Have you ever had the thought, “My teen walks all over me” … and then instantly felt ashamed for even thinking it? It's actually more like: If my own kid can treat me this way, what does that say about me? You're not just frustrated — you feel hurt, resentful, and afraid that maybe you’ve lost the connection, influence and respect you once had with your big kid. In this episode, I dig into why this thought is so common for moms of teens. I’ll show you the surprising reason why the story you attach to your teen’s behavior matters more than the behavior itself — and how shifting this perspective can help you reclaim your calm, confidence, and power without waiting for your teen to change first. Imagine showing up to these challenging moments with a sense of peace, knowing that your value as a mom doesn’t depend on whether your teen listens, obeys, or even acknowledges your existence that day. That power is available to you right now, and in this episode I’ll walk you through how to start stepping into it. So tune in, my friend — and if this resonates, I’d love for you to join me in my upcoming masterclass Setting Boundaries with Your Teen and Yourself . We’ll go deeper into what real boundaries are (hint: not just rules your teen ignores) and how to set them in a way that feels clear, calm, and effective 💡 Interested in learning more about how to create peace, confidence and connection as you raise and launch your teen, join me for my next free masterclass: https://www.thesmalljar.com/class 💪 Curious about coaching with Small Jar? Check out our Mom 2.0 coaching program: www.thesmalljar.com/Mom-2-0 ❓ Have questions or want to share your feedback? I'd love to hear from you! You can email me at
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