How old were you when you first learned about sex? Who taught you—your parents, or the internet? And now that you’re the parent… do you have a plan? Or are you hoping the “right moment” will eventually come? In a world where the average age of exposure to pornography is eight years old , silence is no longer a safe option. Too many parents still believe they have more time, only to discover—painfully—they’re already years behind. In this episode, we dive headfirst into one of the most avoided, most misunderstood, and most crucial responsibilities of modern parenthood: equipping your kids with the truth about sex before the world distorts it. Joining host Matt Beaudreau is Nick Liberto , a man on the frontlines of this battle for our children’s innocence. Nick is the Executive Director of Proven Ministries , a national nonprofit helping individuals and families break free from sexual addiction. He’s also the founder of TheSexTalk.com , a revolutionary curriculum designed to empower parents—not teachers, not YouTube, not Google—to become the trusted voice in their child's life. What makes Nick different? He’s not just an expert— he’s lived it . From his own story of sexual brokenness and redemption, to leading a ministry that’s impacted hundreds of thousands, Nick combines unflinching honesty with deep empathy. He’s uniquely qualified to speak into the discomfort, confusion, and paralysis most parents feel when it comes to “the talk.” Quotes: "You are the primary educator for your young people. Period. End of story. You always will be. You always have been. This is just part of that education." - Matt Beaudreau "We don't want anything to do with any of that, but what we want is a parent who has created a safe environment where, when this happens, your child knows that they can come and talk to you." - Nick Liberto "You are giving your kids a defense by having these conversations. You're not harming them. You're giving them defensive tools." - Nick Liberto Key Takeaways: Start having conversations about body parts, privacy, and modesty with your children as early as age 4–6 . Use correct terminology like “penis” and “vagina” in a calm, matter-of-fact tone to normalize healthy discussion. Instead of one big “birds and bees” talk, create a rhythm of ongoing, age-appropriate conversations . Keep it low-pressure and relaxed—no lectures or panic—just consistent check-ins. Your kids will have questions. Make sure they come to you first . Build trust by being open, honest, and nonjudgmental—even when they ask uncomfortable things. Align on values and timing. Don’t default to “Mom handles the girls” and “Dad handles the boys.” Both voices are important, regardless of gender. If you're unsure what to say or when, use tools like the 14-video curriculum from TheSexTalk.com . It’s designed to equip parents with the knowledge and confidence to lead these conversations at home. Conclusion: You don’t need to be a therapist, a pastor, or a “cool parent” to get this right—you just need to be present, proactive, and willing to have the uncomfortable conversations before the world does it for you. Nick Liberto reminds us that when parents step into their role as the primary educators of their children’s values , especially around sex and identity, we don’t just protect innocence—we build trust, confidence, and lifelong connection. This isn’t about fear. It’s about equipping the next generation with truth, clarity, and resilience —and that starts with you. Because if your child doesn’t hear it from you, they will hear it from someone else. And they deserve better than that. Call to Action: Start equipping yourself today with The Sex Talk curriculum for parents —built by Nick and his team to guide you step-by-step through this essential parenting mission. 🎁 Apogee families get 25% off when you use the custom link: 👉 https://www.thesextalk.com/pages/apogeestrong?ref=533914
