Send us a text Mum, do you ever feel like no matter how hard you try to help, you just can’t seem to break through to your teen? You’ve got the advice, the solutions, the answers, but when you offer them, she shuts down. The more you try to fix things, the more distant you both feel. It’s exhausting. And honestly, it can be disheartening. You just want to help her, to connect with her, but all you’re left with is frustration and a growing sense of disconnection. Here’s the thing: it’s not about fixing her problems - it’s about connecting with her in a way that truly matters. In today’s episode, we’re talking about why stopping the fixing is the key to deepening your relationship with your teen. I’ll share simple, powerful ways to start truly listening and how it creates the space for real connection to happen. You don’t need to have all the answers - just the ability to be present. So, grab a cup of tea (or wine - we’re all friends here), and let’s dive into how stopping the fix can help you start the real connection you’ve been craving with your daughter. Download my free 60 sec reset - for mums and girls - simple tools to use in the moment (yes that moment) - when everything is going to pot and you don't know what the hell to do. It's simple, easy and ready to use right now. Wanna dive deeper into this and other real-life mum stuff? Wish your daughter had her own podcast to help understand what's going on? Send her to Girl You've Got This - my podcast just for girls, availabe on all major platforms. Wanna talk? Book a FREE chat with me - sometimes it helps to say it out loud. And don't forget to hit subscribe so you're the first to get new episodes as they land - because let's be honest, who's got time to go hunting for a podcast? See you next time!