In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Dr. Angela Downey, Canadian family physician, podcaster, and author, to explore the realities of major career change, resilience, and pursuing childhood dreams—against overwhelming odds. Angela shares her remarkable journey from a blue-collar upbringing and early academic setbacks, through life as an accountant and mother of two, to ultimately achieving her lifelong goal of becoming a doctor in her 40s. Together, Amy and Angela unpack the influence of family messaging, gender expectations, self-doubt, and the invisible labor of parenting while juggling strenuous academics. About the Guest: Dr. Angela Downey is a family physician, host of The Codependent Doctor Podcast, and author of Enough As I Am. Downey’s work focuses on helping people heal from codependency, set healthier boundaries, and rebuild self-trust. Downey published a 365-day guided journal, Enough As I Grow, to support personal growth and reflection. Main Topics Covered: Navigating the transition from accounting to medicine as a full-time parent and mature student. Overcoming family beliefs and societal assumptions about women, career, and “who gets to become a doctor.” Busting myths around academic failure, resetting at any age, and the nonlinear path to success. The invisible workload for women: balancing professional ambitions with family responsibilities. Building resilience, understanding self-worth, and reframing failure as growth. The power of supportive partners, therapy, and the ability to ask for (and pay for) help. Women in medicine: confronting gender bias and redefining professional boundaries. Creating new narratives for professional women through podcasting, writing, and storytelling. Quote from the Episode: "The more times I have failed, the easier it is for me to get back up. And now it's gotten to the point where I'm less afraid of failure and I'm okay to put things out there, and if it flops, it flops." — Dr. Angela Downey Timestamps: [00:00:05] Welcome & audio mishap story; where Angela calls home [00:03:06] Angela’s childhood dream and early family messaging [00:06:04] Real talk on gender bias in medicine and nursing [00:09:11] The impact of early academic failure and shifting to accounting [00:14:33] Facing rejection from med school; balancing risk/family [00:21:54] Burnout, taking a break in med school, and hiring help [00:26:15] Living lean, student debt, and leveraging Angela’s accounting skills [00:28:45] Personal growth, therapy, and reframing failure [00:32:57] The origins of resilience and overcoming “people-pleasing” [00:34:44] Pivotal conversations and finally pursuing medicine [00:37:46] Creating a sustainable, customized medical career [00:39:32] About Angela’s podcasts, books, and how to find her online [00:41:33] Fun questions: self-care, travel, and historical events Special Offer from the Guest: Dr. Angela Downey offers listeners of The Art of Imperfect Adulting a special promo: Download a FREE chapter of her codependency recovery workbook, Enough as I Am, by visiting thecodependentdoctor.com/free-chapter . Note from the show: Guest offers are often limited-time and limited quantity. If you have an issue redeeming the guest offer, please reach out to the guest or vendor directly. If you love the show and you'd like to support it directly you can tip the host here https://imperfect-adulting.captivate.fm/support Never Miss a Moment of
