Love & Feminine Embodiment Mentor Shilpa Cacho breaks down one of the most misunderstood concepts in modern dating: “Do I actually know what love feels like… or have I only experienced trauma bonding?” Shilpa shares a raw, personal story about a past relationship she once labeled “soul-deep love” and how she later realized it was pure trauma bonding fueled by chaos, shame, childhood wounds, and nervous system addiction. Inside this episode, you’ll learn: What trauma bonding actually is (beyond toxicity or dramatic fights) Why your body may confuse survival with connection How chaotic relationships activate your nervous system… and feel like chemistry Why you crave inconsistent men who pull away Why “nice,” consistent men feel “boring” or “no spark” How trauma bonding shows up in high-achieving, emotionally intelligent women The subtle ways women manipulate, chase, or abandon themselves for love What real, healthy love actually feels like in your body How to know if your attraction is trauma or truth What healing looks like (nervous system regulation, self-worth, feminine communication) This episode is for you if: you’ve repeated painful patterns in dating you’ve loved men who couldn’t choose you you’re confused between chemistry and connection you’re healing after divorce or heartbreak you want marriage, family, and real emotional safety you want to understand why you’re attracted to the wrong men If you realized you've never truly experienced healthy love, it is NOT too late. Your patterns can be healed. Your nervous system can shift. You can attract a man who loves you with devotion, consistency, and clarity. Work with Shilpa: ✨ Spicy Queen Academy — heal your heart, regulate your nervous system, rebuild self-worth, and end old patterns for good. 💍 Attract Your SoulHusband — for the woman ready for her forever love Follow me on IG: @Shilpacacho https://www.instagram.com/shilpacacho/ Ready for love? Book a Call: https://calendly.com/shilpacacho/30-min-welcome-call?month=2025-12
