Keeping The Spark In Long Term Relationships With Emily Nagoski - Ep 364

One of the most common questions Shandy has received over the years has been around keeping the *SPARK* alive in a long term relationship. Who better to help us answer that age old question than legendary writer and sex educator Emily Nagoski, PhD! You know Emily for "Come As You Are", the mega bestseller that—no biggie—REDEFINED WOMEN'S SEXUALITY. Her latest book, "Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections", could not be more on topic for today's conversation!Today Emily teaches how to navigate mismatched libidos, expert tips for orgasming, the 4 big questions couples need to ask themselves, and how to find time for sexy time in a schedule full of to-do lists! Do not miss this one!Thank you to our sponsor!- Go to https://huel.com and use code DEARSHANDY for 15% off your order!More Emily Nagoski:- Emily's latest book, Come Together: https://amzn.to/4hMmlMU- Website: https://www.emilynagoski.com- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/enagoski- TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilynagoskiTime Stamps:0:00 - Welcome To Emily Nagoski!3:29 - Long Term Relationship Sex Myths7:34 - Mismatched Libidos12:57 - Creating Context/The 4 Questions15:59 - When You Wish You Wanted It More17:43 - Sense Of Obligation26:38 - Orgasm41:12 - Control43:51 - Long Term Relationships48:10 - Body Confidence50:36 - Emily’s Vibrator Picks52:58 - Shandy DebriefIf you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected] - https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandyListen on iTunes - https://bit.ly/DearShandyiTunesMore Dear ShandyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandyFacebook - https://fb.me/dearshandyMore SharleenInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoyntBlog - http://www.alltheprettypandas.comMore AndyInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevineProduced by Gabrielle Galon - https://www.instagram.com/gabsamillion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.