3075: Marriage is More Than Checking a Box on Your To-Do List by Kristen Manieri with Gottman on Intentional Marriage

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) — Free. Want to turn today’s episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I’ll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It’s packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: ⁠⁠https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join⁠ Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3075: Kristen Manieri reflects on how a well-organized marriage gradually became more about efficiency than genuine connection, revealing why simply sharing a home isn't the same as truly being together. Drawing on insights from Gottman and marriage therapy, she shows how small moments of intentional presence can strengthen a relationship far more than checking another task off a list. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.gottman.com/blog/marriage-is-more-than-checking-a-box-on-your-to-do-list/ Quotes to ponder: "Our lives are parallel but rarely intersect." "Efficiency is doing things right. Effectiveness is doing the right things." "The key word here is together, which isn’t just proximity, it’s presence and focus." Episode references: Peter Drucker – The Effective Executive: https://www.harpercollins.com/products/the-effective-executive-peter-f-drucker Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices