The Fantasy Of Your Ex

Why it’s highly unlikely that you will stay together with your ex if you get them back because of the fact that once you are back together, their reality never matches the fantasy of who you thought they were or wanted them to be. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who gives us an update on his previous email which I discussed in my video coaching newsletter titled, “I Feel Numb All The Time.” In his first email he was really suffering emotionally because he was ignoring and suppressing his painful emotions and feelings. He has since realized that he was attached to the fantasy of who he thought his ex was and wanted her to be. His latest update details what happened after he walked away and she later started reaching out to him about two months later. They started dating and hooking up again for about three weeks before the same problems that led to their first breakup became a problem once again. He shares what he did and said to get her back, what he learned from getting her back and why he chose to not stay with her long-term once he finally got her back.