Finding closure when they won't give it to you

When a relationship ends anxious attachment personalities often feel a strong need for closure, replaying conversations in our minds and yearning for explanations. The fixation on closure stems from a primal urge to gain reassurance and understand why, but can often end up driving us into a spiral.

I'll share why closure is so important to you, and why the other person may not be willing to have a closure conversation.

I hope this episode can provide some solace and clarity amidst the chaos of heartbreak. 

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-Johanna

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