How do I unschool my child and just let my kids learn? And by the way, that’s the reason to talk about unschooling: it helps us let go of the control of our child’s education and just let them learn already. So how do I unschool my child? Start Your 1st Year of Homeschooling with Confidence — Grab your Guide! How do I unschool my child? Let them learn on their own terms, learn what they want to learn, how they want to learn, and why they want to learn it. There’s this notion out there, that if you set up a system, organize it, with a lot of people to officiate it, and administer a grade and a class, a lecture, a lesson plan, and an exam, then children will learn (and have received an education.) (But straight up, there have been two seasons in our homeschool .) Yes, kids will still learn stuff. In spite of our rigid expectations and approaches, children learn. It’s what they do. Interested teachers increase the chance of someone wanting to learn. Of getting kids interested. Of engaging. But the motivation to learn is on the kids. They don’t receive an education, they engage in an education (if they’re invested). Kids want to learn. Unless they’ve been seriously neglected or abused, children will grow and learn. Kids aren’t necessarily eager to learn what you want them to learn, when you want them to learn, in the way you want them to learn though. Occupy their time in meaningful ways, or let them occupy themselves. Give them lots of space to be quiet , pursue new interests, and discover themselves past boredom. Let them discover their interests in solitude. Allow for a balance between prescribed and exploratory time. Give them opportunities to be exposed to new concepts , new places, and new ideas. Give them meaningful work that contributes to the well-being of their family and community through housework, childcare, farm work, volunteer work, or whatever interests them. Then let them play . No learning plans are hidden behind their play, just easy, entertaining play. ps Did you know there have usually been two seasons in our homeschool: formal studies or unschooling ? How do I unschool my child? Consider what you want them to learn. You’re their parent, so you get to determine what you want them to learn too. You don’t have to assume that because the neighbor kids are learning about plate tectonics your kids must be learning that too. But it might be a prompt. A federal election might compel a discussion on the major political parties. What are the reasons one might vote for different party platforms? This, and other current affairs, often grace our dinner table since my husband passionately engages in discussions in politics, history, and economics. Me, I like reading. I move through quite a few books for a mama of four. So I read with my kids. I Am Malala , To Set A Watchman and Trevor Noah’s youth memoir were our recent readalouds. I get to share my passion through books. This is your chance to share your passions with your kiddos. (Hey, and have you ever wondered How to Encourage Independence in your Homeschool ?) Observe and listen to who your children are. What are they about? Listen to them. They are developing and coming into their own, but you can take cues from their lives, even as young children. Do they like earning money? Encourage them to start a lemonade stand. As they get older, they might want to market their baking capabilities. Another might do yardwork for neighbours, or childcare for their mom’s friend. Is your child crafty? A Pinterest board might give them ideas. Learn to knit? Tie-dye t-shirts? Create their own decorative bed cushions? Observe and listen to who your children are and you will help them learn more about themselves. The New Homeschooler’s Quick Guide: 9 Mistakes to Avoid for a Stress-Free First Year If you’re a new homeschool mom, I created The New Homeschooler’s Quick Guide: 9 Mistakes to Avoid for a Stress-Free First Year . Think of it as your roadmap for a smooth beginning—packed with practical strategies, real-life encouragement, and the kind of wisdom you’d normally only get from a seasoned homeschool friend over coffee. Inside, you’ll uncover: Simple steps to handle legal requirements and curriculum decisions with ease Smart ways to balance family rhythms while homeschooling Personalized learning tips that actually fit your child How to respond confidently when others question your choice Encouragement to release perfection and embrace flexibility Homeschooling doesn’t have to feel overwhelming. This guide will help you avoid common pitfalls and start strong—so you can focus on what really matters: raising confident, curious kids in a home filled with connection and purpose. Grab your copy today and set yourself up for a year of calm, clarity, and confidence. The New Homeschooler’s Quick Guide: 9 Mistakes to Avoid for a Stress-Free First Year “The New Homeschooler’s Qu
