Why Do People Do That?

The holidays are often painted as joyful, bright, and magical, but for anyone grieving, they can feel heavy, complicated, and painfully lonely. In this episode, we open up about what it’s really like to face the holiday season without our mothers, sharing both our professional insights as mental health providers and our personal stories of loss. We talk openly about the emotional realities of grief during a time that pressures us to “be merry,” explore why this season can intensify feelings of longing, and offer compassionate, realistic coping strategies listeners can use to support themselves. From setting boundaries to creating rituals of remembrance, we discuss the small, meaningful ways to get through the holidays while honoring both love and loss. This episode is a reminder that if this season feels hard for you, you’re not alone, and it’s okay to show up exactly as you are. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this episode, we dive into the timeless question we’ve all asked at least once: “Why do people do that?” Joined by a curious and insightful social work student, we explore a range of listener-submitted questions spanning mental health, everyday behavior, and the fascinating quirks of the human mind. Together, we break down the patterns that shape how we think, feel, and interact with the world, unpacking everything from emotional responses and coping styles to the subtle habits that reveal more about us than we realize. This conversation isn’t just about understanding others—it’s about understanding ourselves. Whether you're fascinated by human behavior, navigating your own mental wellness journey, or simply wondering what makes people tick, this episode offers fresh perspectives, relatable insights, and plenty of “aha” moments. Tune in as we explore the mysteries of the human psyche and shed light on the questions we all secretly wonder. Why do people do that? Let’s find out—together. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this powerful and deeply human conversation, we sit down with Jason Mayo, founder of Sober Not Subtle and author of In Case of Emergency, Break Childhood. Together, to explore the psychological and emotional landscape of Substance Use Disorder (SUD) through Jason’s personal journey of recovery and transformation. This episode goes beyond addiction—it’s an exploration of trauma, self-awareness, and emotional resilience. Jason shares how understanding the why behind his behaviors became the cornerstone of healing and how developing a new relationship with emotions and distress tolerance can open the door to recovery and authenticity. Listeners will gain insight into: How childhood experiences and trauma shape the roots of addiction The vital role of self-awareness and emotional regulation in recovery Why connection, compassion, and understanding our pain are essential to healing A special reflection for Generation X—on breaking cycles and redefining resilience Whether you’re navigating your own recovery, supporting someone who is, or seeking a deeper understanding of the human spirit, this episode is a must-listen reminder that healing starts with awareness—and that no one walks this path alone. Order Jason's book, "In Case of Emergency, Break Childhood: A Gen Xer’s Survival Guide to Anxiety, Addiction and Accidental Enlightenment" on Amazon - https://amzn.to/4owBrd2 Learn more about Jason on his official website - https://sobernotsubtle.com/ Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

Why do we do that on Halloween? From the sexy costumes to the spooky décor, from group costumes to ghost stories, this week, we dig into the fascinating why behind our Halloween habits. In this episode of Why Do People Do That?, we unpack: Why we love to dress up and what that says about identity and belonging. Why women often feel pressure to go “sexy” on Halloween (and where that comes from) How culture, groupthink, and tradition shape the way we celebrate. The healing power of ritual, togetherness, and a little predictability. And why, even as adults, we can’t help but crave the thrill of Halloween night. It’s part psychology, part cultural commentary, and 100% Halloween fun, a mix of reflection and revelry that explores what our favorite spooky holiday says about us. Tune in, laugh a little, and maybe see your costume choices in a whole new light. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this inspiring episode, we sit down with Christy Whitman, the bestselling author of The Flow Factor, to explore how anyone can tap into their inner power to create a life of purpose, abundance, and ease. Christy unpacks the core principles of her book — blending spiritual wisdom with practical tools to align your energy, thoughts, and emotions with what you truly desire. We dive deep into the Law of Attraction and the art of manifesting — why people are drawn to these practices, the transformation they can bring, and the underlying science of energy and mindset that makes them work. Christy explains how shifting from resistance to flow can change not just your outer circumstances, but your inner experience of life itself. Whether you’re a skeptic or a believer, this conversation offers grounded insights, real-life examples, and a renewed sense of empowerment to create from a place of harmony rather than hustle. Christy Whitman is a transformational leader, intuitive channel, master coach, and two-time New York Times bestselling author who has spent over 25 years guiding people to heal, expand, and consciously create lives they love. She founded her business to solve a problem she once faced herself: despite external success, she felt disconnected, stuck, and unfulfilled. https://www.christyandthecouncil.com/about Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this inspiring conversation, Jeffrey Reynolds, author of Every Mile Matters, shares his deeply personal journey through cancer and the lessons he’s learned about resilience along the way. Together, we explore what it truly means to be resilient—embracing acceptance, cultivating a positive mindset, practicing gratitude, learning to accept help, leaning on spirituality, and finding the inner strength to keep moving forward even when the road is tough. Jeffrey draws powerful parallels between his experiences as an endurance athlete—running marathons, competing in triathlons, and achieving Ironman status—and the fight against cancer. Just as every mile of a race requires perseverance, so too does every step of survival. His story is a reminder that every mile matters, both on the course and in life. About Jeffrey Reynolds Jeffrey Reynolds, PhD, is the President and CEO of the Family and Children’s Association on Long Island, one of the region’s oldest and largest nonprofit organizations serving vulnerable children, families, seniors, and communities in need. A passionate leader and advocate, he brings both his professional expertise and personal story to inspire others to face life’s greatest challenges with courage and determination. Learn more about Jeffrey and his work at www.everymilematters.com . Support Jeffrey's Empire State Building Run-Up With Team NYU Langone: https://bit.ly/4pVQi1Q Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

Stacy and Heather chat with Renee Haber, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who specializes in treating PANS (Pediatric Acute-Onset Neuropsychiatric Syndrome) and PANDAS (Pediatric Autoimmune Neuropsychiatric Disorders Associated with Streptococcal Infections). PANS/PANDAS is a neuroimmune condition where infections in the body can trigger sudden, severe psychiatric symptoms—often misdiagnosed as anxiety, depression, OCD, and other mental health disorders. Renee explains how she works therapeutically with children and families while guiding them to the right physicians for accurate screening and treatment, what parents, educators, and clinicians need to look for, and why early recognition is essential for positive outcomes. If you or someone you know has ever faced a sudden onset of mental health symptoms that didn’t quite add up, this conversation could provide the missing piece. Contact Renee Haber, LCSW and learn about her foundation: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/renee-haber-merrick-ny/306435 More info and resources : https://pandasnetwork.org/ Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this episode, we dive into the cultural conversation around gender identity and the growing use of they/them pronouns. Why are kids pushing back against traditional gender roles? Why does it spark so much fear and resistance from parents? And what does it actually mean when a young person is exploring their identity outside of old binaries? We unpack the anxieties, the myths, and the realities behind this shift, while asking: how can families respond in ways that encourage authenticity instead of fear? This isn’t just about pronouns—it’s about breaking free from indoctrination, rethinking identity, and allowing kids to find themselves in a rapidly changing world. Disclaimer: When discussing cases, Stacy and Heather will change details around to hide identities of patients so it is not possible to detect who they are discussing, keeping things vague and partially fiction for privacy compliance. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this episode, we explore why artificial intelligence, no matter how advanced, can never replicate the transformative power of human therapy. While AI offers quick validation and instant responses, therapy is far more than problem-solving — it’s a nuanced process rooted in trust, transference, and the healing relationship between client and clinician. We discuss how true therapeutic growth comes from the corrective emotional experiences only a trained therapist can provide. Unlike AI, therapists navigate the complexities of human emotions, guide clients through deeper exploration, and foster lasting repair that technology simply cannot replicate. Join us as we unpack the risks of relying on AI for mental health support, the dangers of reducing complex human struggles into simplistic solutions, and why the human connection at the heart of therapy remains irreplaceable. AI might give an instant simplistic response, but it cannot heal. Disclaimer: When discussing cases, Stacy and Heather will change details around to hide identities of patients so it is not possible to detect who they are discussing, keeping things vague and partially fiction for privacy compliance. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

Social media isn’t just a distraction; it’s shaping how our kids see themselves, handle conflict, and form relationships. As they head back to school, it’s not enough to pack their backpacks. We need to equip them emotionally and mentally to navigate the digital world. In this essential episode, I break down how to help your kids build real resilience, set healthy boundaries, and handle the pressures of online life before they walk back into those school hallways. This isn’t a “nice to know”; it’s a “must know.” Join us! Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this episode, we journey to a galaxy far, far away to explore the very real psychology behind fandom. Using Star Wars as our launchpad, we dive into the emotional draw of expansive fictional universes and why they resonate so deeply with us. From analyzing iconic characters to unpacking the societal nuances reflected in their stories, we ask the timeless question: why do people do that? Our guest, Kristine McPartlin — host of @MindtheForce , a podcast dedicated to examining mental health through the lens of Star Wars—joins us for a thoughtful conversation on how fiction mirrors reality. Together, we explore how connecting with characters helps us connect with ourselves and each other, and why fandom isn’t just escapism — it’s a way of exploring humanity. Whether you're a lifelong Star Wars fan or simply curious about the power of storytelling, this episode invites you to look deeper into the stories we love—and what they reveal about us. Check out "Mind The Force" podcast with Kristine at this link here - https://www.mindtheforce.com/ Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast

What happens to faith when the unimaginable happens? In this powerful and heartfelt episode, we sit down with Minister Elder Empress, who opens up about her faith journey after the devastating loss of her son. Together, we explore the sacred and often silent struggles of motherhood—mom guilt, generational trauma, identity, and the unbearable weight of grief. She shares how leaning into faith and cultivating a healthy belief system became her lifeline—a source of purpose, resilience, and a way to reframe even the darkest moments. This conversation is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the healing that can come from surrender, belief, and community. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this powerful and timely episode, I sit down with Suffolk County Legislator Rebecca Sanin to discuss the critical importance of the upcoming local elections and the often-overlooked role local government plays in shaping our daily lives. But the conversation goes much deeper than politics—we explore the current political climate and the growing divide across the country. Rebecca brings thoughtful insights into what’s fueling this polarization, from cognitive dissonance and fear to the breakdown of meaningful communication. Together, we unpack how individual citizens can take small but impactful steps toward bridging the divide, fostering unity, and building a more harmonious society. We dive into the tough questions: How do we have unifying conversations in such a tense environment? What does it take to truly listen to — and understand — those we may not agree with? And how can we find common ground without compromising our values? Whether you're politically active or just trying to make sense of the world around you, this episode offers a refreshing, hopeful, and grounded perspective on how we move forward — together. https://www.rebeccasanin.com/ Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this powerful and timely episode, we explore the roots of Pride—where it started, why it began, and what it truly means to be seen, validated, and supported. More than a celebration, Pride is a lifeline, especially for those in marginalized communities who are too often erased or targeted. We look at the mental health impacts of visibility, the weight of erasure, and the strength that comes from being recognized for who you are. As we navigate today’s hostile political climate—from surging anti-LGBTQ+ legislation to the dangerous rhetoric amplified on social media—we reflect on how the fight for equality has come full circle. With a focus on the trans community and the ongoing assault on their rights and humanity, we examine how Pride remains as essential today as it was a century ago. This episode is a call to remember, to resist, and to rise together. We are pleased to invite you to this informative conversation with some of the management team, Hunter Coggins, LMSW, and Andi Frobosilo, LMSW, from PFY to discuss their experiences working directly with the LGBTQ+ community. PFY is located on Long Island, but these resources exist across the country. Below are some resources for those in need. You’re not alone. PFY https://www.liccpfy.org/ National Hotline https://988lifeline.org/ The Trevor Project https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this deeply insightful and honest conversation, I sat down with licensed sex therapist Heather Simonson, LCSW, CST, CSE, ERYT, RPYT (Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sexuality Educator, Reiki Master, and Registered Yoga Teacher (specializing in kids and pre/postnatal) to explore some of the most vulnerable and often unspoken challenges couples face around intimacy. We dive into what happens when partners have mismatched libidos, how self-esteem and body image shape our sexual experiences, and why desire often fades after having children. We also unpack the layers of shame tied to sexuality—especially for women—and the societal conditioning that makes it hard for many to express what they truly want. From infidelity to the importance of safety in asking for what you need, we cover the complex emotional terrain of modern relationships and sexuality. Whether you're in a long-term relationship, navigating post-baby intimacy, or just curious about how to better understand your own desires, this episode offers real talk, compassionate insights, and practical wisdom. Heather's contact info: seachangehwc.com Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

Do you sometimes feel your child's successes—or failures—reflect directly on you? You're not alone. In this episode, we explore the powerful, often unconscious ways parents project their unresolved issues onto their children. When we see our kids as extensions of ourselves, we may inadvertently make them responsible for our self-worth, tying their achievements to our value and fearing judgment through their choices. This dynamic can disrupt a child’s developing identity, strain the parent-child bond, and contribute to anxiety, confusion, and even depression—for both parent and child. Together, we'll unpack how these patterns form, how to recognize when you're slipping into them, and how to begin shifting toward a healthier, more supportive relationship with your child. You'll learn how to tell the difference between truly encouraging your child versus subtly projecting your unmet needs onto them. If you're ready to break the cycle and parent from a place of clarity and compassion, this episode is a powerful first step. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this episode, we dive into the world of Reddit’s Am I the A**hole?—not to pass judgment, but to unpack the deeper emotional layers behind a few standout posts. As licensed therapists, we explore why people turn to the internet for validation, what their stories reveal about human behavior, and why things are rarely as black and white as they seem. Spoiler: Even when someone seems like the a**hole, there’s usually a lot more going on! Let’s talk about nuance, empathy, and the messy beauty of being human. Everyone has a story, and no one is ever “just an a-hole!” Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

In this episode, we sit down with toy expert Jonathan Alexandratos to explore the profound role that toys play in our lives, far beyond childhood. From self-expression to identity formation, toys are vessels that help us explore parts of ourselves not yet fully realized. We unpack how the evolution of toy design and accessibility has deepened our connection to play and how these small objects carry big meaning. Whether nostalgic or forward-looking, our relationship with toys reveals more about us than we might expect. Jonathan Alexandratos is a New York City-based writer, professor, and toy scholar. They were featured in the Emmy-nominated documentary "Billion Dollar Babies: The True Story of the Cabbage Patch Kids" and teach at Queensborough Community College and Sarah Lawrence College. Order Jonathan's book, "Articulating the Action Figure: Essays on the Toys and Their Messages" on Amazon - https://amzn.to/44zh5Zr And Jonathan's latest book "Free with Every Kids' Meal: The Cultural Impact of Fast Food Toys" on Amazon - https://amzn.to/3EtK7zb Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

Social workers are the backbone of countless communities, showing up in hospitals, schools, courtrooms, shelters, and beyond—wherever there is need, there we are. In this special episode, we celebrate the vast and vital profession of social work by speaking with dedicated professionals from across the country. From child welfare to hospice care, from policy advocacy to crisis intervention, we explore the many ways social workers create change, provide support, and uplift lives. We’ll also take a journey through the history of social work, reflecting on its roots and evolution, and honoring the legacy of those who paved the way. As Margaret Mead so powerfully said, “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” Bios of our amazing guests: Michelle Baeza, LMSW, has been working in the field of mental health for 16 years. She received her bachelor's in sociology from the University of Tennessee in 2008 and took some time off school to gain some experience in the field. She returned for graduate school at the University of Tennessee College of Social Work in 2012 and graduated in 2015 with her MSSW. While in graduate school, she was the president of Phi Alpha, the College of Social Work National Honor Society. After graduating, she received her LMSW in August of 2015. For the first 7 years of her career, she worked in the mental health field. She then transitioned to working with individuals that have intellectual and developmental disabilities along with a mental health disorder; she has been working in that specialty for the past 9 years. In this time, she has been working to help with the development and expansion of programs specific to working with individuals with intellectual and developmental disabilities in multiple states. Along with the development, there has been work to help to educate the community about the gaps in care and awareness of the need for services. In the past 9 years, Michelle has worked alongside the state as well as the Medicaid providers for ongoing collaboration in the development of different levels of care and identifying ongoing needs in the communities. Elizabeth Eckhardt, PhD. In addition to being Director of the Nassau County Bar Association's Lawyer Assistance Program, Dr. Elizabeth Eckhardt has had a private psychotherapy practice for 30 years. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/elizabeth-eckhardt-east-northport-ny/363928 https://www.nassaubar.org/lawyer-assistance-program/ Pamela Lowell, MSW, LICSW, has treated complex emotional trauma for almost four decades. She has served as a clinical director, consultant, and trainer for minority-operated not-for-profit agencies. She is an avid birder, watercolor artist, and award-winning author. After a kayak trip to a local osprey estuary in 2022, she began painting large watercolors of those raptors, their nests, and platforms and donating them to local nature organizations. This experience culminated with her writing My Summer with Ospreys: A Therapist’s Journey toward Hope, Community, and Healing our Planet,” complete with her original watercolor sketches. Her website is http://www.pamelalowell.com and Instagram is @palwrites. Mike Crum is a former Marine with a bachelor's and master's in social work and near completion of his doctorate in social work. For the last 10 years, Mike has worked in suicide prevention at a community and macro level, educating about the needs of service members and veterans. Mike's work within the Army National Guard has led to training thousands of soldiers in resilience and suicide prevention and education. Mike currently works to address protective and risk factors for the Army National Guard and informs leadership how to curb trends on topics like suicide, domestic violence, sexual assault, abuse, and neglect. Mike currently lives in Florida, where he enjoys the sunshine and beach! People can connect with me here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/smichaelcrum/ Heidi Hill, LCSW Heidi is a clinical social worker specializing in trauma and transgender care. She prides herself on the use of evidence-based practice with a solution-focused lens. In her 20 years of practice, she has worked in many institutions, to include community-based care, EAP, and active-duty military care. Adriana Dewitt, LCSW is a licensed social worker in Ohio specializing in trauma. She follows the principles of listening, believing and validating all her clients and prides herself on providing a safe and inclusive space to help people process those difficult memories and to break free from the shadows of trauma. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/adriana-dewitt-middletown-oh/1334916 Nadia Cheddie, LCSW Nadia is currently employed at Pilgrim Psychiatric Center full-time as a Utilization Review Coordinator and part-time at DASH as a social work therapist. Her passion is to provide services and healing to individuals that have endu

School refusal has become an epidemic, skyrocketing since COVID and the rise of social media’s influence on children. As licensed clinical social workers working with families facing this challenge, we sit down with special education attorney Susan Deedy, Esq., ( https://www.susandeedylaw.com/ ), to unpack the many reasons kids are avoiding school—and, more importantly, what can be done about it. In this episode, we provide a roadmap for parents, educators, and therapists, covering both therapeutic approaches and legal rights. What are your child’s rights when it comes to school refusal? What should schools be doing to support students? What steps should parents take to address the issue before legal action is necessary? Join us as we discuss how collaboration—rather than conflict—between parents, schools, and mental health professionals can help struggling children return to the classroom successfully. Don’t miss this crucial conversation. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

Wouldn't it be great if we could actually harness happiness just from changing the way we think? Well... we actually can. There is science-based research that explains how shifting our mindset into a place of gratitude manipulates the neurotransmitters in our brains, creates new neural pathways, reduces stress hormones and creates a cognitive restructuring of how our mind works. That's right! Simply ( we know this may not feel simple) by changing our inner headlines, we do have the power to live happier and more fulfilled lives. We know this is not as easy as it sounds. There can be hurdles in the way, and this can even feel invalidating if you are going through something hard. Please join us as we get into the details of just how this all works and how to practice gratitude even in times of darkness. Let's move into gratitude together and reduce the stress, anxiety, and depression that we may be facing in our lives. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com

Calling all the Mommas! (Don't worry dads.. we get around to you also) Mom guilt?! What are we doing ladies? We at the "Why Do People Do That" podcast insist that we all come together to bring about change. Starting today! Join us in our heartfelt and passionate conversation about the root causes of mom guilt. We go on a journey through time and explore a deeper understanding of the definition of guilt, the societal journey of gender roles, expectations moms put on themselves and others, as well as steps we can all start taking today to bring about change. We have spent enough time torturing ourselves for no reason and it is time to start putting the oxygen mask on for our own good. Not because everyone else needs us, but simply because we are entitled to breathe! A healthier life balance and permission to exist on your own priority list starts today. Join us! Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com #momguilt #mentalhealth #mommyguilt #parenting #parentsarepeople #momprenuer

People often use the phrase, "time heals all wounds." In reality, time can certainly heal many wounds, but sometimes time alone is not enough. A more accurate truth is that in time, all wounds can heal. When trauma hits, we can sometimes process through and heal naturally. The mind is resilient and miraculous and new neural pathways are forming everyday paving the way for healthy movement forward. Sometimes, however, we are stuck. Trauma is stored in the body and triggers bring us back into the reliving of past events that have not moved through us into healing on its own. In this podcast, we will have an informed discussion about what trauma is, how it is stored within the body, how it shows up, and most importanty, how to support the movement forward we desire with appropraite professional guidance. Join three experienced trauma informed therapists in an eye opening conversation that will help you to understand trauma in a way that fosters better understandng and the opportunity toward healing. Pauline Walfisch, LCSW, owner of group psychotherapy practice, Helping Hands Psychotherapy (HHPtherapy.com) and certified EMDR therapist joins the conversation to share brilliant insights about trauma, trauma informed care, and the amazing world of EMDR (eye movement desensitization and reprossesing.) Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com #trauma #traumainformedcare #EMDR #therapy #PTSD

Join us in this discussion with divorce mediator, Gina Pellettieri, Esq. https://ginapellettieri.com/ as she helps us unravel what trends are showing up in the world of divorce. We come together to share stories and insights around issues underlying break ups in society today. (As well as the surprising realization that Valentine's Day seems to bring on a break up surge!) Is V Day now break up with your partner day? Join us on this journey as we explore how gender roles, communication breakdowns and generational trauma all play a role in whether people are likely to stay or leave unhealthy relationships. You may also learn a little bit about divorce mediation, how it benefits your family and how that differs from traditional divorce with two battling attorneys. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com #divorcemediation #divorce #breakups #relationships #valentinesday #valentinesdaybreakup #generationaltrauma

Sometimes we get stuck in the grieving process and develop maladaptive patterns that do not serve us. Join us in our stories where we share the symptoms, blocking beliefs and unhealthy patterns that can emerge from complicated grief. From war to suicide to ealry childhood loss, we uncover several examples of what causes complicated grief, how to identify it and what to do. "Why Do People Do That" host", Stacy Pellettieri, shares her story of losing her sister at the age of 3 and Tania DuFour, trauma nurse and former podcast guest, joins the conversation to explore the very complicated and painful realities of suicide from her rral life experience. Watch this episode on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@WhyDoPeopleDoThat Visit our website: https://whydopeopledothat.com/ If you'd like to contact Stacy and Heather or learn more about their practices, visit the following sites: Long Island Counseling Services - www.longislandcounselingservices.com District Support Services - www.districtsupportservices.com ADHD Training Center - www.adhdtrainingcenter.com Follow the "Why Do People Do That?" Podcast on social media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/whydopeopledothatpodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61569908326130 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@whydopeopledothatpodcast This episode was produced at Press Record Studios in NYC: www.pressrecordstudios.com #suicide #complicatedgrief #blockingbeliefs #grief #bereavement #siblingloss #mentalhealth