Julia Postema and Jeremiah Gibson join us today to talk about reciprocity in intimate relationships in this helpful and hopeful episode! Julia and Jeremiah are married therapists whose mission is to support relationships in reclaiming sexuality following adverse religious experiences. Their gentle approach invites us all into new ways of being and knowing, ourselves and others. We loved their kind and thoughtful approach to sex, intimacy, and learning how to listen to our bodies and our yearning. Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski Come Together by Emily Nagoski Sexvangelicals Podcast When Religion Hurts You by Laura Anderson Relationship Coaching Business - Let’s Heal Together Green Boy by Kai Cheng Thom Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Poetry and Themes of Connection 01:03 Exploring the Wild Goose Festival and Its Impact 02:43 Navigating High Control Environments and Personal Growth 05:40 Defining Reciprocity in Relationships 08:08 Understanding Differentiation and Interdependence 11:09 The Role of Purity Culture in Sexuality 13:53 The Political Nature of Sexuality and Relationships 16:15 Deconstructing Shame and Reclaiming Autonomy 19:05 Steps Towards Healing from Purity Culture 21:42 Intuition, Yearning, and Self-Discovery 24:31 The Importance of Play in Sexuality 27:16 Imagination and Reconstruction of Beliefs 30:24 Experimentation in Relationships and Sexuality 31:25 The Impact of Nature on Intimacy and Connection 34:02 Intimacy as a Pathway to Connection 36:49 Practical Steps to Cultivate Intimacy 39:10 Recommended Resources for Vulnerability and Reciprocity 42:10 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions
