Modern Mom Probs

In this heartfelt episode, Tara welcomes therapist, author, and podcast host Dr. Cassidy Freitas to share her personal journey through parenthood and her expert insights on navigating postpartum challenges. They dive into how childhood and cultural legacies shape modern parenting styles, often triggering cycles of stress and control. Dr. Cassidy explains how systemic issues, social media, and even AI impact modern motherhood, making it harder than ever to find balance. Drawing from her book Mom Needs a Moment, Dr. Cassidy offers highly practical strategies for creating protected boundaries and margins amidst the daily chaos of digital-era lives. She explains how to identify personal triggers, regulate reactions, and cultivate deep self-compassion. The episode also highlights the significance of personal space, offering invaluable resources for both parents and therapists looking to foster authentic well-being. Whether you are navigating the vulnerable early days of a newborn or managing the complexities of the teenage years, tune in to discover how to unpack stressful cycles, embrace vulnerability, and build deeper, more meaningful connections with your children and yourself. Links: https://www.drcassidymft.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drcassidy/ https://amzn.to/3TaCu7S

How do you turn life’s darkest, most chaotic moments into comedy? In this episode, internet sensation, comedian, and author Laura Clery joins the show for an incredibly candid conversation about resilience, vulnerability, and the transformative power of humor. Laura takes us behind the scenes of her journey from Chicago to Los Angeles, sharing how she found her unique voice through unapologetic storytelling and "over-sharing" on her rise to capturing over 26 million followers. Together, Tara and Laura dive into the unbelievable story of her miraculous survival after a refrigerator fell on her, exploring both the deep physical and mental toll of unexpected trauma and how comedy became her ultimate tool for processing pain and finding a path forward. They also explore the creative process behind Laura’s new book "What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Hotter" discussing how she successfully balanced raw, vulnerable writing with the signature humor her fans adore. Beyond the laughs, Laura opens up about the complex realities of navigating public life, setting essential boundaries as a mother and a survivor of addiction and abuse, and managing the intricate dynamics of co-parenting and divorce in the relentless spotlight. Laura offers a powerful, funny, and deeply human reminder of how resilience can shape our coping mechanisms, proving that when we find the courage to laugh through the chaos, we reclaim our power. This one is a must-listen! Links: https://www.tiktok.com/@lauraclery https://www.instagram.com/lauraclery/ https://amzn.to/3Rhddbt

Motherhood is a wild ride, and honestly, sometimes you just have to laugh so you don't cry. This week, Tara sat down with comedian, actress, and podcast host of Funjelah, Anjelah Johnson-Reyes for a deeply relatable chat about marriage, babies, and everything in between. Anjelah shared her incredible journey from NFL cheerleader to viral comedy sensation, but she also gets raw about the less glamorous side of things, like newborn survival mode and the pressure on modern moms. Together, she and Tara spoke about finding your village, surviving the social media noise, and keeping the spark alive in a long-term marriage. Anjelah also shared about the inspiration behind her new comedy special called Ugly Baby, now on YouTube. Packed with laugh-out-loud stories and genuine honesty, this episode feels less like a formal interview and more like catching up with a close friend who just gets it. It’s funny, it’s real, and it’s a great reminder that none of us are doing this perfectly. Links: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3bvkoxZ6xcw https://anjelah.com/ https://www.instagram.com/anjelahjohnson/

In this episode, Tara sits down with media trailblazer Angela C. Santomero, the creator behind some of the most beloved educational children's programming, such as Blues Clues and Daniel Tiger's Neighborhood, to discuss what kids really need to thrive in today's fast-paced, screen-filled world. Drawing from decades of experience in child development and storytelling, Angela shares how intentional media can help children build confidence, emotional resilience, and problem-solving skills while offering parents practical strategies to navigate modern parenting with less pressure and more purpose. Both Jersey girls, Tara and Angela even discuss their time at Nickelodeon and their love of pizza! Together, Tara and Angela explore everything from the inspiration behind Angela's newest children's book series, Princess Penelope’s Purse of Preposterous Things, to the evolving role of screens in childhood, the power of hitting pause before reacting, and why parents don't have to strive for perfection. If you've ever wondered how to raise emotionally resilient kids in a digital world without feeling overwhelmed yourself, this episode is for you. Links: https://princesspenelope.com/ https://www.youtube.com/@PrincessPenelopeOfficial https://www.instagram.com/angelasclues

What does it mean to build the family that's right for you, even when it doesn't fit society's expectations? In this episode, Tara sits down with Jacqueline Stein, founder of Only Hearts Club, to explore the realities of raising an only child, navigating outside opinions, and finding confidence in your parenting decisions. Jacqueline shares how a simple Facebook group grew into a thriving global community for mothers of only children and why creating meaningful connections beyond traditional family structures matters more than ever.Together, Tara (an only child with an only child) and Jackie unpack the myths surrounding only-child families, the pressure many moms feel from relatives, social media, and cultural expectations, and how self-awareness and authenticity can help moms tune out the noise. They discuss sibling dynamics, chosen family, mental health, and the evolving definition of family in modern motherhood. Whether you're raising an only child, considering your family size, or simply looking for reassurance that there's no one "right" way to parent, this conversation is for you! Links:www.instagram.com/theonlyhearts www.theonlyhearts.com

What happens when a joke about beige baby clothes turns into a cultural phenomenon? In this episode, Tara sits down with content creator, satirist, and author Hayley DeRoche, the internet's beloved voice behind the viral "Sad Beige" commentary. What began as playful observations about muted nursery décor and monochromatic baby wardrobes quickly evolved into a deeper conversation about modern motherhood, social status, consumer culture, and the pressures parents face online. Hayley shares the inspiration behind her book, Dress Your Baby in Sage and Taupe, and explains why the "Sad Beige" aesthetic resonated with millions of parents. Together, Tara and Hayley explore how social media algorithms shape parenting trends, the ways capitalism influences the choices we make for our families, and why certain parenting aesthetics can function as subtle markers of class and identity. With equal parts humor and insight, this conversation unpacks the performative nature of parenting in the digital age and challenges listeners to think critically about the messages they're consuming and buying into. Whether you've laughed at a Sad Beige video or found yourself wondering why parenting feels like a competition sometimes, this episode offers a fascinating look at the intersection of internet culture, motherhood, and modern society. Links: https://www.hayleyderoche.com/ https://amzn.to/3SaRvGa https://www.tiktok.com/@sadbeige https://www.instagram.com/officialsadbeige

In this episode, Tara welcomes OB-GYN and author, known as @theperioddoctor, Dr. Charis Chambers to explore how parents can revolutionize their approach to talking about puberty and menstruation, fostering respect, confidence, and health in adolescents. Dr. Charis shares powerful insights from her new book and experience, emphasizing early, honest, and ongoing conversations as the cornerstone of positive change. Key topics: - The importance of early and consistent puberty education - Overcoming generational shame and secrecy around periods - Building trust and respect through open dialogue - How parental reactions shape children’s body image and confidence - Practical tips for talking about menstruation with children and teens - The role of trusted adults and resources, including the Little Words Project bracelet - Addressing misconceptions and gaps in medical and educational systems - The impact of societal and cultural influences on puberty conversations - Strategies for parents of boys to support understanding of menstrual health - The importance of balancing digital connection with mindful presence Tune into this episode if you want to have a different (more empowering) conversation with your children than your mother had with you! Links: https://www.instagram.com/theperioddoctor https://amzn.to/4euBJhZ https://www.youtube.com/@ThePeriodDoctor

In this heartfelt episode, Tara sits down with authors Liz Swenson and Alessa Martin to discuss the deeply personal journey behind Trying, a powerful book created to support those navigating infertility, pregnancy loss, and the often-overlooked emotional challenges that accompany them. Liz and Alessa shares the inspiration behind the book, the importance of telling honest stories, and how creating space for these experiences can help individuals feel less isolated in their grief and uncertainty. They explore the emotional impact of fertility struggles and the need for greater compassion and understanding around these topics. The conversation also offers valuable insight into how friends, family members, and communities can better support loved ones facing infertility and loss. Liz, Alessa and Tara discuss the healing power of connection, the role of emotional support in the journey to parenthood, and why destigmatizing these experiences is so important. Whether you're personally navigating fertility challenges or looking to better support someone who is, this episode provides encouragement, understanding, and hope. Links: https://clubtrying.com/ https://www.instagram.com/clubtrying/

In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Tara welcomes trauma-informed therapist and author of Lonely AF: A Therapist's No-BS Guide to Feeling Less Alone Dr. Sylvia Kalicinski discusses the growing loneliness epidemic impacting mothers, young adults, and families everywhere. Dr. Sylvia shares how modern life, social anxiety, postpartum struggles, and the pressure to “do it all” have left so many people feeling disconnected from themselves and others. Through personal stories and practical insights, she reframes loneliness not as a personal failure, but as an invitation to build deeper self-awareness and more meaningful relationships. Her reminder, “You are doing an amazing job, you weren’t meant to do it all,” deeply resonates with overwhelmed parents and caregivers.Throughout the conversation, Tara and Dr. Sylvia explore the emotional realities of early motherhood, the stigma surrounding postpartum rage, and the powerful role micro-social interactions play in emotional health. Dr. Sylvia also introduces her HEART method, a framework designed to help people regulate emotions, strengthen self-connection, and foster authentic community in an increasingly isolated world. From the lasting social effects of the pandemic to the invisible emotional wounds many people carry, this episode offers compassionate encouragement and actionable tools for anyone seeking deeper connection and healing. Links: https://amzn.to/4nLi9kx https://drsylviak.com/ https://www.instagram.com/drsylviak/

In this episode, Tara chats with Caitlin Wilder, a full-spectrum doula, lactation counselor, podcaster and founder of Wilder Beginnings, for an honest conversation about the realities of postpartum life that so many moms are experiencing, but few people openly talk about. Caitlin shares why managing expectations in motherhood can make such a difference during the postpartum season, especially in a world where social media often paints an unrealistic picture of what life with a new baby should look like. Tara and Caitlin talk about embracing imperfection, giving yourself permission to slow down, and how lowering your expectations during postpartum can actually reduce stress and support your mental health. Caitlin also dives into the importance of trusting your maternal instincts and learning to respond confidently to your baby’s cues instead of outside noise. They discuss the impact technology and social media can have on new moms, why limiting social media use during postpartum may protect your peace, and practical advice for moms navigating life with multiple children. Whether you are preparing for your first baby or adjusting to motherhood all over again, this conversation is filled with reassuring reminders, grounded parenting tips, and encouragement to trust yourself through every stage of the motherhood journey. Links: https://www.wilderbeginnings.com/ https://www.wilderbeginnings.com/podcast https://www.instagram.com/wilderbeginnings/

For this episode, Tara is handing the mic over to Mika Altidor and Julie Lokun, hosts of the awesome show Get Obsessed, which is also on the Bleav Network. This episode is an interview with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, the real-life ex-wife of Jordan Belfort, famously portrayed by Margot Robbie in The Wolf of Wall Street. While Hollywood glamorized the excess, Dr. Nadine reveals the hidden truth — the emotional and psychological abuse, manipulation, and trauma that came with life behind the movie. What You’ll Learn in This Episode - The real story behind The Wolf of Wall Street — beyond fame and fortune. - The psychology of abuse and how to recognize toxic patterns. - How Dr. Nadine Macaluso turned her trauma into a powerful message of healing. - Why Hollywood’s portrayal missed the emotional depth of her reality. - Actionable advice on healing after trauma, rebuilding confidence, and setting boundaries. - How to move from victimhood to victory — and reclaim your power. About Dr. Nadine Macaluso Dr. Nadine Macaluso is a licensed marriage and family therapist, trauma expert, and author who helps individuals heal from abusive and narcissistic relationships. Once married to infamous stockbroker Jordan Belfort, Nadine’s story inspired Margot Robbie’s character in The Wolf of Wall Street. Today, she uses her platform to raise awareness about emotional abuse, trauma bonding, and post-traumatic growth. ️ Learn more about Nadine’s work here: https://www.drnadinemacaluso.com ️ Follow Nadine on Instagram: @drnadinemacaluso Get Obsessed Podcast Instagram: @getobsessedpodcast Website: www.getobsessedpodcast.com The Hosts Julie Lokun: www.bigbetterbrand.com | www.bigbetterbrand.co Mika Altidor: www.victormikabakery.com Who are the hosts of Get Obsessed? The show is hosted by Julie Lokun, a branding expert and writer, and Mika Altidor, a successful entrepreneur and co-owner of Victor & Mika’s Bakery. Together, they explore the passions, habits, and mindsets of people who are "obsessed" with excellence. What is the "Get Obsessed" philosophy? We believe that greatness comes from a healthy obsession. We highlight entrepreneurs, authors, and thought leaders who tell it like it is and provide actionable advice to help our "Obsessors" level up their lives. How can I be a guest on the show? We are always looking for dynamic voices! You can apply directly through our dedicated guest portals at www.getobsessedpod.com or www.getobsessedguest.com. Where can I find Julie and Mika outside of the podcast? Julie leads brand strategy at Big Better Brand, while Mika continues to innovate in the culinary world via Victor & Mika’s Bakery. You can find their full bios and business links in the show notes above!

In this thought-provoking episode, South African journalist, former CNN anchor and host of the “Searching for America” podcast, Robyn Curnow brings her unique global perspective to the conversation as she unpacks the fascinating realities of American culture, societal norms, and what it means to truly understand a country from both the inside and out. Drawing from her experiences reporting around the world and now living in the US, Robyn shares eye-opening observations about modern life, media consumption, and the ways our daily habits shape how we see ourselves and each other. Robyn also opens up about parenting teenagers in today’s fast-moving world and how raising independent, thoughtful kids requires intention, trust, and perspective. She discusses the impact of social media, constant news cycles, and outside pressures on today’s youth, while offering practical advice for helping teens develop confidence and critical thinking skills. From navigating family life to embracing nuance in a polarized world, this episode is packed with wisdom and meaningful takeaways for modern parents. Links: https://www.robyncurnow.net/ https://bleav.com/shows/searching-for-america-with-robyn-curnow/ robyncurnow.substack.com

Motherhood is a wild ride: equal parts magic, mess, and muttering “what now?” In this episode, Tara is joined by Taylor Wolfe, comedian, content creator and author of Just a Busy Season, for a heartfelt conversation about parenting through those busy seasons of motherhood. Taylor opens up about her motherhood journey, the inspiration behind her book, and how humor has become one of the most reliable survival tools in the parenting toolkit. They dive into the mental load modern moms carry, from the pressure of social media’s perfectly filtered parenting moments to the challenge of balancing self-care while caring for everyone else first. Taylor shares personal stories about navigating grief, including the loss of beloved dogs, particularly her dog Vinny. It’s honest, comforting, and full of reminders that you don’t need to have it all together. If you’ve ever laughed so you wouldn’t cry, this episode is for you. It’s like listening in on a private conversation between Tara and Taylor. Links: https://www.instagram.com/thedailytay/ https://www.thedailytay.com/ https://amzn.to/4n9PpBZ

In this episode, Katie Kimball, award-winning speaker, author and podcaster, shares a refreshing and practical approach to parenting teens, centered on building independence, confidence, and real-life capability. She explains why the teen years don’t have to feel chaotic if a strong foundation is laid early, and how a gradual release of responsibility, from toddlerhood through adolescence, can set kids up for success. Katie walks through simple systems families can implement to foster independence, including managing chores, creating routines, and encouraging decision-making, all while shifting toward an “external locus of control” that empowers teens to take ownership of their own challenges. The conversation is packed with actionable strategies, from teaching essential life skills like cooking and time management to motivating teens through their own interests, especially when it comes to food. Katie also dives into the impact of screen time on teen mental health and offers guidance on creating healthier boundaries around technology. She shares insights from her work teaching over 400 life skills through hands-on learning experiences, and highlights the powerful role of community and shared responsibility among families. This episode is a must-listen for parents who want to raise capable, confident teens without constant power struggles. Links: https://raisinghealthyfamilies.com/ https://www.instagram.com/raisinghealthyfamilies/

In this thought-provoking episode, Tara chats with journalist and author Fortesa Latifi to unpack the complicated world of influencer culture through the lens of her new book, Like, Follow, Subscribe. Together, they explore the rise of family vlogging and the often-blurred lines between sharing and oversharing, especially when children are involved. Fortesa shares how a viral story she wrote for Teen Vogue sparked a deeper investigation into the financial incentives, ethical gray areas, and emotional realities behind influencer parenting. From staggering earnings to the quiet cost of constant visibility, this conversation pulls back the curtain on what it really means to build a life (and a livelihood) online. Tara and Fortesa also dive into the pressures facing modern mothers in the age of social media, where expectations can feel both amplified and unattainable. They discuss how community and connection can coexist with isolation, and how cultural influences shape the identities of influencers and their audiences alike. Rather than offering black-and-white answers, this episode invites listeners to embrace nuance and ask more thoughtful questions about the content they consume and create. It’s an honest, eye-opening conversation that challenges us to rethink what we value, what we share, and at what cost. Links: https://amzn.to/42jwpXS https://www.instagram.com/hifortesa/

In this inspiring episode, Tara sits down with Libby Ward, the author behind Honest Motherhood: On Losing My Mind and Finding Myself to talk about what it really means to show up as a mom without the filters. Libby shares her powerful journey from feeling overwhelmed by the mental load of motherhood to building a platform rooted in radical honesty and authenticity. They dive into the pressures moms face to “do it all,” how social media can both help and harm, and why telling the truth about motherhood can be a catalyst for connection, healing, and real change. They also explore the intersection of motherhood and social justice, and how raising kids with awareness and intention can help break generational cycles. Libby offers thoughtful insights on self-care, parenting with purpose, and redefining what it means to be a “good mom.” This conversation is a refreshing reminder that you’re not alone and that embracing radical honesty might just be the most powerful parenting tool we have. Links: https://libbyward.com/ https://libbyward.com/honest-motherhood-book https://www.tiktok.com/@libbywardofficial https://www.instagram.com/libbyward

In this empowering episode, Tara sits with Dr. Rachel Goldman, clinical psychologist and author of When Life Happens: The Mindset Shift You Need to Manage Stress, Build Confidence, and Break Free to talk about what it really takes to navigate life’s inevitable ups and downs. From unexpected challenges to everyday stressors, Dr. Rachel shares how shifting your mindset can be the key to moving forward instead of feeling stuck. Her practical insights offer a refreshing, real-life approach to building resilience, especially in seasons that feel overwhelming. As both a working mom and a mental health expert who has shared a stage with Oprah and Mel Robbins, Dr. Rachel reminds us that thoughts, feelings and behaviors are connected, and by changing one, you can change the others. As part of a conversation on body image, they recount a story about Tara's creative bathing suit choices that eventually made it into the book. If you've ever felt "stuck" during life's challenges, this episode is for you. Links: https://www.drrachelnyc.com/ https://amzn.to/4ecclxE https://www.instagram.com/drrachelnyc/

In this insightful conversation, Tara sits down with sisters, podcast hosts, and co-founders Anne Pizzuti and Kate Doerksen to explore the powerful story behind Sage Haven, a safer messaging platform for children born out of real-life experiences with cyberbullying and the growing challenges of navigating digital life. They open up about the pivotal moments that pushed them to take action, and how those experiences shaped their mission to create a space where kids can connect more safely while giving parents greater peace of mind. Tara shares a personal story about the dangers of group chats. Together, they dive into the bigger picture of digital safety, mental health, and the delicate balance families are trying to strike with technology. From the limitations of traditional parental controls to Sage Haven’s innovative nudges and safety features, Kate and Anne share how they’re rethinking what healthy tech use can look like for the next generation. This conversation offers both practical insight and a hopeful perspective for parents seeking to raise digitally aware, confident, and protected kids in an increasingly connected world. Links: https://sagehavenforkids.com/ https://sageparents.org/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/sage-sisters/id1778502058

In this thoughtful and refreshingly honest conversation, Tara Clark sits down with Katie Mulvaney to unpack the layered realities of weight loss, health, and motherhood. Together, they move beyond the oversimplified “eat less, move more” narrative and explore how mindset, identity, and daily habits truly shape long-term wellness. Katie shares insights from her book The Missing Links to Weight Loss, reframing the idea that the “missing link” isn’t another diet or program, but often a deeper understanding of ourselves. From navigating busy mom schedules to redefining what health looks like on an individual level, this episode offers a grounded and empowering perspective.Tara and Katie also dive into the subtle but powerful forces influencing modern moms from mindless eating and time scarcity to the pressures of consumerism and comparison. They highlight the importance of micro habits, community support, and treating personal health as a non-negotiable “glass ball” that deserves protection. Listeners will walk away with practical, realistic strategies for integrating movement into everyday life, along with a renewed sense that small, consistent shifts, not perfection, are what lead to meaningful, lasting change.Links:https://www.amazon.com/Missing-Links-Weight-Loss/dp/B0GJFX8VPGhttps://www.instagram.com/missinglinkshealth/

In this insightful episode, Eli Weinstein, relationship therapist, author, and host of The Dude Therapist podcast, joins the conversation to unpack the realities of modern parenting and partnership. Drawing from his work and his book From I Do to We Do: Navigating Marriage In The Parenting Years, Eli explores the often-overlooked transition from being a “dude” to a fully engaged dad, and why parenting works best when it’s approached as a true team effort. He sheds light on how unspoken expectations can quietly build resentment between partners, and why shifting from an “us vs. them” mindset to a united front is essential for a healthy family dynamic. Throughout the conversation, Eli emphasizes the power of open communication, emotional awareness, and mutual support in navigating both parenting and relationships. He discusses the importance of creating a “protective bubble” around the partnership, acknowledging the emotional load carried by both parents, and finding a version of balance that works for your unique family, rather than comparing to others. With honesty and practical insight, this episode serves as a reminder that strong relationships don’t just happen; they’re built through intentional effort, understanding, and a commitment to doing the work together. Links: https://www.eliweinsteinlcsw.com/ https://www.eliweinsteinlcsw.com/book https://www.instagram.com/eliweinstein_lcsw/?hl=en

In this candid conversation, Ali Prato, journalist, author, and host of the Infertile AF podcast, opens up about her deeply personal journey through secondary infertility, including several miscarriages before ultimately welcoming her son through IVF. Feeling isolated and frustrated by the lack of honest dialogue and resources around infertility, Ali transformed her experience into advocacy, launching her podcast to share real stories and build a supportive community for others navigating similar paths. She also discusses the creation of the Fertility Rally, a powerful space designed to connect and uplift people facing infertility. Ali and Tara explore why open conversations about fertility are so essential to reducing stigma and helping families feel less alone. Ali also shares how her children’s books aim to normalize discussions around assisted reproductive technology and modern family building. The conversation expands into broader modern parenting challenges, from navigating technology and social media to raising kids in an increasingly high-pressure world, while emphasizing the importance of honesty, empathy, and community support when talking with children about their origins and family stories. If you are experiencing infertility, listen to this episode and remember you are not alone. Links: https://www.infertileafgroup.com/ https://www.infertileafgroup.com/books https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/infertile-af-infertility-and-modern-family-building/id1457516002 https://www.instagram.com/fertilityrally/ https://www.fertilityrally.com/

In this honest and energizing conversation, Tara sits down with Tyler Moore, known online as Tidy Dad, to talk about what it really means to raise a family in a world obsessed with perfection. Tyler opens up about how his own mental health journey led him to organization, and why decluttering isn’t just about having a picture-perfect home. It’s about creating peace. They dive into the pressure modern moms feel to maintain Instagram-worthy spaces, how social media fuels unrealistic comparisons, and why the concept of “just enough” living might be the permission slip so many of us need.Tyler shares practical, doable strategies for overwhelmed parents, starting with a powerful mindset shift, organize yourself before you organize your family. They discuss why communication around clutter matters, how parents must take ownership of what enters their homes, and why decluttering can actually be therapeutic. Most importantly, Tyler reminds us that balance doesn’t come from meeting society’s expectations. It comes from honest conversations, self-awareness, and building rhythms that work for your unique family. If you’ve ever felt buried under stuff (or standards), this episode will feel like a deep, cleansing exhale. Links: https://thetidydad.com/ https://thetidydad.com/qrbook https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tidy-tidbits/id1816271318 https://tidydad.substack.com

In this episode, Tara sits down with Sydney Quiseng of Echosmith for an honest, grounding conversation about music, identity, and parenthood. Sydney opens up about the joy and anticipation she feels as she prepares to become a mom, and how that season inspired her newest song, “That’s My Baby (On Main Street).” Tara and Sydney talk about the evolution of her sound toward a more coastal-country feel, the role nature plays in her creativity, and how past songs like “Cool Kids” were born from her own journey toward self-acceptance. She also shares her deep love for Japanese culture and language, and how those influences quietly shape her artistry. Sydney doesn’t shy away from the real conversations, what it means to slow down, be present, and intentionally step back from work to bond with her baby. They dive into the complicated role the internet plays for modern parents, both as a lifeline and a source of anxiety, and why tuning into your own instincts matters more than ever. This conversation is a reminder that becoming a mother doesn’t end creativity. It transforms it, and Sydney is just beginning to imagine how this next chapter will show up in her music and her life. Links: https://www.sydneyquiseng.com/ https://www.instagram.com/sydneyquiseng

In this episode, Tara sits down with Cameron Normand of Stepfamily Solutions and host of the Stepmom Diaries podcast to unpack the realities of blended family life and why stepmoms face a unique (and often overlooked) emotional load. Cameron shares her own path into stepfamily coaching and explains why stepfamilies aren’t just “nuclear families with extra people.” They’re a completely different dynamic that requires patience, boundaries, and a lot of self-compassion. Together, they explore the mental health challenges stepmoms face, the impact of ex-partners, the emotional weight of transition days, and why striving to be the “perfect” stepmom is a fast track to burnout. This conversation is honest, validating, and full of reminders that doing your best doesn’t mean doing it all. If you’re a stepmom, love a stepmom, or are part of a blended family, this episode will make you feel seen and remind you that you’re not failing, you’re figuring it out. Links: https://stepfamilysolutions.com/ https://stepfamilysolutions.com/podcast/

FIRST AIRED APRIL 25, 2023 As parents, we often want to shield our children from the realities of the world, but it's ultimately impossible to do so. When children do hear about the news, it's important to have open and honest conversations with them. In this episode of the "Modern Mom Probs" podcast, Tara interviews Tracy Leeds Kaplan, the founder of Small But Mighty Media and creator of the popular podcast "The Ten News," about how to talk with children about the news. They discuss the importance of age-appropriate news sources for kids, the challenges of discussing sensitive topics, and the need for giving yourself space to be emotional. They also touch on the challenges of parenting in the digital age and finding time for family discussions. Tracy emphasizes the importance of listening and using age-appropriate language when discussing heavy news topics with kids. If you’ve ever been at a loss for words, listen to this episode. Links: https://www.thetennews.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ten-news-news-for-curious-kids/id1514325670 https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/for-the-grown-ups-how-to-talk-to-your-kids-about-gun-violence/id1514325670?i=1000607581233 Support the show • Follow & DM me @modernmomprobs • Pick up my book • Leave a review