BW26 – The Eleventh Degree of Humility – The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life with Kris McGregor – Discerning Hearts Podcasts

The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life: Learning to Listen to God with a Discerning Heart with Kris McGregor Episode 26 – The Eleventh Degree of Humility In this episode of The Rule of St. Benedict for Daily Life, Kris McGregor reflects on the Eleventh Degree of Humility from Chapter 7 of the Holy Rule. St. Benedict continues his teaching on speech, moving beyond the question of whether a person speaks too much to the deeper question of how he speaks when he does. Humility begins to shape tone, measure, and restraint so that speech becomes calm, simple, and free from display. St. Benedict understands that words may be accurate yet still harmful if delivered with harshness, vanity, or a desire to dominate the moment. The Eleventh Degree purifies not only speech itself but the manner of it. Gentle and measured speech allows truth to be received. Words that are few and sensible reflect a heart that has learned to listen, think, and speak with purpose. This wisdom has clear application in daily life. In family life, friendships, workplaces, and parish communities, tone often determines whether words build peace or stir resistance. St. Benedict invites listeners to form a way of speaking that is steady, thoughtful, and charitable. Looking to Christ, whose words carried clarity and authority without display, the Eleventh Degree of Humility shows how speech guided by humility can become a quiet instrument of truth and peace. Citations Benedict of Nursia, The Rule of Saint Benedict, Chapter 7 § 58 (RB 1980) “The eleventh degree of humility is that when a monk speaks,
he does so gently and without laughter,
humbly and with seriousness,
speaking few and sensible words.” “Undecimus humilitatis gradus est, si cum loquitur monachus, leniter et sine risu, humiliter et cum gravitate, vel pauca verba et rationabilia loquatur.” Proverbs 17:27, RSV–CE “He who restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding.” Discerning Hearts Reflection Questions

1. How does my tone affect the way others receive what I say?
2. Do I sometimes speak accurately but in a spirit that provokes resistance?
3. Where might fewer and more thoughtful words bring greater peace to my conversations?
4. Do I allow time for interior calm before speaking, especially in difficult situations?
5. How does Christ’s example of purposeful and measured speech shape the way I communicate?

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