Fire has long been a revered force, respected for its ceremonial holding, practical contribution to feeding, sterilising, warming, lighting and yarning around. These days though, few of us interact with fire regularly despite it connecting us to our ancestors and gently reminding us of what it means to be human. Off the back of tragic circumstances when he was just 16, todays guest Cade Mcconnell , intentionally side stepped the drug fuelled, party filled scene that often lures late teens early 20 year men and instead went in search of what it meant to be a man. He found instead, ceremonial fires, yoga, men's circles, his feelings and what it means to operate in an intentional and sacred way. He’s built his life around this way of being and in todays conversation we scratch below the mere mention of things like vision quests and sacred weddings and really unpack what it is to move through the world like this. For Cade - much of this begins with food, where it was grown it, how its prepared, who shares it and he says that by giving himself the git of making food intentional, it has rewritten his story and the rhythm of his life. As a retreat caterer, who uses claypots for his cooking Cade says this way of preparing food is fundamentally about being in relationship with plants, clay and fire which is also the name of his book. His mission is to bring a little earth into every kitchen. Support the Show Casual Support - Buy Me A Coffee Regular Support - Patreon Buy the Book - Futuresteading - live like tomorrow matters , Huddle - creating a tomorrow of togetherness Pod Partners Rock: Australian Medicinal Herbs We talked about: Rites of passage for young men Claypot cooking Creating more ceremony in our life Holding our loved ones to account Giving ourselves permission to take the time needed to create nourishing, love filled food Mens circles and how they impact our living patterns Building sacred communities The impact of suicide The value of counselling pre marriage Why its important to build a strong foundation of trust and love for yourself before you offer this to another in marriage Support the show
