Day 410 || red + yellow flags

TW: ABUSE

https://stopthehurt.org/is-your-relationship-headed-for-trouble-recognizing-red-and-yellow-flags/

Yellow Flags in a Relationship

Early signs of abuse may be based on attempts to control the other person. Some “Yellow Flags” that a relationship is turning abusive include: 

• Always checking in on you (by text, calling, or asking your friends/family/workplace where you are) 
• Not supporting or encouraging you  
• Putting you down (in private or in front of others) 
• Pressuring you to do things that make you uncomfortable. 
• Becoming angry too quickly or unreasonably. 
• Love Bombing – overwhelming you with affection and talk of the future very early in the relationship 

Red Flags in a Relationship

Abuse may escalate to a “Red Flag,” which is any behavior that attempts to gain power and control in a relationship. Common red flags include: 

• Intimidation (through looks or actions) 
• Threatening to harm you or loved ones (including pets) 
• Damaging/destroying your belongings, or home 
• Accusing you of being unfaithful without any proof  
• Using their financial power as a justification for their actions 
• Showing extreme jealousy of your friends/family  

Even one or two of these behaviors in a relationship is a red flag that abuse may be present. 

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