Boring Beta Male

The effect a boring beta male who is too nice has on a woman’s attraction & his ability to keep her attracted and interested long-term, vs. a happy alpha male who attracts and keeps women effortlessly. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who was married to her ex-husband for fifteen years. They had two kids together. She says that he was a really nice and sweet man. She describes how his constant need for validation and never feeling like he deserved her, led to her eventually agreeing with him. She says that she never quite understood why she felt like he was more of a brother than a lover to her. She finally decided to listen to her gut and left him. At the time, she could not explain to him why she no longer wanted to be married to him despite his demand for an explanation for the divorce. He was loyal, helpful, nice and a good father. He made the mistake of making her his mommy, therapist and nurse. After finding my work she was able to finally understand why she felt the way she did towards him, and viewed him as another kid to take care of instead of being a teammate, lover, friend and equal. Her email perfectly illustrates from a woman’s point of view the importance and necessity for a man to be a leader, centered, masculine & confident in his relationships to prevent rejection.