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Why Having Fun is Essential for Men’s Mental Health
Dec 8, 2025·—
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This episode is a deep dive into why having fun is not optional for men’s mental health—it is the silver bullet that so many guys are missing. From the outside, men are told to grind harder, stay stoic, and carry everything alone, but inside, loneliness, stress, and emotional exhaustion are quietly stacking up. Having fun becomes a radical act of rebellion against isolation, shame, and emotional numbness. John and Will unpack how having fun and playful presence can pull men out of their heads and back into their hearts, bodies, families, and communities, opening the door to real connection, creativity, and relief. Loneliness in men is now recognized as a genuine health risk, not just a feeling to tough out, and it is strongly linked to anxiety, burnout, depression, and even physical illness. In this conversation, John and Will explore how lightening up and making space for joy can interrupt that spiral. When men stop treating life as a never-ending performance review and start allowing play, silliness, and hobbies that feel good, their nervous systems calm down, stress chemistry shifts, and it becomes easier to open up, reach out, and let people in. You’ll hear how simple practices—like reclaiming old passions, trying new playful activities, or bringing a sense of humor into daily routines—can build resilience and emotional flexibility. Research shows that enjoyable leisure and playful mindsets boost mood, sharpen focus, improve problem-solving, and enhance relationships, all of which are crucial for men who feel stuck, burnt out, or alone. This episode connects those insights directly to real life: how having fun with friends, partners, kids, or even solo can be the bridge from isolation to intimacy, from rigid seriousness to grounded presence. The tone is honest, unpolished, and real—no fake positivity, no macho posturing. If you’re a man feeling the weight of loneliness, or you love a man who seems checked out, this conversation offers both language and tools to shift the story. You’ll walk away with a new understanding of why having fun is not childish or trivial—it is a serious strategy for protecting men’s mental health, rebuilding friendships, and rediscovering what it feels like to be fully alive. Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 02:54 - Playfulness as a Tool for Connection 05:45 - The Consequences of Losing Playfulness 08:57 - Creativity and Brain Development 11:51 - Playfulness in Adulthood 14:51 - The Role of Fun in Mental Health 17:41 - Breaking Free from Societal Expectations 20:36 - Finding Joy in Everyday Life 23:41 - The Courage to Be Playful 26:53 - The Connection Between Play and Success 29:47 - Embracing Vulnerability and Fun 32:44 - The Adventure of Playfulness 35:28 - The Playful Spirit of Jesus 38:32 - Final Thoughts on Playfulness Hosted on Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

How to Improve Sleep Quality, Boost Recovery, and Calm Your Mind with Robert Sweetman
Dec 1, 2025·—
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If you’ve ever laid in bed wired, exhausted, and dreading tomorrow’s alarm, this episode is your playbook on how to improve sleep quality as a man who actually has things to do. In this no‑BS conversation, we dig into how to improve sleep quality so you can boost recovery, calm your mind, and stop feeling like you’re running on fumes. You’ll hear how to improve sleep quality using simple, repeatable habits instead of gimmicks, and why better sleep might be the most powerful “performance enhancer” you’re not truly using yet. Sleep is way more than closing your eyes; it’s your nightly reset for testosterone, mood, focus, and emotional resilience, and guys who short-change sleep pay for it with anxiety, irritability, weaker gains, and a higher risk of burnout and health issues. That’s why this episode with Sleep Genius founder and former Navy SEAL Robert Sweetman goes deep on practical sleep hygiene, stress management, and recovery tactics designed for high-performing men who still want to show up strong for their families, teams, and missions. You’ll learn how to lock in a consistent sleep schedule without feeling like a monk, how to set up a “sleep cave” that’s dark, cool, and distraction‑free, and how to use light, timing, and movement during the day so your brain actually wants to shut down at night. Rob unpacks battle-tested tools from elite environments—like deliberate wind‑down routines, mental off‑loading, breathing, and mindfulness—to help calm your mind before bed so you’re not replaying your to-do list at 2 a.m. You’ll also hear how better sleep accelerates muscle recovery, reduces injury risk, and improves decision‑making and reaction time, giving you an edge in training, career, and life. We link the science to real‑world habits you can use tonight—no magic supplements required. By the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear, simple plan for how to improve sleep quality, boost recovery, and calm your mind so you can wake up more energized, more grounded, and more dangerous—in all the right ways. Buy Robert’s book here - https://www.amazon.com/62Romeo-SLEEP101-Weeks-Sleep-Restoration/dp/B0F8MLZQM2 Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters: 00:00 - Introductions 02:50 - Rob Sweetman on Improving Sleep 12:19 - Sleep Hygiene and Mental Health 26:31 - How Light and Sound Affect Sleep 29:06 - Light, Sound, and Sleep Quality 32:29 - Brown Noise for Better Rest 33:50 - Noise, Temperature, and Sleep 37:50 - Building Consistent Sleep Routines 40:00 - New Sleep Solutions for the Military 41:58 - Developing Military Sleep Pods 43:37 - Better Sleep Tools for Warfighters 48:45 - Coaching High Performers on Sleep 52:02 - Common Sleep Disruptors 53:26 - Healthy Sleep Habits 58:11 - Sleep Tracking: Pros and Cons 01:01:06 - Why Deep Sleep and REM Matter 01:02:36 - How Meal Timing Affects Sleep 01:05:02 - Processed Foods, Obesity, and Health 01:07:27 - Intermittent Fasting Insights 01:08:51 - Eating Habits That Support Sleep 01:11:13 - Closing Thoughts and Giveaway Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

George’s Self-Discovery Journey: Letting Go of Control and Discovering My Truth with George Thompson
Nov 24, 2025·—
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Welcome to George’s Self-Discovery Journey —a raw, real conversation inspired by the acclaimed movie, The Subtle Art of Losing Yourself . In this episode, George blazes a trail through the wild Scottish Highlands, bringing to life the core themes of his transformational film. If you’re ready for something beyond the usual self-help chatter, this self-discovery Journey plunges you into discomfort and uncertainty—where letting go of control is the only way to discover your truth. George shares moments of falling apart and finding strength, trading comfort for courage. Be prepared for stories of surrender, of inner critics silenced in the mud and rain, and of what happens when you lose yourself to finally find what matters. No filters, no perfection—just the honesty of starting over, learning to cope, and the gritty reality of rediscovering yourself from the inside out. Whether you’re struggling with burnout, searching for meaning, or daring to break old patterns, let The Subtle Art of Losing Yourself be your invitation to real personal change. Here is the Youtube link to he Subtle Art of Losing Yourself : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9KArWcMldPM More about George and his work here: https://www.youtube.com/@George-Thompson Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. Looking for a great Speak or Coach - Jon Macaskill can help - learn more here: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jonmacaskill/ More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters: 00:00 – Introductions 03:00 – How Film Mirrors Personal Discovery 09:29 – Creativity, Presence, and the Filmmaking Flo 15:43 – Parts Work Explained & Our Link to Nature 24:09 – Staying Authentic While Creating Online 28:38 – Leadership, Purpose, and a Shifting World 29:32 – Finding Meaning in Service Through Social Platforms 32:02 – Responding to Criticism with Self-Affirmation 35:11 – The MMA Method for Daily Growth 36:06 – Rewriting Self-Image Through Affirmations 37:27 – Facing Fear with Presence and Mindfulness 40:13 – The Practice of Returning to the Present 41:51 – Nature, DNA, and Interconnected Life 46:11 – Holding Unity in a Dualistic World 48:27 – Personal Growth and Accepting the Self 51:01 – Vulnerability, Openness, and Community Connection Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

The Next Frontier in Healing: Ibogaine Therapy for TBI, PTSD, Depression and Addiction | Jonathan Dickinson
Nov 17, 2025·—
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Step into the next frontier in healing as we unravel the transformative world of ibogaine therapy in this groundbreaking conversation with Jonathan Dickinson of AMBIO Life Sciences. Ibogaine therapy isn’t just another trend—it’s a revolution for people who are ready to conquer TBI, PTSD, depression, anxiety and addiction. From the battlefield to the homefront, veterans and special operators are discovering how ibogaine therapy is changing everything they thought they knew about recovery, healing, and hope. With Stanford University’s groundbreaking research at the center of this episode, and the buzz from Netflix’s new documentary "In Waves and War," the world is finally waking up to how powerful ibogaine therapy can be. This documentary lays bare the real struggles and triumphs of veterans making the courageous choice to reclaim their lives—shining a spotlight on stories that echo everything Jonathan and AMBIO are living day after day. Get ready to challenge what you think about addiction and trauma as Jonathan shares with Men Talking Mindfulness the science, the stories, and the remarkable outcomes that make ibogaine therapy a true game changer. Whether you’re struggling with the invisible wounds of traumatic brain injury, haunted by memories, or fighting to break free from depression or addiction, ibogaine therapy might just be the lifeline you’ve been searching for. Hear how brave veterans and special operators stepped up as pioneers, partnering with Stanford to unveil the brain-healing, life-rebuilding power of ibogaine therapy. We dive deep into integration, mental wellness, and why men are flocking to ancient solutions like ibogaine therapy. This isn’t about magic bullets or shortcuts—it’s about stepping you’re of isolation, getting help, owning your journey, and finally healing. Welcome to a new era of recovery, one where courage and connection drive true healing. More about Ambio Life Sciences and your Work with Ibogaine here: https://www.ambio.life/ Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction 03:52 – Ibogaine’s Effects on PTSD and the Brain 08:59 – What Makes Ibogaine Healing 13:08 – Ibogaine’s Cultural Roots and Modern Use 18:24 – Ibogaine and the Ancestral Mind 24:50 – Compassion, Pain, and Ibogaine Recovery 30:15 – How the Brain Heals in Recovery 33:11 – Misconceptions About Ibogaine Therapy 38:05 – Global Legal Status of Ibogaine 44:41 – Inside the Ibogaine Treatment Journey 52:24 – Navigating Post-Psychedelic “Gray Days” 57:34 – Integration After Psilocybin 01:02:36 – High-Dose Ibogaine: Intensity & Control 01:04:17 – Staying Aware Through Ibogaine’s Intensity 01:09:28 – The Arc of Psychedelic Transformation 01:14:06 – Healing and Mindfulness in Chaos Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

How Meditation Turned a Green Beret into a Better Father, Leader, and Human Being | Chris Lee
Nov 10, 2025·—
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Meditation changed everything for Chris Lee. From Green Beret to father and high-performance coach, meditation wasn’t just a tool—it was a lifeline that helped Chris thrive on the battlefield and at home. In this episode, you’ll discover how meditation gave Chris an edge when pressure mounted, and how meditation helped him become a better leader, a more connected dad, and a genuinely fulfilled human being. Chris’s journey proves that meditation isn’t just about sitting still—it’s about transforming anger into calm, stress into resilience, and uncertainty into clear purpose. Hear real stories of how Chris Lee used meditation to push past old limits and unlock patience, clarity, and strength. He combines insights from elite special forces training with practical meditation advice fit for any man navigating work and family life. With hard-won lessons and a dose of humor, Chris shows us why meditation belongs in your daily routine—whether you’re chasing success, battling overwhelm, or simply looking to be a stronger, more present man. Dig into Chris Lee at: https://fieldofresilience.com/About or on his IG at: https://www.instagram.com/coach_chris.lee/?hl=en Timestamps : 00:00 - Introduction 01:48 - Engaging in Meditation 02:50 - One Breath Grounding Practice 03:32 - Chris's Journey to Meditation 04:11 - The Evolution of Chris's Practice 06:11 - Walking Meditation Insights 08:44 - Self-Compassion in Meditation 10:20 - Meditation's Impact on Relationships 12:14 - Realizing the Benefits of Meditation 14:40 - Transition from Military to Mindfulness 18:27 - The Need for Awareness 21:13 - Career Shift to Coaching 23:33 - Meditation as a Superpower 25:00 - The Journey to Inner Peace 27:25 - Removing Labels Through Meditation 30:02 - Resistance in Meditation 31:41 - Non-Doing in Meditation 34:18 - Finding Time for Meditation 36:02 - Tracking Progress and Metrics 39:15 - Mindful Choices and Alcohol 42:57 - Creating a Daily Meditation Protocol Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. Looking for a great speaker or Coach hit up Jon Macaskill at https://jonmacaskill.com/ More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Self-Doubt’s Grip on Men: Unpacking the Inner Battles and Paths to Personal Power
Nov 3, 2025·—
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Self-doubt. It’s loud, it’s sneaky, and it’s the voice in your head that tells you you’re not enough - even when you’re crushing it. In this episode, we dive deep into self-doubt, unpacking how it grips men and secretly drives our choices, our relationships, and the stories we tell ourselves. If you've ever found yourself second-guessing your instincts, replaying that conversation (again), or holding back because of that relentless self-doubt, you’re definitely not alone. We’ll get brutally honest about where self-doubt comes from, why it sticks around, and how you can finally break its grip and reclaim your personal power. Get ready for candid stories about the internal wars men fight every day, actionable strategies for smashing self-doubt, and a few laughs at the absurd stuff our brains conjure up when no one’s watching. Expect practical takeaways, surprising insights into men’s mental health, and tools you can use to step out of the self-doubt shadow—starting right now. If you’re tired of self-doubt stealing your confidence and joy, this episode is your call to take back your manhood and make your mind your ally, not your enemy. Chapters: 00:00 – Introductions 05:19 – Embracing Worth and Authentic Leadership 19:31 – Owning Your Inner Voice 23:43 – The Journey to Confidence and Well-Being 25:26 – Power of Personal Affirmations 27:04 – Purpose, Brotherhood, and Self-Belief 32:16 – Growth Through Self-Doubt 33:51 – Seeking Feedback, Building Confidence 35:09 – Vulnerability and the Strength to Ask for Help 36:07 – Men and Overcompensation: Rewriting the Narrative 37:04 – Redefining Vulnerability with Courage 40:26 – Emotional Connection and Brotherhood 41:20 – The Illusion of Confidence 42:38 – Insecurity vs. True Confidence 45:13 – Legacy and the Path of Growth 46:40 – Strategies for Self-Reflection and Empowerment Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Menopause Explained for Men: Navigating Female Hormone Health and Relationships with Dr. Lisa Larkin
Oct 27, 2025·—
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Most men fear what they don’t understand - and nothing confuses or frustrates them more than the hormonal changes women experience in midlife. Jon and Will sit down with renowned women’s health expert Dr. Lisa Larkin to decode the menopause transition and reveal how understanding it can transform relationships, health, and communication. From navigating mood shifts and libido changes to recognizing breast cancer risks and the benefits of lifestyle and hormone therapy, Dr. Larkin exposes how women’s health - especially between ages 40 and 55 - has been neglected for far too long. This eye-opening conversation challenges stigma, empowers both partners to talk openly about menopause, and shows men why knowledge is the key to stronger, more connected relationships. Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 03:02 - Bridging the Gender Gap in Midlife Women’s Health 06:12 - How Menopause Shapes Relationships 10:04 - What Every Woman Should Know About Midlife Health 13:41 - The Truth About Breast Cancer Risk 20:53 - Genetics, Sex, and the Overlooked Sides of Women’s Health 27:19 - Menopause at Work: Why Support Matters 32:13 - Treatment, Awareness, and Real Support for Menopausal Women 34:13 - The Real Story Behind Menopausal Hormone Therapy 51:03 - The Hidden Risks of High-Dose Testosterone Pellets 54:48 - How Hormonal Changes Affect Love and Connection Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Called Home to Yourself: Remembering Who You Were Before the Noise (A Song)
Oct 24, 2025·—
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In this deeply personal piece, Jon shares something raw and different ... a song born straight from his journaling practice. After years of living by duty, discipline, and performance, Jon found himself realizing he’d lost touch with the part of him that once felt fully alive. That reflection became a song called “Called Home to Yourself.” Through honest storytelling and emotional depth, Jon opens up about what it means to wake up after years on autopilot... to remember the child you once were, the fire you once carried, and the freedom of feeling seen again. This song isn’t about perfection (nor is it perfect)... it’s about presence. It’s about rediscovering who you are beneath the roles, the ranks, and the noise of everyday life. If you’ve ever felt that quiet ache... that pull toward something real... this episode is for you. Because sometimes, the bravest thing we can do is stop running, listen, and come home. Listen to “Called Home to Yourself” — written and performed by... well, AI!! Hosted by Jon Macaskill | Men Talking Mindfulness Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

If Death Came Today, What Would People Say About Your Life? | Karen Salmansohn
Oct 20, 2025·—
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In this episode with Karen Salmansohn, discover how thinking about death can be your greatest inspiration for living a purposeful, to-die-for life. “Your To-Die-For Life” flips the script on death, showing how embracing mortality turns every day into an urgent call to action—ditch regrets, seize your bucket list, and put meaning first. Death isn’t just an end; it’s a catalyst for bold choices, authentic relationships, and a legacy that matters. Learn practical, research-backed tools to let death fuel your courage, passion, and authentic self-expression. If you want to move from living on autopilot to a life that thrills you, tune in and let death motivate you to live fully now. Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 00:16 - The Stories We Leave Behind 00:36 - Introducing Karen Solomonson and Her Insights 01:39 - Grounding Practice: Centering Ourselves 02:33 - Contemplating Mortality for Value-Based Decisions 03:11 - Aristotle's Wisdom: Starting with the End in Mind 04:06 - Learning Lessons for Personal Growth 05:09 - The Importance of Core Values 05:51 - Legacy: How We Show Up in Life 06:48 - The Impact of Feelings on Memory 07:30 - Living Authentically vs. Seeking External Validation 08:01 - Writing Your Eulogy: A Path to Clarity 08:13 - The Power of Mortality Awareness 09:05 - Identity-Based Habits: Who Do You Need to Become? 10:30 - Creating Identity-Based Statements 12:05 - Finding Core Values: A Practical Approach 14:07 - The Seven Core Values to Avoid Regrets 15:14 - Authenticity: The Key to True Expression 16:07 - Bravery: Stepping Out of Your Comfort Zone 16:47 - Curiosity: The Path to Growth 18:23 - Discernment: Prioritizing What Matters 19:24 - Empathic Love: Building Meaningful Connections 20:55 - Fun: The Importance of Enjoying Life 23:53 - Gratitude: Appreciating What You Have 25:14 - The Role of Mortality in Urgency and Action 26:28 - Living with Intention: Making Every Day Count 30:23 - Breaking Free from Negative Narratives 32:33 - The Lab of Life: Embracing Growth 34:00 - The Struggle for Fulfillment: Eudaimonia vs. Hedonia 36:40 - Reawakening Your Identity: The Power of Self-Reflection 42:11 - Surrounding Yourself with Supportive People 45:03 - The Importance of Positive Influences Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

The Shadow Holds Your Power, Not Your Pain with Connor Beaton
Oct 13, 2025·—
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Connor Beaton, founder of ManTalks, joins MTM. He in a transformative conversation about shadow work and its profound impact on personal choices and mental well-being. Throughout the discussion, Connor delves deep into the concept of the "shadow self," exploring how acknowledging and integrating the hidden, often suppressed aspects of our personalities leads to greater self-awareness and genuine change. We candidly address the role of shame in our lives—how it can serve as both a motivator and a destructive force—and why many people unconsciously use shame-based narratives as a way to push themselves, often resulting in cycles of self-sabotage and emotional stagnation. Connor illustrates how confronting shadow elements like guilt, regret, and self-doubt enables us to break free from repeating negative patterns. Listeners will learn actionable strategies for revealing and working through feelings of shame, while gaining tools for healthier inner dialogue and compassionate self-reflection. You'll learn how self-compassion, accepting past mistakes, and building more authentic relationships—cornerstones of Connor’s approach to men’s emotional growth and healing. Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 02:46 - The Transformative Power of Shadow Work 05:48 - Defining the Shadow: Repression and Its Consequences 08:47 - The Role of Shame in Men's Lives 11:44 - Personal Journeys: Crisis and Transformation 14:56 - Shame and Its Manipulative Power 18:00 - Separating Personhood from Behavior 20:56 - Relationships as Mirrors for Self-Discovery 23:47 - The Role of Mindfulness in Shadow Work 27:04 - Psychedelics and Accessing the Unconscious 30:04 - The Body's Role in Self-Realization 32:58 - Conclusion: The Journey of Self-Discovery Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

If You've Come This Far (Non-MTM episode)
Oct 10, 2025·—
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Men Talking Mindfulness aims to empower men's personal and emotional growth through mindfulness. We offer engaging content and practical tools in a supportive community, guiding men toward a balanced, mindful, and fulfilling life. This is an episode Jon recorded with Chris Lazier and Shaun Emerson from the If You've Come This Far podcast... lots of fun stuff to know about Jon - a lot that we never knew before! Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Ben Owen: He Lost Everything to Addiction… Then Built a Movement to Save Others
Oct 6, 2025·—
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From the depths of addiction to the frontlines of redemption, Ben Owen’s story is a testament to the power of transformation. In this episode, Jon and Will sit down with Ben, the founder of We Fight Monsters , to uncover how he turned personal pain with addiction into purpose, leading a movement that combats addiction, human trafficking, and broken systems from the streets of Memphis to beyond. Ben reveals the brutal realities of recovery, mental health, the importance of mindfulness in chaos, and the unbreakable resilience that fuels his mission to reunite families and rebuild lives. This is not just a story about survival - it’s about what happens when you decide to fight for something bigger than yourself. Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 03:12 - Ben Owen's Journey to Recovery 06:01 - The Birth of We Fight Monsters 09:06 - Transforming Lives in Memphis 11:51 - The Role of Mindfulness in Recovery 14:37 - Building Trust and Community 17:42 - Confronting Human Trafficking 20:34 - The Power of Resilience 23:42 - Creating Economic Opportunities 26:31 - The Importance of Family Reunification 29:47 - Engaging with Law Enforcement 32:22 - The Role of the Community 35:43 - The Owen Army and Expanding the Mission 38:35 - Mindfulness in Action 41:28 - The Future of We Fight Monsters Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Education No Longer Prepares Men for Life or Work | Joseph Fuller
Sep 29, 2025·—
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What happens when young men struggle to find their place in a rapidly changing world? Joseph Fuller joins hosts Jon and Will to explore the challenges facing young men today - from the decline of traditional male jobs, and the stigma around trades, to the crucial role of mentorship, education, and social skills in shaping identity and opportunity. This is adding to the escalating mental health crisis. Together, they unpack how cultural shifts away from college education are redefining masculinity, why trades remain “AI-proof,” and what society can do to better support young men in navigating careers, mental health, and self-worth in the 21st century. Learn more about Joseph Fuller: https://www.harvardmagazine.com/2025/05/harvard-men-gender-gap-education-employment Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters 00:00 - Introductions 02:48 - Cultural Identity and Self-Worth in Men 05:50 - The Decline of Traditional Male Jobs 09:12 - Education and Skills Gap 12:01 - The Impact of Social Skills on Employment 14:54 - The Role of Sports and Physical Activity 17:43 - The Importance of Mentorship and Guidance 20:48 - The Stigma Around Trades and Vocational Education 23:57 - The Role of Male Teachers in Education 26:31 - The Crisis of Male Identity in Modern Society 29:24 - Solutions for the Future of Young Men Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Failure? Jon's Fitness Journey; September Check-in
Sep 25, 2025·—
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So what happened here? So close to the finish line, Jon tells us why he decided to drop out of the Physique Competition and end this grueling fitness Journey. Learn what MTM is all about at: mentalkinmindfulness.com Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Why Decision Fatigue Is Silently Ruining Your Productivity and Mental Health
Sep 22, 2025·—
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What if the biggest threat to your leadership isn’t lack of skill or ambition, but the silent weight of too many choices? Jon and Will unpack the hidden toll of decision fatigue - the mental exhaustion that can cloud judgment, lower productivity, and derail even the most capable leaders. They explore how nutrition, boundaries, and mindfulness can restore mental clarity, why making decisions when energy is highest leads to better outcomes, and the power of simplifying routines to protect your focus. You’ll discover how rest and recharge are not luxuries but essentials, and why having a mentor or coach can cut through the noise to bring clarity. This conversation is a guide to reclaiming your energy, making sharper decisions, and leading with confidence. Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 01:10 - Understanding Decision Fatigue and Mental Energy 11:57 - Clear Goals as the Key to Beating Decision Fatigue 15:33 - The Role of Intentional Goals in Mental Clarity 16:59 - Leadership Challenges in Decision Fatigue 18:21 - Mindfulness and Self-Awareness for Leaders 19:17 - Practical Strategies for Clarity and Energy 23:20 - How to Replenish Energy for Better Choices 25:18 - The Hidden Impact of Judicial Decision Fatigue 26:41 - Sleep and Nutrition as Decision-Making Essentials 29:26 - The Power of Personal Boundaries 31:08 - Boundaries and Routines for Stronger Decisions 34:05 - Proven Tips to Boost Productivity and Clarity 35:16 - Nutrition’s Role in Sharper Decision-Making 40:25 - Smarter Choices Through Effective Strategies 41:56 - The Best Ways to Recharge for Peak Performance 42:34 - Final Thoughts: Share, Review, and Connect Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Why Young Men Still Need Rites of Passage and Mentors | Darren Silver
Sep 15, 2025·—
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Most people go through life without ever being truly initiated. In this raw and revealing conversation, Will and Jon are joined by rites of passage guide Darren Silver to unpack why transformation requires more than just time — it requires challenge, community, and a deep connection to nature. They explore the wounding at the heart of real initiation, the loss of cultural rituals, and how fathers, plant medicine, and honest reflection can guide us through the most important transitions of our lives. This is a conversation about healing, masculinity, and what it takes to answer the question: Are you truly living, or just getting by? Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters 00:00 – Introduction 03:09 – Nature and Life Transitions 07:54 – Personal Transformation Through Rites of Passage 20:15 – Mystery and the Transformative Journey 24:48 – Transformation and Inner Change 28:22 – Growth, Responsibility, and Rites of Passage 37:51 – Identity, Belonging, and the Adolescent Edge 39:11 – Identity and Belonging in Adulthood 45:40 – Community Recognition and the Need for Rites 50:05 – Responsibility and the Journey Home 51:59 – Relationship Support During Transitions 54:00 – Change and the Path to Inner Peace 01:05:22 – Happiness and Human Connection Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Howard Behar | The Starbucks President Who Put People Over Profits
Sep 8, 2025·—
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What if leadership meant putting people before profit? In this inspiring episode, Howard Behar, former president of Starbucks, shares how servant leadership and putting people over profits shaped the company's culture. He discusses how a people-first leadership philosophy leads to authentic connection, trust, and accountability in the workplace. Behar reveals that putting people over profits empowers employees and nurtures a values-based leadership approach. From presence and vulnerability to empowering employees and focusing on the bottom-up approach, Howard demonstrates that success comes from putting people over profits, cultivating workplace culture, and leading with empathy, purpose, and genuine human connection Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 02:59 - Mindfulness and Self-Awareness 06:10 - Creating a People-First Culture 08:52 - The Importance of Compassionate Listening 11:47 - Navigating Difficult Conversations 14:38 - The Role of Values in Leadership 17:46 - Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion in Leadership 20:35 - Compassionate Emptiness in Leadership 23:38 - The Power of Questions 26:30 - Feedback and Responsiveness 29:23 - Aligning Purpose and Values 32:40 - The Six Ps of Leadership 35:37 - Intentional Communication 38:35 - Creating Safe Spaces for Dialogue 41:25 - The Impact of Leadership on Culture 44:14 - Living with Intention 47:17 - The Journey of Continuous Improvement Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

How Porn is Engineering the Collapse of Men, Love, and Family
Sep 1, 2025·—
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What if the thing you turn to for relief is actually rewiring your brain against you? In this powerful episode, Dr. Trish Leigh exposes the hidden neurological effects of pornography - how it hijacks your dopamine system, fuels addiction, and quietly erodes motivation, mental health, and relationships. We dive deep into the evolutionary roots of sexuality, the influence of technology on behavior, and the daily habits needed for recovery. From parenting in the digital age to rebuilding intimacy and overcoming erectile dysfunction, this is a raw, science-backed conversation about breaking free from porn and taking back control of your life. Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction 02:48 - The Dopamine Dependency Cycle 05:50 - The Evolutionary Perspective on Sexuality 08:53 - The Role of Technology in Sexual Behavior 11:54 - Parenting in the Age of Digital Exposure 14:56 - The Importance of Self-Awareness and Emotional Intelligence 17:59 - The Path to Recovery from Pornography Addiction 20:54 - Healthy vs. Maladaptive Masturbation Patterns 23:46 - The Connection Between Pornography and Erectile Dysfunction 26:38 - Building Healthy Relationships and Intimacy 29:58 - Strategies for Overcoming Pornography Addiction 32:55 - The Importance of a Morning Routine 35:55 - Navigating Sexuality and Testosterone 38:46 - The Role of Communication in Relationships 41:46 - Final Thoughts and Resources for Recovery Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

The Brutal Truth About Emotional Courage w/Dave Smith (4min MicroDose)
Aug 28, 2025·—
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I loved this episode with Dave Smith, and so will you! Dig into the full podcast here: https://pod.fo/e/2bd385 More about Dave and his work ➡️ https://www.davesmithdharma.com/ All things MTM here: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

The Way of the Peaceful Warrior; a Path to Personal Growth with Dan Millman
Aug 25, 2025·—
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What does it truly mean to live as a “peaceful warrior” in today’s chaotic world? If you are looking for a path to personal growth, then you are in the right place Will and Jon sit down with Dan Millman, author of Way of the Peaceful Warrior , to explore mindfulness, self-discovery, and the deeper lessons of personal growth. Dan shares how life’s challenges act as spiritual weight training, why breath and meditation are essential tools for inner peace, and how embracing life fully - beyond moderation - can transform our journey. From redefining success to letting go of comparison, this episode offers practical wisdom, inspiring sound bites, and a guided breathing exercise to help you reconnect with yourself and live with purpose. Buy Dan's book here: https://www.peacefulwarrior.com/books/ Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters 00:00 - Introduction 02:54 - Defining the Peaceful Warrior 05:47 - The Role of Adversity in Growth 09:07 - The Journey of Writing 'Way of the Peaceful Warrior' 11:49 - Understanding the Mind and Brain Distinction 15:07 - The Practice of Mindfulness and Breathing 18:03 - The Concept of Happiness and Satisfaction 20:46 - The Role of Behavior in Shaping Life 24:00 - The Fictional Socrates and His Influence 34:23 - Socrates: The Prickly Teacher 36:48 - The Gate of the Warrior 40:09 - Paradox and Awareness 42:47 - Transforming Emotions 46:02 - The Dangers of Moderation 51:18 - The Importance of Boldness 52:14 - Striving for Excellence 55:27 - The Journey of the Peaceful Warrior Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Hey Men! Do You know How to Process Your 'Annoying' Feelings? (6min MicroDose)
Aug 21, 2025·—
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Trigger WARNING! This snippet might piss some people off. If it does reach out to Sashe directly on IG https://www.instagram.com/mind_heart_method/ Here is the link to the Full Episode : https://pod.fo/e/2c4119 Learn more all things MTM at https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Apolo Ohno: I Won 8 Olympic Medals And Then Lost Myself (Reinventing Yourself)
Aug 18, 2025·—
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Olympic champion. Icon. And then… nothing. Reinventing yourself, what does it take? Apolo Ohno knows. He spent his entire life training for one thing - winning gold. He became the most decorated Winter Olympian in U.S. history, chasing perfection at all costs. But when the spotlight faded and the podium disappeared, he faced a battle far tougher than any race: Who was he without the sport? In this raw and honest conversation, Apolo opens up about the identity crisis that hit after retirement, the role of ego in driving success - and destroying it - and the painful process of starting over from scratch. This isn’t just about sport. It’s about life after the thing you thought defined you. It’s about resilience, reinvention, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery. Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Chapters: (00:00) Redefining Purpose After Winning: Apolo Ohno's Journey Beyond the Podium (06:30) "Life After Winning: Navigating Identity and Transition" (08:01) "Navigating Life After Peak Achievements: The Ongoing Journey of Self-Discovery" (11:42) "Coping with Life Transitions and Identity Shifts" (14:22) "Embracing Friction and the Beginner's Mindset in Life Transitions" (16:52) "Reprogramming for Post-Athletic Life" (17:38) Navigating Personal Growth and Diverse Success Strategies (20:17) "Experiences of Flying with Children" (22:01) "Redefining Performance Beyond Sport: Lessons from the Ice to the Boardroom" (23:27) "Aligning Performance with Core Values and Personal Fulfillment" (25:01) "Redefining Performance: The Four Pillars and Five Golden Principles" (27:28) "Embracing Friction for Growth and Success" (30:06) Journey of Post-Olympic Life and Pursuit of Success Beyond Sports (33:55) "Evaluating Long-Term Fulfillment and Passion in Career Choices" (38:08) "Exploring Passion and Realism: Navigating Personal Growth and Success" (42:16) Inspiring Conversations: Pursuing Your Passion and Impacting the World (43:21) "The Impact of Passion and the Importance of Mentorship" (46:52) "The Four Pillars of Well-being: Sleep, Exercise, Diet, and Mindset" (47:47) "Finding Balance: The Role of Exercise, Social Interaction, and Self-Reflection in Managing Stress" (49:17) "Importance of Exercise and Sleep Tracking for Mental Health" (51:16) Transitioning from Military Service: Challenges and Reflections (57:14) Reflections on Abandonment, Team Dynamics, and Life Beyond Sport (01:02:51) "The Hidden Reserves of Human Potential" (01:04:52) "How to Connect with Apolo Ohno " (01:05:20) "Closing Remarks with Apolo Ohno : Embracing Change and Emotional Intelligence" (01:06:09) "Embracing Change and Transition Programs for Veterans and Athletes" (01:06:36) Introducing ARENA-M: Supporting Transitioning Veterans and Athletes Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Manifestation is a Process of Slowing Down Your Life w/Dr James Doty (9min Microdose)
Aug 14, 2025·—
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It's amazing what we can do, who we can become, and what can show up when we slow down and work from the inside out. Here is Dr. James Doty, a neurosurgeon and author of "Mind Magic": The Neuroscience of Manifestation and How It Changes Everything, teaching us what manifestation is all about. Listen to our full episode with Dr Doty on MTM here : https://pod.fo/e/257f21 If you would like to learn how to slow down, we have an entire episode on Breathwork with 3 breathing practices backed into the episide. Listen here and start changing by getting to know your breath: https://pod.fo/e/309c12 And RIP Dr James Doty, MD who passed July 17, 2025 - you will be missed and your torch of compassion will be carried forward - Thank you for all you brought to the world. Check out Dr. James Doty's two books: "Into the Magic Shop" (a New York Times bestseller) "Mind Magic" Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

Why Caring for Aging Parents Will Change You Forever | David Valadez
Aug 11, 2025·—
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What does it truly mean to care for aging parents while preserving their dignity, independence, and joy? This conversation explores the emotional and practical realities of caregiving, from the strain of daily responsibilities to the deep rewards of being present and actively listening. Through personal stories, the speakers highlight the need for open communication about end-of-life planning, the emotional weight of anticipatory grief, and the delicate balance between prolonging life and ensuring its quality. They emphasize shifting expectations, finding joy in shared moments, and cherishing family gatherings as a way to strengthen bonds and create lasting memories—reminding us that, in the end, family connections are what matter most. Feeling stuck? If you need help getting out of your rut, Will can help - head to willnotfear.com to learn more about his coaching to get you off the hamster wheel. More from MTM at: https://mentalkingmindfulness.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction 02:46 - Navigating the Challenges of Aging Parents 05:58 - Being Present and Actively Listening 08:54 - Shifting Perspectives on Aging 11:32 - Finding Joy in Shared Moments 14:53 - The Emotional Strain of Caregiving 17:45 - Maintaining Dignity and Independence 20:56 - Practical Support for Aging Parents 23:55 - Conversations About End-of-Life Planning 26:39 - The Role of Communication in Caregiving 29:50 - Anticipatory Grief and Emotional Challenges 32:40 - Quality of Life vs. Prolonging Life 35:47 - Lessons Learned from Aging Parents 38:57 - The Value of Family Gatherings 41:49 - Preparing for Our Own Aging 44:52 - Closing Reflections and Takeaways Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.

George Mumford: How to Get to the Truth (6min MicroDose)
Aug 7, 2025·—
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Learn from the man who made Kobe Bryant, Michael Jordan, and the Chicago Bulls Champions. Here is our full Podcast with the Great George Mumford: https://pod.fo/e/2c0946 We highly recommend reading George's latest book UNLOCKED: Embrace Your Greatness, Find the Flow, Discover Success More about all things MenTalkingMindfulness.com Hosted by Ausha. See ausha.co/privacy-policy for more information.


