In this episode of We Talk Back , AJ Holliday and Tam Bam serve up a lively and candid conversation centered around Thanksgiving gratitude, culinary responsibilities, and the pressure of holiday expectations . They explore the emotional weight of hosting, family dynamics, and the tradition-filled stress that comes with preparing the perfect holiday. The discussion evolves into a deep dive into Summer Walker’s recent relationship controversy , unpacking themes of self-worth, accountability, and emotional boundaries in modern dating . The hosts examine how societal expectations , especially for successful and financially independent women , impact romantic relationships and the perception of femininity. They also touch on Kandi Burruss’s rumored divorce , using it as a doorway to explore the impact of success, ego, and financial imbalance on partnerships . AJ and Tam highlight how ego—not success—destroys relationships , emphasizing the importance of emotional security, support, and mutual celebration of wins . Follow us! @wetalkbackpodcast @officialtambam @ajholiday2.0 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.