Chapel 9: Building Lasting Love

This chapel service addresses young people on the practical and spiritual preparation required for marriage, emphasizing that it is a deliberate process rather than a spontaneous event. Drawing primarily from Proverbs 24:27, the speaker outlines a sequence of preparation, establishment, and building, urging listeners to count the costs and secure their foundations before entering into covenant. The message identifies key needs for a wife, such as security, sincere praise, and spiritual leadership, while listing specific behaviors that wound a spouse's spirit, including unfavorable comparisons and a lack of inner discipline. Biblical love is defined as selfless giving based on needs rather than wants, with practical applications from 1 Corinthians 13 provided for cultivating these qualities in daily relationships. The sermon concludes with a call to adopt a broader perspective by considering the viewpoints of others and God, encouraging believers to yield their expectations to Christ to avoid bitterness and foster genuine, lasting intimacy.