ Why grief isn’t linear — and what that means for your relationship

✔️ How to avoid drifting apart during long-term loss

If you or someone you love has experienced miscarriage, infertility, or pregnancy loss, this episode will make you feel less alone.

Because infertility may be common — but it’s often invisible.

And you don’t have to navigate it alone.

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