Betrayal hits different when you're a guy, especially when nobody's talking about it. This episode cracks open that silence with the "Betrayal Shrink," a therapist who’s been through it himself and now helps other men navigate the gut-punch of infidelity, shame, and heartbreak. We’re talking about the real stuff: what it means to be vulnerable, how toxic masculinity screws with healing, and why sharing your story might be the first step toward getting your life back. Plus, he walks through a no-BS recovery model from his book that helps men rebuild without losing their minds, or their dignity. Click here to watch a video of this episode. Join the conversation shaping the future of energy. Collide is the community where oil & gas professionals connect, share insights, and solve real-world problems together. No noise. No fluff. Just the discussions that move our industry forward. Apply today at collide.io Click here to view the episode transcript. 00:00 - Intro 04:58 - Cheating: Men's Experiences 08:07 - Overcoming Shame Through Words 13:47 - Embracing Vulnerability as Strength 17:19 - The Power of Surrender 20:44 - Seeking Help: Effective Strategies 25:20 - Patient Journey: Typical Recovery Arc 26:50 - MBT Recovery: Seven Healing Stages 32:15 - Self-Worth and Spirituality in Healing 40:24 - Breathing Techniques for Stress Relief 42:56 - Understanding Stress and Its Impact 44:39 - Men's Mental Health Considerations 45:26 - Connecting with Adam Nisenson 45:55 - Episode Wrap-Up https://twitter.com/collide_io https://www.tiktok.com/@collide.io https://www.facebook.com/collide.io https://www.instagram.com/collide.io https://www.youtube.com/@collide_io https://bsky.app/profile/digitalwildcatters.bsky.social https://www.linkedin.com/company/collide-digital-wildcatters