Are you constantly striving to do everything “right” in dating, only to feel exhausted and stuck? In this episode of the Love U Podcast, Evan sits down with licensed psychotherapist Rhoda Mills Sommer to unpack the hidden struggles of high-achieving women in relationships. They explore the dangers of perfectionism, the importance of embracing uncertainty, and why real compatibility isn’t about similarity—it’s about respect, curiosity, and the ability to navigate hard conversations. Rhoda shares wisdom from over 40 years of experience, offering practical insights to help you break free from old patterns and find a truly fulfilling partnership. If you’re ready for a reality check that leads to real change, don’t miss this episode! About Today’s Guest: Licensed Psychotherapist in private practice for 44 years, podcaster for 10 years for WHAT HEALTHY PEOPLE KNOW THAT YOU DON’T. The podcast focuses on the nitty gritty about what relationships require to survive. The website therapyideas.net was created in 2003 and has over 450 pages of free information without any ads. Worked with women in prison & jail, Director of the Incest program for Pittsburgh Action Against Rape in 1980. Where you can find Rhoda: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rhodaoncouples/ Website: http://therapyideas.net/
