Why the Best Mentors Refuse to Chase You

You cannot make anyone succeed, and trying to is one of the most expensive mistakes a mentor can make. In this episode, Igor gets brutally honest about how his mentoring philosophy evolved from years of handholding and babysitting into what he calls the Morpheus approach: open the door, show the blueprint, offer every resource, but never chase. He shares the raw story of a young man he mentored an hour a day for a year, who had to lose two businesses and hit rock bottom before he finally became self-reliant. The uncomfortable truth at the center of it all is that you cannot be breastfed into success, and self-reliance is the one thing no mentor can ever hand you.