Can BDSM be healing for those who have experienced their consent being abused? @Andy_Wells and I discuss navigating consent, helping women through bad past experiences, speaking up for needs, and how men can be judged and shamed in the bedroom too. --- 👉 Get the Book: https://enterthedom.com/ --- TIMESTAMP CHAPTERS: (00:00) - Intro (00:41) - Using BDSM to regain power from trauma (06:28) - Exploring new boundaries (18:20) - Learning to say no game (21:43) - Past experiences of saying no (26:15) - Speaking up for your needs (28:31) - When acts are traumatic vs not (36:50) - Doms can't read minds (47:03) - Creating safety (50:13) - Being judged as a man in the bedroom (01:03:15) - Standing up for your values (01:09:15) - Introducing your partner to new sex acts --- MORE RESOURCES: ▶️ How to Be a Better Dominant (Advice from 3 BDSM Doms): https://youtu.be/Rg9XLPG3vjQ ▶️ 7 Essential Behaviors of a Good Dominant in BDSM: https://youtu.be/X71KFnyNreo ▶️ Quick Guide to Becoming a Sexually Dominant Man: https://youtu.be/nvrmToZ8cdc
