125 - From Fairness to Love: How Keeping Score Harms Your Relationship - Nate and Kaley Klemp

From Relationship Renovation: Marriage Advice, Intimacy & Couples Communication EJ and Tarah Kerwin

What is the "80/80 Framework," and what does it focus on?

How does the pursuit of fairness lead to resentment?

What is radical generosity, and how can it alleviate inequalities and resentment in partnerships?

On this episode of Relationship Renovation, we interview Nate and Kaley Klemp and discuss their 80/80 marriage framework. They explore the problem of resentment in relationships and how it can be self-created and shifted by recognizing personal contributions. They also discuss how modern relationships struggle with achieving fairness due to cognitive biases like availability and overestimation bias. We delve into the importance of structural considerations and shared values in maintaining a healthy relationship. Nate and Kaley share their experience with the 80/80 marriage framework and how it can reduce resentment and lead to a radical generosity mindset. The episode concludes with personal examples from EJ and Tarah, including how to handle shared responsibilities and overfunctioning in relationships.

The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for Relationships

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