Have you ever forgiven someone who hurt you, only to have resentful feelings begin to fester a short time later? How does that scenario change when it is your spouse who caused you pain? In this program, Chip explains why forgiveness is a powerful skill couples need to harness. Learn about the dangers of unresolved conflict in relationships and the freedom that comes when you genuinely say, “I forgive you.” Introduction: The foundation of a great family begins with a deep, intimate marriage. Three skills for a great marriage: Skill #1: FORGIVING Skill #2: COMMUNICATION Skill #3: RESOLVING CONFLICT Forgiveness – What it’s not and what it is: Forgiveness is NOT a quick fix or an excuse to be a “doormat” by repeatedly accepting hurtful behavior without addressing the root issues Forgiveness IS a spiritual discipline that involves three distinct parts: It’s a DECISION It’s a PROCESS It actually is ACCOMPLISHED The parable of the unforgiving servant: Matthew 18:21-35 Three-part method for forgiveness: Act: Choose to forgive. Process: Actively pray and bless the person with your words and actions. Accomplished: The true test of forgiveness is when you can genuinely rejoice in the other person’s success and well-being. Broadcast Resource Download Free MP3 Message Notes Additional Resource Mentions Marriage Truth Cards Offer "Uninvited Guests" Resources Connect 888-333-6003 Website Chip Ingram App Instagram Facebook Twitter Partner With Us Donate Online 888-333-6003