Welcome BACK to Becoming: HER and part 2 of our 3-part series with Rachel Kipnis. This week, we’re diving into one of the most important steps in the divorce process: choosing the RIGHT divorce attorney. Rachel shares what questions to ask, what red flags to look out for, and how to find someone who aligns with your values and goals so you can move forward with confidence and clarity.Tune in to hear more! In this episode… Divorce rings Strategy The RIGHT attorney Non-negotiables Marriage roles Qualities in an attorney Asking WHY High net worth divorce Quotes “The person that you choose to represent you not only because of their abilities and strategy, but it will change how you feel about the experience. If you have the right person, they will have a lasting effect on your life.” - Rachel Kipnis “You want someone who is in your corner, but I can be in your corner and still say no to you.” - Rachel Kipnis Timetamps: 0:00 - 1:40 | Intro 1:40 - 3:00 | Divorce rings 3:00 - 5:10 | Explaining divorce to kids 5:10 - 6:20 | Choosing the right attorney 6:20 - 10:15 | Not wanting a yes-attorney 10:15 - 15:20 | What are the questions to ask 15:20 - 17:00 | Consult more than one attorney 17:00 - 18:50 | Bitter feelings 18:50 - 22:30 | Types of divorce processes 22:30 - 24:20 | Qualities to look for in an attorney as a woman 24:20 - 27:30 | Asking WHY 27:30 - 31:10 | Knowing yourself 31:10 - 39:10 | High net worth divorce 39:10 - 40:30 | Don’t hire a friend 40:30 - 47:40 | Weighing strategy with personality 47:40 - 43:40 | Emotional support 43:40 - | Things CAN and WILL get better – SANA SKIN STUDIO is my #1 go-to spot for self-care. My favorite facial is the Super Glow, and you can get $25 off of your first facial when you book at www.sanaskinstudio.com with my code NIKKISPOGLOW. Connect with Rachel @thesplitstrategist Connect with Nikki www.nikkispo.com @nikkisappspo / @wearebecoming_her Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/the-know-with-nikki-spo/donations Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.