Debrief | Jealousy, Projection, & Grief in Remy’s Story

In this debrief episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon breaks down the patterns in Remy’s story, including jealousy, projection, betrayal, and the complicated grief that can happen after an abuser dies. Remy’s abuser repeatedly accused her of the very things he was doing himself. His jealousy kept her defending her normal behavior, questioning her reality, and trying to gather enough proof to trust what she already knew. Brandon also explores how fear, obligation, guilt, and shame worked together in Remy’s story, from the fear of his reactions to the obligation to be fair, the guilt of leaving, and the shame that came from questioning her own judgment.