New Tactics Feminists Use to Turn Wives Against Husbands

In this eye-opening episode, we delve into the often-overlooked discourse of how radical feminist ideologies are shaping perceptions of marriage and relationships. The hosts explore terms like 'weaponized incompetence,' 'cognitive load,' and 'married single moms,' revealing how mainstream media and feminist bloggers are influencing women to reframe their relationships with men in potentially toxic ways. They discuss the potential impact on marriages, offer methods for de-radicalizing partners, and emphasize the importance of open communication and relationship contracts. Join us for a comprehensive look at the subtle ways feminist radicalization could be affecting your relationship.

Simone Collins: , [00:00:00] this is mainstream and I don't hear red pillars talking about this. I don't hear mgtow talking about this. And that's, that's why I wanted to highlight this is like, what are you not aware? Like there's some new like weapon, like a new drone weapon that's being used. Like, why are men not aware of this, this, for these forms of weaponization. They shouldn't, they need to be aware of words like weaponized incompetence.

like the cowering slobs, they are, they hide their sexism in the language of foe equality, quote.

It's not that I think you should do all the work, we just have different standards.

Malcolm Collins: The female standard that is often demanded of the husband mm-hmm. Is not demanded because it is practical. There is no reason I actually need to fold all of the kids' clothes that go.

Yeah. Malcolm's

Simone Collins: like, are they gonna get sick?

Malcolm Collins: Mm-hmm. That is you, that is like. The husband did. I'll explain the male version of this demanding sex constantly from the wife and the wife being like, well, you know, I just don't, you don't need

Simone Collins: that to survive. You could just, you don't

Malcolm Collins: need that [00:01:00] much sex or that kinky of sex in those ways. Yeah.

And the husband's like, well, that's just what I expect. That's a great way of putting it. Yeah.

Would you like to know more?

Simone Collins: God. Now I'm afraid of botching the openings because you're gonna just use all of it anyway. Here I go.

Malcolm Collins: You know, I'm gonna use that part right there. You just said, now I'm afraid of watching the openings.

You're the worst.

Simone Collins: So much. You're the

worst.

Okay.

Hello Malcolm. I'm so excited to be speaking with you today because I'm gonna go over how feminists, radicalize wives against their husbands. This is a conspiracy. It is getting worse, and there is no escape. So if you are a man, if you ever plan on marrying a woman with a vain, you need to arm yourself.

You need to be ready. You need to be prepared. So I'm gonna walk you through the primary. I think that, that, hold on. I,

Malcolm Collins: I find this topic really interesting because it's something that [00:02:00] you clearly see. We had a fan gift us a subscription to a feminist blog for feminist, not, not a

Simone Collins: fan man, a family friend, and someone I deeply ad admire.

That's family. We're not gonna name her. 'cause what if she's, you know, what if she's friends with this author? But

Malcolm Collins: thank you. Oh, yeah. Yeah. I don't, I don't know if they're friends with the author, but anyway, so fa Family Friend. It gives us a a, a, a subscription for us to look into of. What it is like to, to read these deep feminist mother blah.

And it was horrifying. It was horrifying. And you could see was in it because I've heard from so many people online or my friends, is I was a perfectly good husband. I was dating a perfectly reasonable person. And then she became convinced of all of these weird feminist ideas that like normal life was abusive.

Yeah. And something that we will get into in this, 'cause it's something that she told me this morning. She's like, Malcolm reading this blog, if I bought into this, I could find a way to hate you on every single one of the issues that Oh yeah. Every,

Simone Collins: every issue I am gonna [00:03:00] come share. I could, despite Malcolm being an above and beyond husband who does more work, who just like constantly floors me.

And is objectively incredible as a partner, I could make him a villain under any of these narratives. I could come up with copious examples, and if I chose to frame him in one of these negative lights, I could make him look like a complete monster. So let, let me get into it though because let's just break it down and make this really compact for people so that they can actually like, go through all of this and really prepare themselves.

The five main ways that I see feminist poisoning women against their husbands or, or just women against the idea of marriage or dating men at all is one, they reframe things that wives and mothers typically prefer to do and enjoy doing is things that they're, they're forced to do and things that they resent which is, is really annoying.

They, they promote cognitive load discourse. We'll get into that along with married single mom discourse, which is related but still different and new. And they. They also just reframe innocuous actions by men [00:04:00] as, as being insidious. And also just sort of reframe, like, and you're gonna unpack all of these, right?

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Absolutely. And I think a, a big one is that they just, they, they are extremely, like the double standard that they establish is insane. So I'll just start with that, using an example from this substack that was shared with us by our friend which is not just any random feminist substack.

So this is, this is a substack called Liberating Motherhood. It's by Z Vine, who is. She's the number seven health and wellness writer on Substack with over 30,000 subscribers, many of which are paid 30,000.

Malcolm Collins: This is a popular 'cause I read through this Substack and it was pure relationship poison.

Simone Collins: No, yeah.

This is, I'm, yeah, just to, just to give you, yeah, like this is not obscure random, like red pill forum, like I Return of Men. I don't even know if they have anywhere close to that level of engagement. You know, like, like Return of Kings

Malcolm Collins: is what you're saying. Sorry. Return of

Simone Collins: Kings. What? It's been a while. I, I'm You wrote most

Malcolm Collins: of them [00:05:00] once, by the way.

Simone Collins: Oh yeah. That, gosh, that was a lifetime ago. I'm sure that there's some new red pill thing, but I mean, people talk about like, oh, red Fellow and Mick Taylor, like the, the, the radicalized. Anti-man movement is also big. And I'm just trying to point out number seven, health and wellness writer on Substack. And just to point out sort of the double standard that's here on one of her wedding anniversaries, Zvi lines summarized green flags from her husband.

'Cause she is married two-way man, which is incredible to me.

Malcolm Collins: This man's life must be a living hell, but continue, I don't,

Simone Collins: I don't wanna live his life.

Note I removed a section here about the green flag she saw in her husband, uh, because I wanted to get to the meat of specifically how, , feminists turn wives against their husbands and less focus on just what hypocrites they are.

Both you and I know their hypocrites. The reason you're here is to learn how to fight against them a