Send us a text What happens when childhood trauma shapes your self-image into something unrecognizable? Transformation coach Denise Lee takes us on her remarkable journey from surviving unimaginable abuse to thriving as a successful entrepreneur and guide for others. Denise's story begins in what appeared to be a middle-class household with the proverbial white picket fence, but behind closed doors, she endured sexual abuse, eventually entered foster care, experienced rape, and turned to alcohol to cope. These experiences led her to adopt devastating self-beliefs: "I thought I was a whore, I thought I was a drunk, I thought I was useless, inept, unqualified." The turning point came through surrender - not giving up, but recognizing that some burdens are too heavy to carry alone. "My guilt was too heavy. I couldn't. It wasn't designed for me to hold on to it anyway," Denise explains. This surrender opened the door to a transformative relationship with faith and a completely new self-understanding. This episode dives deep into the nature of trauma, explaining how it manifests in our relationships and behaviors. Denise outlines four personality types - stable, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized - helping listeners identify patterns that might indicate unprocessed trauma in their own lives. She offers practical tools for transformation, including her "ABCs" approach: Ask questions from people who model what you want to become, Believe there's something better, seek Conferral from others about your strengths, and Deliver what's already within you. Whether you're feeling stuck in your career, relationships, or personal growth, this conversation offers both inspiration and actionable advice for breaking through self-imposed barriers. Connect with Denise at deniseglee.com and discover how to transform your obstacles into opportunities for success. Get ready to break free from obstacles and live life on your terms! Are you readdy to create and design your best life? If so, click the link here. To make sure you never miss an episode, make sure you subscribe to the podcast and head on over to www.cassandracrawley.com and join our mailing list. Support the show Are you ready to create and design your best life on your terms? If so, click here and schedule a complimentary discovery call with Cassandra. https://www.cassandracrawley.com/discovery-call If this podcast helped you rethink whether you are living your best life on your terms, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review to help more women find it. To get a copy of my debut book, "Is Your Way in Your Way", visit https://www.cassandracrawley.com/book Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cassandracrawleymayo Website: https://www.cassandracrawley.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/cassandra_crawleymayo/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/cassandracrawley/ YouTube: https://cassandracrawleymayo x: https://www.tiktok.com/
