In this episode, JM shares the surprising story of a small drill bit with a big emotional impact—lost during a well-meaning garage clean-out. Together, JM and Valerie unpack the hidden cost of letting go too quickly and offer three mindful tips to prevent regret: use a Maybe Box, ask if an item carries a story, and slow down before tossing unique pieces. Whether you're clearing space or facing emotional decisions, this episode helps you declutter with intention, not remorse. IN THIS EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN: What causes decluttering regret – Learn why even small items can hold deep emotional weight. How to avoid letting go too fast – Use a “Maybe Box” to pause before making final decisions. Questions to ask before tossing anything – Identify which items carry meaningful stories. Why mindful decluttering matters – Make choices you won’t second-guess later. LINKS AND RESOURCES WITH THIS EPISODE: "Put That Stuff Down" and its sequel (book) - A recommended read exploring the complex relationship between trauma, PTSD, and clutter. It offers personal stories, psychological insights, and practical advice. Click here to learn more: https://up.dowellht.com/bestseller-clutter-and-trauma Join the thousands of people using the post-trauma secrets and decluttering by starting here: https://dowellht.com/freeyourself Thanks so much for joining us today. Want to subscribe to Post-Trauma Secrets and Decluttering ? Have some feedback you’d like to share? Connect with us on iTunes and leave us a review! iTunes not your thing? Find us on Spotify or Stitcher Support the show