I work hard, I make money, I pay bills, and I buy stuff . I work hard for my money . I want to bless my family with the things that they need . I have a right to spend the money I make on the things I want, right ? If you are married, then there's some caution that needs to be expressed here . The money you make because of your job should go into a common money pot for your family . All of the money that goes in there goes to paying for all the family's bills . There is no such thing as his money and her money In marriage . So when we're out to protect our marriage from our job, it starts with having the right attitude about the money that we make from our job . Don't sacrifice everything that means so much to you because of the money that you make.