Episode 289: 'Surprise Party' (Phoenix Mandel)

Have you ever desperately craved 'grown-up time'? Sex Educator Phoenix Mandel is working as a Travel Nanny with a rare night off in Canada, so when they are Invited to what they assume is a casual house party, they're determined to make the most of this child-free time. But when Phoenix arrives, they discover it's actually a lively kink and sex-themed gathering - uh oh, that could mean breaking their Master's BDSM agreements! Never one to back down, Phoenix creatively doles out lube, fear, orgasms and dirty talk, and walks away satisfied, proud and better yet, with a deeper understanding of their own boundaries and desires. #SpiritOfTheLaw #IfNotTheLetterOfTheLaw

 

Song: 'Uh Oh' (Sub Urban, featuring Benee)

 

About our Storyteller:

 

Phoenix Mandel (they/them) is a Certified Sexuality Educator providing education, counseling, and consulting services in Oakland, California, traveling/ on location, and virtually. They specialize in BDSM, LGBTQIA+, consensual nonmonogamy, sex positivity, and other areas of diverse sexual expression and sexual rights. Learn more at: https://phoenixmandel.com/

 

Key Words:

Kink | Gender Identity l Play Party l Pro Dom l Primal Play l Strap-On l Pro Sub l Femme l Chained l Negotiation l Master l Switch l BDSM Contract l D/S Agreement l Puppy Pile l Red Solo Cup l Grown Up Activity l Travel Nanny l Canada l Sex Party l Winter l Simultaneous Orgasm l Good Girl l Buxom l Superhero l Lumberjack l Beard I Prostate l Creativity l Electric l Slave Relationship l Travel Adapter l Magic Wand l Director l Scene l Cuddle Puddle l Sex Educator l Orgasm Denial l Kink Performer l Higher Purpose l Dirty Talk l Lube l Fear l Cockstance l Romantic Orientation l Daddy/Slut l Gender Orientation l

 

Episode links:

 

Rachel McCrafty's Celebration of Life: Can you help us with the costs of cremation, and with the expenses of Rachel's Celebration of Life gathering this Saturday?

 

Rachel's GoFundMe is at

https://www.gofundme.com/f/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sad

 

Here's a few articles about our friend Rachel McCrafty:

• https://makethings.make.co/p/mission-rachel-crafty-sadd

And

• https://www.acemakerspace.org/celebrating-the-life-of-executive-director-rachel-crafty-sadd/

 

And this is Rachel McCrafty's Gift-O-Matic:

 

Finally, Her Celebration of Life at Ace Makerspace this weekend:

https://www.acemakerspace.org/event/celebration-of-life-for-rachel-crafty-sadd/

 

Sex Geek Summer Camp:

 

Info about Reid Mihalko's Sex Geek Summer Camp:

https://courses.reidaboutsex.com/I-want-sex-geek-summer-camp-info

 

My Upcoming Story Workshops:

 

My new workshop 'Storytelling to Get the Sex* You Want' is coming soon. I'll announce the date - and ticket link - next week. Stay Tuned!

 

AND: My Secret System Storytelling Workshops are returning - and this time, you can attend either online, or live and in-person! Registration will be offered to newsletter subscribers first, so sign up now. But I have 2 different workshops. Which one is best for you?

 

• How to Be Fascinating: Dixie's Secret System for Brilliant Storytelling (perfect for parties and social events, getting better at speaking up at work, and dealing with the social anxiety of public speaking)

 

•    How to Be Bawdy: Dixie's Secret System for Uncensored Storytelling (learn how to tell stories the way that Bawdy storytellers do, esp sharing your personal story in an in