Relationships Uncomplicated

AI is officially in the room. In this roundtable, I sit down with our Relationship Experts team to unpack how tools like ChatGPT are showing up inside real relationships. We explore Dr. Shirley Glass's "walls and windows" model and ask a crucial question: Is AI helping you open the window between you and your partner, or is it becoming a new window that pulls you farther apart? You will hear clinical stories, practical guidelines, and a simple litmus test to make sure AI supports connection instead of replacing it. In this episode Why AI feels so validating and why that can be risky for couples "Walls and windows" explained for the AI era Two roles AI often plays in relationships Replacement companion that siphons emotional energy away from your partner "Judge of facts" that fuels suspicion and confirmation bias A healthy use case that actually deepens connection Four therapist-approved guidelines to use AI wisely without eroding trust Timestamps 00:00 Welcome, and why we are talking about AI now 02:18 Program note and invitation for a free 45-minute consultation 03:55 Walls and windows model applied to AI 06:55 When AI becomes a "perfect listener" and the partner gets sidelined 17:20 AI as the "decider of truth" and how that inflames anxiety 19:52 A pro-connection use case: AI helps find your own words of appreciation 22:35 Key distinction: AI as a tool to foster connection, not replace it 24:32 The "easy dopamine" problem and the investment mindset 31:34 Why AI cannot deliver the art of therapy or real human presence 44:40 It is not about quick answers, it is about the therapeutic process 51:55 Is turning to AI a form of micro-betrayal 56:18 Quick self-check questions to keep the window between you open 58:04 Final guidelines and takeaways Key takeaways Sharing equals connecting. When sharing shifts from your partner to AI, disconnection grows over time. AI can validate feelings quickly, but overuse can replace the effort that builds intimacy. Be cautious when you ask AI to "decide facts" about your partner. Limited inputs plus anxious questions often return fear-confirming answers. A healthy use of AI is as a tool that helps you find your own words so you can show up better with your partner. Think like an investor. Put time and vulnerability into the relationship that gives real returns. Mentioned in the episode Not "Just Friends" by Dr. Shirley P. Glass — the "walls and windows" model that helps couples protect the boundary around their relationship. Concepts discussed: confirmation bias, emotional investment, human presence in therapy. If you are healing after infidelity This episode is sponsored by It's Okay to Stay , our 8-week infidelity recovery coaching program that combines a step-by-step online roadmap with personal one-on-one work with an Affair Recovery Specialist. If you want to stay together and heal, schedule a free 45-minute consultation : iditsharoni.com/45 . We will understand your situation and see if the program is right for you. Disclaimer This podcast is educational and is not therapy. It does not substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment.

Forgiveness after infidelity is one of the most complicated—and misunderstood—parts of healing. Many couples ask: "Can I ever truly forgive this betrayal?" In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated , I sit down with Ana De La Cruz, LMFT —one of our expert therapists at Relationship Experts and a researcher currently writing her PhD dissertation on forgiveness. Together, we take a deep dive into what forgiveness actually means in the aftermath of an affair, how it differs from reconciliation, and why it matters so much for couples who want to rebuild. You'll hear us talk about: What forgiveness really is (and isn't) when it comes to infidelity. The crucial difference between forgiveness and reconciliation. Why "cheap forgiveness" often fails and how to avoid it. The role of consistency, transparency, and accountability in making forgiveness possible. How forgiveness can be learned and practiced, even if it feels impossible right now. Why forgiveness is not a prerequisite for healing but often an outcome of true reconciliation. If you've ever wondered whether forgiveness is possible—or worried that you have to forgive in order to heal—this conversation will give you clarity, compassion, and hope. ✨ Take the Next Step: At Relationship Experts, we guide couples through our structured It's Okay to Stay infidelity recovery program. If you're in the painful aftermath of an affair and don't know where to turn, we invite you to schedule a free 45-minute consultation with one of our program specialists. 👉 Learn more and schedule your free consultation here

Finding the right help after infidelity can feel overwhelming. When you're in the middle of heartbreak, trust issues, and emotional exhaustion, the last thing you need is more confusion about who to turn to for support. In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated , I'm sharing exactly how to recognize trustworthy, effective help after betrayal — and how to avoid the wrong kind of "experts" or programs that can set your healing back. You'll learn: What the right kind of help after infidelity looks like Why choosing wisely early on makes all the difference A step-by-step approach to searching for support Red flags to watch for when reviewing websites or programs How to prepare for a consultation so you leave with clarity, not more confusion This is one of those episodes you may want to listen to twice and even take notes on. And to make it easier, I created a free guide called Vetting Your Path Forward: How to Find the Right Help After Infidelity (and Avoid the Wrong One) . No email required — just download it here: iditsharoni.com/vetting 💛 If you're ready to take the next step, you can also schedule a free 45-minute consultation with our program specialist to see if our Infidelity Recovery Program is the right fit for you: iditsharoni.com/45 You deserve real, qualified help — and a path forward you can trust.

You don't need to have all the answers to begin healing. In this powerful and compassionate episode of Relationships Uncomplicated , Idit Sharoni, LMFT, is joined by Program Specialist and therapist Alana Tokayer, LMFT, to answer a question many hurt partners silently ask: "Is it even worth starting the healing process if I'm not sure I want to stay?" We explore why uncertainty is a completely normal—and expected—part of the aftermath of infidelity, and how beginning the healing process can actually lead to the clarity so many partners are searching for. ⏱ Episode Timestamps: 00:02 – Why uncertainty after infidelity is normal Idit introduces the topic and explains how common it is for hurt partners to question whether healing is worth it when they're unsure about staying. 04:24 – The emotional duality of betrayal Alana describes the emotional seesaw many hurt partners experience—feeling both deep pain and lingering love—and why that doesn't mean something is wrong with you. 08:20 – Why you don't need to decide before you begin Idit explains how healing often leads to clarity, and that deciding to stay is not a requirement to start the recovery process. 14:40 – How healing helps clarify what's possible Alana shares the metaphor of the fogged-up window and how clarity emerges from experience—not from overthinking or pressure. 22:25 – The difference between being remorseful and acting remorseful Idit outlines what true remorse looks like and how an unfaithful partner can appear unremorseful even if they feel regret. 🎙 In this episode, you'll hear: Why feeling unsure is normal and human after betrayal The emotional duality of still loving someone who hurt you Why you don't need to decide whether to stay before beginning healing What leads to real clarity (hint: not overthinking!) How unfaithful partners can act remorseful, not just feel remorse Why trust is not a requirement to begin healing—it's the result of the process Tips for couples sitting in the "gray zone" of uncertainty 💬 Real talk and examples you'll relate to: Alana shares a moving story of a client named Jenna (name changed), who was completely stuck on the question of whether to stay or go. Through the healing process, without pressure, she found the clarity she was searching for—not all at once, but step by step. 💡 Key Takeaways: Feeling uncertain about staying after infidelity is completely normal. You don't need to decide before you begin—healing can be the pathway to clarity. Trust and remorse can grow with the right support and guidance. You're allowed to hold the question and begin healing at the same time. 🛠 Tips for Navigating Uncertainty: Set a short-term healing intention (2–3 months of guided work) Find expert help trained in infidelity recovery Build a safe, small support system Be patient and kind with yourself—you're not supposed to know everything right now 💬 This episode is sponsored by: It's Okay To Stay – Idit Sharoni's complete infidelity recovery coaching program for couples who want to rebuild trust and heal after betrayal. 📆 Book your FREE 45-minute consultation to see if this program is right for you: 👉 iditsharoni.com/45 🔗 Resources: Learn more about the Infidelity Recovery Program: iditsharoni.com Book your consultation with a program specialist: iditsharoni.com/45 🔔 Subscribe so you never miss an episode. 📩 Share this with someone who may be sitting in that same place of uncertainty.

When news broke that tech CEO Andy Byron was allegedly caught in an intimate moment with his HR chief Kristin Cabot at a Coldplay concert, the headlines exploded—and so did public judgment. But what happens when we step away from the gossip and look at the human reality underneath? In this episode, Idit Sharoni, LMFT, and our team of licensed infidelity recovery experts at Relationship Experts, offer a grounded, non-sensationalized discussion of what we're calling the "Coldplay Affair." We dive into the emotional, relational, and societal layers of this story—from how betrayal impacts all parties involved, to the harm of public shaming, and why American culture often gets these stories wrong. You'll hear us explore: The quick and ruthless public reaction: no judge, no jury, just instant verdicts Gossip vs. Reality: what the headlines don't show How high-profile relationships and careers create "relational atomic bombs" when betrayal is exposed The quiet pain of hurt partners, often made worse by public humiliation Why it's time to stop acting shocked and start understanding the complexity of infidelity We're not here to gossip. We're here to talk responsibly, with compassion and realism. If you're tired of the toxic spin on infidelity stories, this conversation will feel like a breath of fresh air. Resources Mentioned: Learn more about our Infidelity Recovery Program – It's Okay to Stay: https://iditsharoni.com/infidelity-recovery-program Schedule a free 45-minute consultation with one of our specialists: https://iditsharoni.com/schedule Listen to more podcast episodes: https://iditsharoni.com/podcast Connect With Us: Instagram: @therelationshipexperts Website: https://iditsharoni.com 🎬 Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to the Coldplay affair discussion 02:28 Meet the experts: Idit, Yael, and Ana introduce themselves 04:02 The Byron-Cabot affair and the idea of a "relational atomic bomb" 06:19 Why this situation is different: public exposure and professional implications 08:13 Social media virality and gloating: modern public shaming 10:10 The "quickest trial on earth": judgments without context 12:09 Moral superiority and the myth of "those people who cheat" 14:35 Digital courtrooms and the cultural impact on infidelity recovery 16:32 The ripple effect of betrayal on relationships and society 18:52 Judgment vs. empathy: what defines us after mistakes 20:41 Personal messages to current and future clients feeling triggered 22:47 What are these couples really going through behind the scenes? 25:04 The emotional crisis of both hurt and unfaithful partners 27:32 Public judgment and the deep shame of staying after betrayal 28:55 Wider impact on families, children, and the healing process 31:16 What would we say to the couples involved if they're listening? 32:09 Messages of hope, protection, and the right to privacy 35:50 How to build a safe emotional cocoon after betrayal 37:54 This is a trauma: validating what they're experiencing 40:05 Infidelity is a relational issue, not just an individual one 41:33 Final thoughts: Let it stay their business 42:41 Closing wishes and wrap-up Tags: infidelity recovery, Coldplay affair, Andy Byron, relationship podcast, public shaming, affair recovery, cheating, marital betrayal, relationship experts, It's Okay to Stay, affair fallout

If you or your partner are navigating the aftermath of infidelity and wondering whether the sexual behavior involved was really "sex addiction," this episode is a must-listen. In Episode 86, I'm unpacking one of the most common and confusing questions couples face after betrayal: Is it sex addiction—or is something else going on? We'll explore: Why "sex addiction" is not a recognized mental health diagnosis in the DSM-5 The risk of mislabeling sexual behavior and missing the deeper emotional drivers What the Out of Control Sexual Behavior (OCSB) model is and why it offers a more compassionate, effective path forward Actionable next steps for couples dealing with out-of-control sexual behavior—including excessive porn use or secretive sexual activity This episode is especially supportive for couples who want to move beyond shame, blame, or one-size-fits-all labels and into real, values-based healing. 💛 Ready to take the next step in your healing? Book a FREE 45-minute consultation to learn how our It's Okay to Stay Infidelity Recovery Program can help you rebuild trust, restore connection, and create something new—together. 👉 Schedule your consultation here: iditsharoni.com/45

When infidelity is revealed, the hurt partner often experiences a deep sense of disorientation and a desperate need for answers. Many ask: Do I need to know every detail to heal—or am I just digging deeper into more pain? In this episode of Relationships Uncomplicated , Idit Sharoni is joined by Dr. Yael Haklai-Neagu to explore a phase many couples get stuck in after betrayal: the forensic data collection phase . This is when questions about the affair—ranging from timelines to explicit details—dominate the recovery process, sometimes for months or even years. Together, they discuss: Why the urge to gather every detail is completely normal What it looks like when this phase becomes a barrier to healing How to know if you're still seeking coherence or getting stuck in the pain Real-life examples of couples navigating this phase Actionable steps to help you move forward, even when not all the answers are there This episode offers clarity, compassion, and a gentle roadmap out of a phase that often feels endless. Whether you're the hurt partner or the unfaithful partner, you'll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to shift from stuck to supported. If this episode resonates with you and you're ready for expert guidance, we invite you to schedule a free 45-minute consultation to learn more about our infidelity recovery program, It's Okay To Stay . Visit iditsharoni.com/45 to get started.

In this eye-opening episode, Idit Sharoni, licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in affair recovery, dives into one of the most common mistakes couples make after infidelity: postponing the healing process. It's easy to fall into the trap of thinking that time alone will heal the wounds of betrayal, but the truth is, avoiding the hard work of healing can leave lasting scars on your relationship. From lingering pain and resentment to recurring trust issues, skipping this crucial step can silently erode your connection over time. In this episode, Idit explores why healing after infidelity is non-negotiable, the hidden costs of avoidance, and how to take meaningful steps toward rebuilding trust and intimacy. Whether you're in the early stages of recovery or feeling stuck in a "good enough" relationship, this episode offers hope, clarity, and actionable advice to help you move forward. What You'll Learn in This Episode: What the "stabilization trap" is and how it can keep couples stuck after infidelity. The long-term risks of postponing healing, including unresolved pain, resentment, and recurring infidelity. Why time alone doesn't heal wounds—intentional effort does. How to rebuild trust and connection through open communication and shared goals. Actionable steps to start the healing process and prevent future issues. Common fears about healing after infidelity and how to overcome them. Who This Episode is For: Couples who've chosen to stay together after infidelity but feel stuck in their healing journey. Hurt partners struggling with lingering pain or trust issues. Unfaithful partners looking to understand how to rebuild trust and connection. Anyone curious about the process of affair recovery and how to create a stronger, healthier relationship. Key Takeaways: Time doesn't heal all wounds—effort does. Healing requires intentional action and commitment from both partners. Avoiding healing has hidden costs. Lingering pain, resentment, and a lack of trust can quietly damage your relationship over time. Rebuilding trust is possible. Open communication, emotional processing, and a shared vision for the future are key to creating a stronger relationship. Resources and Links: Ready to take the next step? Check out my affair recovery program, It's Okay to Stay and book a free consultation. Check it here: Affair Recovery Program Missed Episode 80: "How to Rebuild Trust After Infidelity"? Listen here: Episode 80 Curious about Episode 78: "Can Conventional Couples Therapy Help you Heal from Infidelity"? Catch up here: Episode 78 Read this show's blog post Read it here

Are you struggling to heal after an affair when your partner isn't fully remorseful? Join us for this eye-opening episode of "Relationships Uncomplicated," where host Idit Sharoni, LMFT, along with experts Dr. Yael Haklai-Neagu and Ana De la Cruz, delves into whether couples can recover from infidelity without genuine remorse from the unfaithful partner. Can a relationship truly heal under these conditions? Tune in to find out! In this episode, we discuss: The crucial role of remorse in the healing process Strategies for dealing with partial or absent remorse Real-life examples and metaphors that illustrate the complexities of infidelity and remorse How to create a roadmap to healing even in challenging situations Don't miss this engaging and insightful conversation that could transform your understanding of infidelity recovery. Ready to take the next step? Check out our Infidelity Recovery Program: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/affair-recovery-program Consider scheduling a 45-minute transformative consultation: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/consultation Read the show notes in a blog: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/can-trust-be-rebuilt-after-infidelity-without-full-remorse/ Follow us on social media for more insights and updates: Instagram: [Your Instagram Handle] Facebook: [Your Facebook Page] Twitter: [Your Twitter Handle] If you found this episode helpful, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with others who might benefit from our insights. Thank you for listening, and remember, healing is possible with the right guidance and support.

🎙️ Welcome to Episode 82 of the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast! In this episode, titled "Overcoming Biases in Infidelity Recovery," host Idit Sharoni, LMFT delves into a topic that's often overlooked but profoundly impactful: the biases surrounding infidelity. 💔 Infidelity doesn't just shake the foundation of relationships—it's the aftermath, the fallout, and the biases that can color our perceptions and decisions. Join Idit as she explores this complex issue with therapist Alana Tokayer, MS, who brings a unique perspective gained from working closely with couples navigating the aftermath of infidelity. 🔍 Together, they uncover societal norms, personal experiences, and therapist biases that shape our understanding of infidelity and its aftermath. Discover why biases towards leaving or staying after infidelity exist, and learn valuable insights into advocating for yourself, whether with friends, family, or therapists, as you navigate the complexities of healing after betrayal. 🍵 Grab your favorite beverage, get comfy, and tune in to this enlightening conversation on bias in the aftermath of infidelity. Don't forget to subscribe to the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast for more insightful discussions on relationships and healing. Important links: Infidelity Recovery Program: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/affair-recovery-program Free 45-minute consultation: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/consultation Affair Recovery Website: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com Main website: www.relationshipexperts.com Show notes: https://relationshipexpertsonline.com/surviving-infidelity-overcoming-bias-in-the-aftermath If you found today's episode valuable, consider leaving a like, comment, and subscribing to our channel for more content. Thank you for joining us on this journey of understanding and healing. #RelationshipsUncomplicated #InfidelityRecovery #SelfAdvocacy #BiasAwareness

In this episode of the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast, host and affair recovery expert Idit Sharoni, LMFT delves into the intricate process of navigating healing when both partners have been unfaithful. Titled "A Guide to Joint Recovery When Infidelity Strikes Both Ways," Idit explores the complexities of mutual infidelity, where betrayal isn't confined to one side. Drawing from her experience as an affair recovery expert, she shares insights on how couples can overcome this challenging situation and rebuild their relationship. Through compassionate storytelling and practical advice, Idit highlights the unique opportunities for growth and healing that arise from shared experiences of betrayal. Join her as she empowers listeners to navigate the aftermath of mutual infidelity with resilience, empathy, and hope.

If you and your partner are navigating the challenging journey of affair recovery, understanding how to rebuild trust after infidelity is crucial. In this episode, we delve into the intricate process of earning back trust that has been lost in a relationship. Join us as we explore the evolution of the concepts of blind trust versus open-eyed trust, drawing from experiences working with couples healing from infidelity. Our discussion takes a unique turn as we question the commonly used term "rebuilding trust" and introduce a more nuanced perspective inspired by an enlightening article by trust expert Rachel Botsman. To shed light on this profound shift in perspective, we are joined by Dr. Yael Haklai-Neagu, one of our lead therapists at Relationship Experts. Together, we unravel the differences between rebuilding and earning trust in the aftermath of infidelity. We draw insights from Botsman's groundbreaking ideas, emphasizing the importance of collaboration in the trust dynamic. Dr. Yael shares her thoughts on the critical roles of the Trust Giver (the hurt partner) and the Trust Receiver (the unfaithful partner) in the healing process. The discussion extends to the obstacles that can hinder trust-building, such as entitlement and unyielding rejection. We explore the delicate balance required from both partners, acknowledging the collaborative effort needed for genuine healing. Central to our conversation is the distinction between trust as a belief and trust as behavior. We explore actionable tips on how the unfaithful partner can act in trustworthy ways, including transparency, accountability, and consistency. The episode concludes with practical do's and don'ts for couples seeking to earn trust after infidelity, emphasizing the importance of allowing trust to be earned and acting in consistent, intentional, and trustworthy ways. Whether you're in the midst of affair recovery or seeking insights into trust dynamics, this episode provides valuable guidance on the journey to rebuilding and earning trust. Join us as we navigate the complexities of trust in the aftermath of infidelity and offer practical steps for couples looking to heal and move forward. [Listen to the full episode on the podcast for a deeper exploration of trust dynamics and actionable tips for affair recovery, or read the full blog post .]

In this intriguing podcast episode, the topic of love and betrayal takes center stage, prompting us to explore the complex dynamics that arise when the people we cherish deeply hurt us. Idit Sharoni hosts her team of experts in order to shed a light on this topic. She begins with asking Alana Tokayer, a Marriage & Family Therapist and Program Specialist to describe what she notices with couples in the aftermath of infidelity grappling with this question. Alana sets the stage by highlighting the profound impact of betrayal when it comes from someone we consider our best friend, our everything. As a therapist, Alana has witnessed couples grappling with the aftermath of infidelity, and the burning question always lingers: "How can someone who loves me betray me?" This inquiry lies at the heart of the episode, as it dives into the intricacies of understanding the coexistence of love and betrayal in modern relationships. Alana is joined by a team of experts, including Yael Haklai-Neagu and Ana De la Cruz, both licensed Marriage & Family Therapists specializing in relationships and affair recovery. Together, they shed light on how partners can make sense of the painful dilemma caused by infidelity. Throughout the episode, the team offers valuable insights and tips for coping with this conundrum, emphasizing the importance of questioning assumptions and challenging thought patterns that hinder healing. They discuss how love and betrayal can coexist, urging listeners to reconsider their perceptions of loyalty and love. The episode concludes with three practical tips for healing after infidelity, shared by Alana, Ana, and Yael. These tips emphasize the significance of intentionality, open-mindedness, and reframing one's perspective to navigate the challenging journey of rebuilding trust and love after betrayal. Listeners are left with a thought-provoking exploration of the complex interplay between love and betrayal in relationships. The episode encourages us to reevaluate our beliefs about loyalty, love, and the potential for healing and growth after experiencing infidelity. If you're seeking guidance on affair recovery or intrigued by the intricate dynamics of love and betrayal, this podcast episode promises valuable insights and a deeper understanding of these complex emotions. Read the show notes Learn about our Infidelity recovery Program Schedule a free 45-minute consultation See our website

Have you wondered whether conventional couples therapy can help you heal from infidelity? Is it effective for infidelity recovery ? Do you want helpful options in the aftermath of infidelity or an affair recovery? You aren't alone. Unfortunately, there isn't much information out there to truly educate struggling couples. Though it seems that conventional or traditional couples therapy is the only way to go, there are more options to explore. Let's discuss your infidelity recovery choices here in this episode. Important links: Infidelity Recovery Program Schedule a free Consult

You don't want to miss this article. In fact, I can't believe we haven't talked about this before. Why? Because this topic is too important to skip. What I'm about to share with you has a way of hiding in the shadows of too many relationships… First, you probably know that infidelity happens for all kinds of reasons. Sometimes it has to do with the relationship, sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it's a combination of both. What you might not know is that, in the majority of cases, there is a "silent killer" lurking between partners for months, even years before infidelity ever happens. It's called conflict avoidance. How does something this destructive go undetected? Because it feels natural, even good at times. Yet, it has the power to gradually and quietly disconnect partners completely. Fortunately, your relationship is not at the unavoidable mercy of this hidden relationship problem. I'm here to help you understand what conflict avoidance is, what it does, and how you can stop it. Listen to this episode to learn more. Click to take our Conflict Avoidance Self Check Visit the podcast show notes page.

We are very excited and thankful to interview psychotherapist and hypnotherapist Douglas Flemons, Ph.D., LMFT. Both Yael (my co-host for this episode) and I, having had the opportunity to learn from him in different capacities, greatly appreciated Dr. Flemons's willingness to meet with us and share his valuable message. We discuss hypnotherapy, what it is, how it helps our clients, and how change can happen effortlessly. Click here for the show notes Links mentioned in this episode: The Heart and Mind of Hypnotherapy: Inviting Connection, Inventing Change - Dr. Flemons recent book Infidelity Recovery Free 45-min Consultation

Idit Sharoni interviews Terry Real who is an internationally recognized family therapist, speaker, and author. He is the founder of the Relational Life Institute and wrote THE book on male depression. Idit & Terry discuss therapy in the aftermath of infidelity and his newest book US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship where Terry reveals how individualism and patriarchy poison our most intimate relationships. This is part 2 of 2 parts. Link to show notes Link to the book

Idit Sharoni interviews Terry Real who is an internationally recognized family therapist, speaker, and author. He is the founder of the Relational Life Institute and wrote THE book on male depression. Idit & Terry discuss relationships, individualism, couples therapy, and his newest book US: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship where Terry reveals how individualism and patriarchy poison our most intimate relationships. This is part 1 of 2 parts. Link to show notes Link to the book

Are you wondering if you're healing at a normal pace? Well, in this episode I will not be telling you how long you and your spouse "should" be taking to heal. Instead, I'll provide you with tools to make an educated estimate based on important variables. Links mentioned in this episode: Infidelity Recovery Program consultation It's Okay To Stay recovery program Program reviews & testimonials

What makes a therapist a relationship expert? How can you make sure that you're hiring the most qualified relationship expert to help you save your marriage ? We can all agree that not all therapists are relationship experts. Moreover, there are those who call themselves relationship experts who are not therapists. Listen to relationship expert Idit Sharoni discussing how to be clear about who can offer adequate services to help your marriage. Links: Schedule an Infidelity Recovery Program Consultation Show notes

Are you hurting badly now and wondering whether infidelity pain will ever go away? Are you concerned about what life will be like after you heal? This is not unusual. This, or some form of this line of thinking, is a concern both hurt and unfaithful partners share. This is particularly true for couples who are trying to heal and go back to normal. Even that very word, " normal," can be triggering. So many questions and concerns come up for couples and to help get some answers, I talked things through with a guest therapist. Tune into this episode to learn tips to better handle the aftermath of the aftermath of infidelity. You are also invited to learn more about our infidelity recovery coaching program . If you like what you read, schedule a 45-minute free consultation to see if it would be the best fit to enhance your healing process. Links mentioned in this episode: 45-minute Infidelity Recovery Coaching Program Consultation Yael Haklai-Neagu, LMFT - senior couples therapist at Idit Sharoni - Relationship Experts Episode #68: How to Recover From Infidelity PTSD State of Affairs - book by Esther Perel

In this episode relationship expert Idit Sharoni discusses the symptoms of infidelity PTSD including intrusive thoughts and how to help your hurt partner get past the triggers. She also shares about whether it is even possible to help a hurt partner with this and the do's and don'ts around that.

I recently met with Dr. Marie Murphy on her podcast, Your Secret is Safe With Me to discuss how an affair recovery program can help couples in the aftermath of infidelity. We also shared about how unfaithful partners can get help ending affairs or making decisions on how to proceed with an ongoing affair. Dr. Marie and myself discuss the most difficult shame ridden topics that most do not even try to understand about infidelity and betrayal. We look at the multidimensionality of relationships and the healing after infidelity.

One of the most common yet difficult issues hurt partners experience in the aftermath of infidelity is post trauma symptoms or PTSD. I interview relationship expert Yael Haklai-Neagu, LMFT who specializes in helping hurt partners handle their intrusive thoughts and Hypervigilance as a result of their partner's affair or betrayal. As a certified hypnotherapist, Yael shares tips and ideas about how you can utilize hypnotherapy to recover. This Episode is Brought to you by It's Okay To Stay Program - A Roadmap to Healing After Infidelity by Idit Sharoni, LMFT Links Mentioned in this episode: Yael Haklai-Neagu's Webpage - Yael is an expert team member at Idit Sharoni - Relationship Experts, a private practice offering marriage counseling, couples therapy, and affair recovery programs.

In the aftermath of infidelity, what does a hurt partner need most? What comes to mind? Most people, unfaithful partners, or even therapists routinely answer the same way: hurt partners need true remorse from the betrayer, to forgive, and to know why among other things. Of course, these are all true and important. Yet, the more fundamental and vital concern any betrayed partner needs to be addressed is for their pain to be heard . Relationship expert Idit Sharoni shares 6 tasks hurt and unfaithful partners can start implementing right now to facilitate hearing the pain. Episode Sponsor: This episode is sponsored by Idit Sharoni's infidelity recovery and healing program: It's Okay To Stay. 'It's Okay to Stay' is a complete 8-week coaching program that involves an online roadmap course and one-on-one work with an affair recovery specialist. If you have faith in your relationship, if you want to stay together, and heal— Idit is offering a 45-minute free consultation for couples who want to save their relationship after infidelity and need expert guidance. Schedule your free consultation today at www.iditsharoni.com/45 *Both partners have to be present for the consultation. Episode Full Blog Post: https://iditsharoni.com/what-hurt-partners-need-most-in-affair-recovery/ Links mentioned in this episode: The Monogamy Myth . Not Just Friends