[The vYve Thrive Series ] The Parenting Style That Works: Avery Rubenstein Reveals What Kids Wish Their Parents Understood

If you have ever wondered whether calm, connected parenting actually works, Avery Rubenstein is living proof. As the adult child of parenting expert Randi Rubenstein, Avery grew up in a home built on perspective seeking rather than punishment. In this conversation, recorded live at iHeart Studios in New York, Avery shares how that upbringing shaped her confidence, empathy, and calling as a social worker working with foster youth. This episode gives you a deeply human look at what happens when a child is heard, understood, and treated like a whole person. What You’ll Learn in This Episode • What it feels like to be raised in a home without yelling and why that matters • How perspective seeking creates emotional safety for both parent and child • Why Avery realized as an adult that her childhood was very different from the norm • The moment Avery recognized the impact of their upbringing while babysitting • How children sense when adults are truly listening • The surprising behavior shifts that happen when a child is given choice • What Avery has learned working with foster children who have experienced trauma • A simple but powerful message for parents who want to do better About Today’s Guest Avery Rubenstein is the co-author of a children’s book series developed with their mother, parenting expert Randi Rubinstein. Avery is pursuing a master’s degree in social work and works in foster care settings, helping children process difficult emotions through play and perspective-based communication. Her work is centered on helping kids feel heard, respected, and understood. ... The vYve Thrive Series Stories about the unlocking of dreams that lead to business and personal growth… ignite YOUR thrive. The vYve Thrive podcast series was born from a simple vYve NYC meetup—an intimate gathering centered around charting our dreams and finding our true voice. What began as a small circle of leaders quickly evolved into something much bigger: founders, creators, and executives opening up, shedding old limits, and discovering what becomes possible when you allow yourself to be seen and heard. At vYve, we are more than a business-growth mastermind. We are a community grounded in honesty, courage, and the belief that our dreams—big or small—are meant to be pursued together and made real. Through our work at the New York Summit in October with The Podcast Playground, these stories now have an even broader platform to resonate, inspire, and remind others that their next chapter is entirely within reach. If you’re feeling the pull to explore your next chapter, we would love to hear from you. Reach out to us on social @thrivewithvyve on IG or just @vYve on Linkedin! This is vYve Thrive—where leaders chase their dreams, claim their voice, and ignite the spark for others to do the same.