So, how are you, really? In this episode of Project Joyful, Tracy Tutty explores what happens when your brilliance outpaces your biology. We look at the subtle ways high-performing women say "I'm fine" while their nervous system is quietly braced for impact, and why rest can feel more like risk than relief. You'll hear how control masquerades as calm, how adrenaline disguises itself as productivity, and how to begin showing your body that ease isn't earned, it's remembered. Tracy shares the hidden cost of performing composure, the science behind "I'm surviving" disguised as "I'm fine", and practical ways to restore coherence between your mind, body, and leadership. If you've ever wondered why slowing down feels unsafe, or why peace only appears once everything is done, this conversation will change how you understand power, rest, and presence. In this episode you'll discover: • Why your body can look calm while still running on stress chemistry. • The biological link between control and safety. • How over-performance narrows creativity, empathy, and vision. • Practical micro-shifts to retrain your nervous system for sustainable ease. • What leadership looks like when calm becomes your new baseline. Listen now to decode the illusion of ease and remember what true calm feels like. Links & Mentions For coaching and upcoming masterclasses, visit tracytutty.co.nz
