3070: The Best “Worst” Advice on Helping Kids Learn to Help Themselves by Rachel Stafford of Hands Free Mama on Raising Independent Kids

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) — Free. Want to turn today’s episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I’ll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It’s packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: ⁠https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join⁠ Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes and learn more at:⁠ OLDPodcast.com⁠. Episode 3070: Rachel Stafford reflects on a piece of advice that initially felt impossible: not immediately stepping in when a child has a problem. Through an unexpected experience with her daughter’s growing independence, she explores how letting go of the need to rescue can help young adults build confidence, seek community, and learn to trust themselves. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.handsfreemama.com/2022/08/26/the-best-worst-advice-on-helping-kids-learn-to-help-themselves/ Quotes to ponder: “When your college freshman texts you with a problem they’re having, I suggest you don’t respond right away.” “Instead of turning to you when your child has a problem, we want them to learn to turn to their community here and the resources here. You can best support them by directing them to do just that.” “For my child, who is a budding young adult, to gain the independence, ability, and confidence to help herself.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices