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Hello & Welcome to The Feng Shui Money Couch where I talk about Feng Shui and other woo. My name is Carrillo aka The Feng Shui Lady. Today’s episode is called Feng Shui For The Divine Feminine & Masculine, a balance of Yin & Yang…
Yin & Yang refer to a series of opposites in Feng Shui starting with Female & Masculine Energy, Dark and Light, Big and Small etc. We seek for a balance between these energies in our homes and our lives. A yin environment is a small dark cozy space filled with lots of little details and objects and more muted colors. A yang environment is a large well lit space with minimal furnishings and bright colors. The idea is to find balance and harmony between the 2 extremes. A bedroom for example is meant to be more intimate and Yin, while a living room would be more Yang and open.
I recently started developing a new approach to my Messaging around Feng Shui because I noticed nobody else in my lane was speaking directly to men. I love men! If you met my Dad you would understand why! I hear a lot of divisive talk around the dynamics between men and women. I have certainly seen and experienced the dark underbelly of toxic masculinity but it has never occurred to me to put all men in that ugly little box. I’m here for the Yin & the Yang!
For close to 2 decades my typical clients have been women because they are drawn to topics like Feng Shui, Astrology and Numerology etc. Men much less so. However when men have hired me they are ideal clients because they are action oriented and will move s**t around without hesitation.
The key with Feng Shui as with anything is that you actually have to do it in order for it to work. You can have the best consultant in the world but if you don’t take action on the recommendations it’s completely useless. I love working with men for this reason because if they are invested enough to hire me they will follow my guidance with enthusiasm and an eye on the prize. By that I mean their goals.
My new approach in the way I communicate about Feng Shui was partially inspired by conversations I have been having with men as well as women. I noticed when I speak to men about Feng Shui they perk up around the history of it and how it was originally Exclusively for Kings & Queens and the Elite class. That’s why Feng Shui is associated with generational wealth. In certain High a net worth circles it’s understood that Feng Shui is a given where it comes to real estate, commercial and investment properties. It wasn’t until I entered those rooms and started having those conversations that I realized there’s a segment of upper class society that doesn’t need to be convinced about Feng Shui. I swear that would have been useful information at the beginning of my career.
The connection with money and power is very compelling to men. I am just now broaching the subject of what it could do for their love lives!
That’s the conversation I typically have with women around Feng Shui however for women my languaging is more romantic and babies are part of the conversation. While with men I am becoming more Frank about love and sex. Men & Women both ultimately want the same thing but we communicate about it differently.
I’m finding my voice with this new approach and bridging the gap between what men and women want to invite into their lives and with each other.
The one thing I hadn’t really talked about directly until now was sex. That seemed a bit bold until recently. The reality is that the recipe for Love & Babies includes Sex. It’s life force energy and It’s the ultimate manifesting tool.
In order to specialize in Feng Shui for the Divine Feminine & Masculine sex needs to be part of the conversation. Especially now that I’m talking to the Fellas.
I’m so psyched to help dudes aka The Divine Masculine as well the Ladies! I have felt called with literal downloads and messaging specifically for men! Just check out my Instagram feed and you’ll see what I’m talking about.
Listen, I’m still here for my gals in fact my work with men helps them create sacred space for us and the divine feminine. After working with me your man will never leave the toilet seat up again because he will understand that it causes his money to go down the drain.
The thing that I have come to learn about human nature is that sometimes people can’t take certain actions because they instinctively aren’t ready for the changes those actions will bring. We all have our blind spots or blocks. When someone is actually ready, they will suddenly feel a sense of urgency and make the changes.
What I love about Feng Shui is how whatever is not working in your life is reflected in your home. If your money is going down the drain it’s hard to miss. If you’re having issues in your relationships and they feel imbalanced visit both your bedroom and your love Gua. Your love Gua may be outside the bedroom but regardless the bedroom and how it is arranged will always be a reflection of your relationships. I want to mention here that relationships and the love Gua don’t just represent romantic relationships. They also represent relationships in general. So the same issues of imbalance that can exist in your romantic relationships can also exist in all manner of relationships including your friendships, business colleagues and acquaintances.
Asymmetrical relationships where there’s an imbalance in the give and take can be reflected by only having one night stand or having one much larger night stand or lamp on one side versus the other. Having your bed shoved up against the wall is another example and reflects a sense of entrapment by either yourself or the people in relationship with you. You want symmetry and a natural flow of energy in and around your bed and in your relationships.
You don’t even need to desire a romantic relationship to desire harmonious connections. Sometimes we are in a personal chapter in our lives where we are focused on our mission and love feels like a distraction. This is all well and good but not a reason to dismiss the principles of symmetry. We need other people in our lives besides lovers who are supportive and for whom we are able to show up for in kind.
If someone says they want a relationship or love or sex or companionship etc but resists centering their bed or getting 2 night stands. That is a personal block they have because on some level they know they aren’t ready or truly open to inviting someone in. It can be a control issue or fear of losing their independence. That same person might immediately make changes to their money Gua because that is their priority at that point in time. My job is to read the room and reflect it back to you. I provide solutions for the blocks and it’s up to you to decide what you are ready to take action on.
I especially love working with homes and helping people create sacred space for love and abundance. My whole career has leaned towards a more intimate and Yin approach.
As I evolve and find my voice a new more Yang perspective
is emerging and I feel called to speak to the interest of both men and women. I’m all about the Yin & The Yang. Everybody wins! Ladies & Gentleman what are you making space for this Eclipse Season? I’m here for you. Visit my Link-tree for all the ways I can be of service. Remember to like, share and subscribe to spread the love and support my work. Cheers & Ciao for now!
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