163 - How to Stop Being Defensive in Your Relationship and Build Emotional Safety
Episode Ep 163 27 min 16s

163 - How to Stop Being Defensive in Your Relationship and Build Emotional Safety

How does defensiveness affect your relationship with your partner?

What role do childhood experiences play in shaping emotional responses in relationship?

How did EJ and Tarah work through their challenges and what lessons can listeners learn from their experience?

In this revealing and heartwarming episode of Relationship Renovation, EJ and Tarah Kerwin open up about their own journey to emotional safety and intimacy in their relationship. EJ shares his struggle with defensiveness and the impact it had on their relationship, while also delving into the roots of his emotional responses that were shaped during his childhood. Tarah provides insight into the challenges they faced and the steps they took to navigate through them, offering valuable lessons to listeners who may be navigating similar issues in their own relationships.

This deeply personal and insightful episode sheds light on the complexities of emotional connection and the impact of past experiences on our present relationships. EJ and Tarah's openness and vulnerability create a relatable and inspiring narrative that motivates listeners to embark on their own journey of self-discovery and growth within their relationships. Join them as they share their experiences, challenges, and the valuable lessons they learned along the way, providing a beacon of hope and guidance for all those seeking to cultivate deeper emotional and intimate connections in their relationships.



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