How to Stop Carrying It All: The Oldest Daughter Never Clocks Out with Kasia Tomlinson

What happens when you grow up being the one everyone depends on—and then become a mother?

In this episode, Paulina sits down with Kasia Starzyk-Tomlinson, a mom of three, full-time office manager, and the behind-the-scenes backbone of The Mami Collective. As the oldest daughter of immigrant parents, Kasha learned early how to translate, problem-solve, take responsibility, and keep everything moving. Now, those same instincts follow her through motherhood, marriage, and a career where she manages the needs of more than 30 employees.

They get real about growing up too fast, raising children differently than you were raised, working-mom guilt, learning to ask for help, and why rest can feel so uncomfortable when your worth has always been tied to what you can handle.

This conversation is for every woman who loves her family deeply but is exhausted from carrying everyone an