670 - Jim Ramos on The 4 Phases of Fatherhood, Why Good Enough Is Better Than Perfection, and The Importance of Being A Present Father

Jim Ramos, founder of Men in the Arena in McMinnville, Oregon, aims to empower men to become their best selves in Christ and make a positive impact on their world. He's a renowned speaker, podcaster, and author with a passion for God's Word and engaging storytelling. Jim's books include Strong Men Dangerous Times and more. He embraces life with courage, following Jesus' promise in John 10:10. He enjoys hunting, fitness, tropical vacations, and meaningful conversations over Cafe Americano.In this episode Jim Ramos and Sathiya discuss:[00:00] The four phases of fatherhood[06:38] Focusing on marriage for the sake of children[06:44] The need for information on fatherhood[09:16] The blame game and victim mentality[09:51] Father wound and father trauma[11:23] Accepting responsibility for one's actions[19:11] Father Fidelis: Showing Up for Your Family[23:47] Sinking Deep Roots: Stability and Security[26:54] Father Figure: Being a Role Model[28:25] The importance of Christian community[29:20] Framing spouses positively[30:18] The impact of fathers as role models[38:00] Phase 1: Father Son/Father Daughter[39:16] Phase 2: Father Asking for Help[40:47] Phase 3: Leisure Time with Adult Children[48:04] The importance of time in fatherhood[48:38] The phases of fatherhood[53:52] Navigating different phases with multiple childrenLearn More About Men in the ArenaFollow Jim on Instagram and also on TwitterBook A Call With Sathiya's TeamFor more Free Resources, check this outFollow Sathiya on Instagram