accepting the past, changing the future

it's not always easy nor is it always light, sometimes unfortunate things happen, things that aren't necessarily our faults, we still have an opportunity to change our perspective, it's not lying, it's perspective, greater perspective to your be-ing. I''ve got a question for you... Have you ever thought to look at the People you come into contact with, that's everybody "as their sum total, meaning seeing them as a child, as a teenager, as a young adult, etc." try it, it will change your Life&...