We explore the exhaustion inherent in clinging to traditional, flawed concepts of God—such as the punitive judge or the cosmic vending machine —which fail to align with observable reality and ultimately intensify suffering. Many coping mechanisms, from addiction to people-pleasing, follow a destructive Pattern where the thing used for relief becomes the new source of anxiety. We propose redefining God not as an anthropomorphic being, but as the fundamental nature of existence itself and the lawful structure of reality . True faith is then redefined as the capacity for acceptance —the willingness to remain present with reality as it is, even in the face of pain, which ultimately frees individuals from the exhausting resistance that differentiates pain from self-inflicted suffering.
