Does Gay Conversion Therapy Really Not Work?

In this thought-provoking episode, Simone and Malcolm tackle the contentious and controversial topic of gay conversion therapy. They delve into its history, methods, and the scientific data surrounding its effectiveness (or lack thereof). The discussion spans various types of therapies, from psychotherapeutic to medical and faith-based methods. The hosts confront the ideological biases and misinformation often found in debates about changing sexual orientation, while highlighting the ethical and practical implications of imposing such therapies on individuals. The episode also touches on broader societal issues such as community identity, the cultural significance of sex, and the impact of modern ideological conflicts on age-old practices.

Malcolm Collins: [00:00:00] Hello, Simone. Today we are going to be asking the age old question is. If somebody is gay, can you turn them straight by electrocuting them?

Speaker: Do you think you should turn gay? I don't think it works like that. Okay, well, Hot Topic's next on the list. Could I turn gay working there? You can't just magically turn gay. This isn't Degrassi. Why are you so against turning gay? Because if you think you turned gay, there's some weird Christian guy who thinks he can electrocute you into turning back.

Speaker 3: People think that?

Malcolm Collins: No, so hold on so actually I feel like for anyone who hasn't seen there's this show in the u. s The unbreakable kimmy schmidt everybody's on netflix, right? And it's about a girl who grows up in this cult with a guy who lied to her about everything and when she enters the world, she has to constantly find things and then be like Oh yeah, I need to check if this was a lie or not.

And this happened to me recently around conversion therapy. Okay. Just, you know, I think if you grow up in the broadly like progressive sphere the line [00:01:00] is conversion therapy, gay straight conversion therapy doesn't work. Yeah. And, you know, recently I found myself reflecting on this and I was like, oh yeah, but if it did work, they'd still say it doesn't work.

Like they have an ideological reason to need to believe this uh, due to the way that they were framing like gayness as an identity. And, what really hit me is when I asked an AI questions about this, it got really angry at me. I don't know if you noticed, but there's certain issues where I'm like, hey, can you just steel man this other perspective?

It could not bring itself. Perplexity could not bring itself to steel man the other perspective.

Simone Collins: And this is a really important thing for us to be talking about now specifically because As of our recording now this coming Monday, the Supreme Court is going to take up state bans on conversion therapy for LGBTQ plus children based on a Colorado case.

So, this is actively something that is being discussed. Do you have

Malcolm Collins: a religious right to [00:02:00] electrocute your children? That is, I'm, I'm joking by the way. What we're going to go over is all of the different types of conversion therapy. The thing that really got me in the AI Answer is I don't know if you guys have ever asked an AI a question And it gives you parts of the answers that are just obvious and transparent lies.

Yeah like it gave me a list of things that it said do nothing to change an individual's, you know Sexual expression and one of those things was castration and I was like brother. I'm not like brother in christ I'm, not saying that we should be castrating gay people, but it obviously changes their sexual expression.

Yeah And and Another thing that I just know because I've done a lot of research on like LGBT stuff is it will say, you know, you cannot change an individual's sexual orientation. And yet anyone who's familiar with like trans people just knows that wrong. About 43 percent of trans people report changes in their sexual orientation.

When they go through hormone therapy. Yeah, it was only about 13 percent experiencing a complete change, but 13 percent do [00:03:00] experience a complete change. Exactly what gay conversion is supposed to achieve. Now, again I don't think that many conservatives are like that, that doesn't really solve the problem for most conservatives but it does show that there is a potential mechanism of action to achieve this.

And in addition to that, you have the case of it would say that like certain therapies didn't work. But then I'd ask, well, are these therapies used in other areas? And he was like, oh yeah, they're also used in like phobias and alcohol addiction. And I was like, do they work there? It turns out they don't mostly so a lot of this stuff that it was actually right But it was much more nuanced in how it said they don't in those instances It was interesting debate, but I will note here that you can be like, but what about all the studies that say?

It didn't work One of the things that was a real red flag for me because well there used to be a popularly cited study that said that It didn't That it worked. But the, even, even the academic who wrote it had it retracted because it might cause harm. Oh. And then I was like, [00:04:00] oh. So there were evidence out there and people could have lost their jobs for publishing that, which shows why you're getting such bias in what's being published.

There is one study that's out there right now out of like the 36 studies on this that shows Okay. could plausibly work. This one was a two silent study, retrospective self reports of changes in homosexual orientation, a consumer survey of conversion therapy clients. What I will note as we go over all the data and all this stuff here, if you're like, what's the actual answer to this?

There does not appear to be a persistent and reliable way. IE the urban monoculture was Kind of right on this to induce a new arousal pattern in an individual. If I am not aroused by women nothing that happens at gay conversion camp is going to make me aroused by women. If I am not aroused by men, nothing that happens at a gay conversion camp will make me aroused by men.

Doesn't mean nothing can. You [00:05:00] could, like, try to do a gender reassignment with hormones, but I think if you're a conservative Christian and you have a problem with same sex attraction that is not the pathway that you are interested in taking. You're right. And it doesn't even work all the time. It works like 13 percent of the time and 50 percent of the time.

Basically, given that 50%, you know, have new arousal patterns afterwards. Gender reassignment and like hormone therapy is like re rolling your character. In terms of what arouses you. Yeah. Yeah. Which is

Simone Collins: actually the, the one we've had, I think, different maybe podcasts about this, where we talk about how if you're dealing with severe depression completely changing your identity by also changing your gender and your hormonal profile could successfully kickstart you out of it.

And it's not the, the fact that you had gender dysmorphia per se that changed it. It's the fact that your entire hormonal profile and identity and clothing changed. Changing

Malcolm Collins: the way that you see yourself and relate to other people is one of the easiest ways to change sort of persistent psychological [00:06:00] issues.

So, like we're, we're trying to be as, as sort of fair minded on this topic as, as we can be, as we go into the data. However, what is also true and where the left is just lying about this is, is while you can induce a new arousal pattern. There are plenty of ways to suppress an individual's libido and arousal patterns.

And we did another video, something like my husband's not gay or, or like, I would be okay if