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Never Fret: The Season of Worry & Fret In a time when life be lifin’ and the pressure feels nonstop, Never Fret is a message for the urban community to pause, breathe, and remember who we are. This is the season where worry tries to take over—but resilience, faith, and community push back harder. Never Fret speaks to everyday people juggling bills, family, relationships, grief, growth, and dreams—sometimes all at once. It’s a reminder that even in uncertain times, we are not powerless. We come from strength. We survive storms. We create joy even when resources feel thin and the road feels heavy. This season is about: Letting go of fear and choosing hope Leaning on community instead of carrying it all alone Turning stress into strategy and pain into purpose Remembering that rest, laughter, and love are acts of resistance Never Fret isn’t about pretending everything is perfect—it’s about believing that better is still possible. It’s about trusting the process, protecting your peace, and knowing that worry doesn’t get the final word.

Let’s Talk Black Men & Health Fellas — it’s time to talk about it. High blood pressure, strokes, mental health, and the stigma of “toughing it out.” Too many of our brothers are fighting silent battles, and we’re saying no more. Join us as we break down what’s really going on with Black men and their health — from physical to mental, from the doctor’s office to daily habits. We’ll cover it all: High blood pressure & stroke awareness Prostate and heart health Stress, therapy, and breaking generational silence Health habits that can save your life Plus — we’re opening up the phone lines! We’ll also touch on Kirk Franklin’s powerful conversation about how Black men deal with stress, emotions, and healing — because that’s part of our health too. Let’s change the narrative. Because when Black men take care of their health, the whole community wins

Life will always throw challenges our way — moments that test our strength, shake our faith, and sometimes knock us off our feet. But here’s the truth: it’s not about how many times you fall, it’s about how many times you get back up. Don’t let your circumstances rewrite your story or change your narrative. Growth happens when you choose to rise above what tried to break you. When tragedy hits, when the plan falls apart, or when life feels heavy — don’t sit in it. Get up. Go forward. Keep pushing. This week on The 4 Opinions , we’re getting real about resilience . We’ll share personal experiences, twists, and turns — the moments that forced us to rebuild, refocus, and rise again. Because even after the hardest seasons, life can come back. You can heal, rebuild, and move forward stronger than ever. 🎙️ Join The 4 Opinions — real stories, real strength, and real growth. It’s time to remind yourself: you still got it, and your story’s not over yet.

With the government shutdown shaking things up, a lot of folks are feeling the pressure — wondering how to keep food on the table, pay bills, and stay grounded while the world feels unstable. Communities everywhere are in a frenzy, trying to figure out what the future looks like and how to protect their families from the impact of government freezes and financial uncertainty. But here’s the real talk — beyond the headlines and politics, there’s the emotional toll. The stress, anxiety, and exhaustion can hit hard, especially during the holidays when we’re supposed to feel joy, gratitude, and connection. This week on The 4 Opinions , we’re breaking it all down: How to protect your peace when everything feels uncertain. What emotional tools you can lean on during a financial or political crisis. How to check in with your mental stability and show up for yourself and your loved ones. And how to build resilience so the chaos around you doesn’t control the calm within you. Because surviving the shutdown isn’t just about money — it’s about mindset. Let’s talk about keeping your heart steady and your mind right, even when the system shakes.

Rebuilding takes time — but it also takes tools. When you’re fixing or creating something new, you don’t show up empty-handed. If you’re building a house, you grab what you need: a hammer to secure the frame, a screwdriver to tighten every corner, and the right materials to make it solid. But what happens when you’re rebuilding your life? You still need tools — just a different kind. A hammer to rebuild the foundation of who you are. A screwdriver to tighten your vision, goals, and boundaries. Perhaps even a measuring tape to track your progress and ensure your growth is aligned with your purpose. Join The 4 Opinions as we dig into what it means to create your Life Toolbox — the essential items that help you build a stronger version of yourself. We’re talking about real-life tools that help you: Break cycles and reset your mindset Strengthen your confidence and self-worth Build boundaries that protect your peace Align your goals with your purpose Reconstruct the life you truly deserve This isn’t just another conversation — it’s a movement toward rebuilding with intention. So pull up, tune in, and let’s get into it. Because every builder knows: you can’t build something solid without the right tools. The 4 Opinions — real talk, real growth, real tools for real life.

Every day we’re bombarded with the language of self-care and self-love—told it’s the secret sauce, the game changer, the key to leveling up our lives. But what does that really mean? Who defines it? And how do you create a version that’s authentic for your journey? This Saturday on The Four Opinions, we’re bringing in Dorothy Inez-Deltufo Dorothy'Inez —better known as the Queen of Shine. She’s a three-time international best-selling author, an inspirational speaker, and a holistic confidence coach. Together, we’ll unpack what self-care looks like, why that sacred space matters, and how it shapes the future version of yourself. We’re talking truth, breaking myths, and redefining what it really means to love yourself—beyond the hashtags

“This Saturday, September 20th at 8AM, join us live on The 4 Opinions for a powerful conversation in honor of Suicide Prevention Month , only on 89.9 KMOJ The People’s Station . We’re diving deep into one of the toughest but most necessary topics in our community—mental health and suicide prevention. Too often, the struggles our people face stay hidden behind smiles, success, or silence. But silence is deadly. That’s why we’re bringing this dialogue front and center. We’ll be joined by Wellness & Mental Health Coach Edrence Yalley and Dr. Rashida ‘Tranquil Temper’ , who will share their wisdom and lived experiences on what it takes to recognize the warning signs, build a culture of support, and create pathways to real healing and hope. 🗣️ Together, we’ll talk about breaking the stigma, addressing disparities, and reminding one another that it’s okay to not be okay—and it’s powerful to ask for help. This isn’t just another broadcast—it’s a lifeline. A reminder that you are not alone, that your life matters, and that healing is possible. Tune in, call in, and spread th

This season, we’re not apologizing for taking care of ourselves. Too often, we feel guilty for resting, for saying no, or for putting our mental health first. But let’s be clear—self-care isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. You can’t show up strong for your family, your community, or your purpose if you’re running on empty. Fall is about release and renewal. Just like the leaves let go, it’s time to drop the guilt, shed the weight of overextending, and step into a season of unapologetic self-prioritization. Protect your peace, recharge your spirit, and walk boldly into these new beginnings—because your well-being comes first.”

The fall season is officially here—leaves changing, air crisp, hoodies out, and new vibes in the atmosphere. But let’s keep it real: fall ain’t just about pumpkin spice and bonfires… it’s about change . Change of season, change of surroundings, and change within ourselves. And with every change, we gotta check in on something major—our mental health . Fall reminds us that just like the trees shed what no longer serves them, we gotta release the stress, the old habits, and the energy that’s been weighing us down. This season is about growth, renewal, and starting fresh. So, as the world shifts around us, let’s talk about how we uplift our minds, protect our peace, and walk into these new beginnings with strength and intention. Because fall ain’t just a season—it’s a movement, it’s a mindset, it’s a reset.

As we move through the journey of life, confidence becomes one of the most powerful tools we can claim. I’ve had to walk through moments of doubt, shattered dreams, and tough questions of self before I could stand tall and recognize my own worth. Confidence didn’t come overnight — it came with struggle, reflection, and the decision to move forward, even when fear tried to hold me back. And I know I’m not alone. Every day, so many of us wrestle with that quiet question: Am I enough? Do I have what it takes? The truth is, confidence is built, not given. It’s a skill, a practice, and a mindset. And yes — life brings challenges: cultural barriers, past trauma, cycles of abuse, moments of failure. These experiences can break us down if we let them. But they can also become the foundation to rebuild stronger than ever before. On The4Opinions , we’re tackling this head-on. We’re breaking down: 🔑 What confidence really means beyond surface-level appearances. 🔑 Practical skills to strengthen self-belief and self-power. 🔑 How to move past cultural and personal setbacks without letting them define you. 🔑 How to guard your confidence against people who are blinded by fear or lacking it themselves. 🔑 How to start TODAY — no matter where you are, no matter what you’ve been through. Confidence is more than a word — it’s a lifestyle. It’s the key to unlocking opportunities, the courage to chase your dreams, and the shield against voices that tell you “you can’t.” ✨ This isn’t just about self-esteem — it’s about self-power. It’s about rebuilding, rising, and walking boldly into the life you deserve.

This segment is dedicated to our Black men. Too often, the world tells you what you should need, instead of asking what you actually do need. Today, we’re changing that. We’re asking one powerful, honest question: What do you truly need — for support, to win, and to move forward in life? ✨ Think about it like this: if you had one magical day where every door opened, every resource was available, and every voice listened — what would you ask for? What would bring you peace? What would help you elevate? This is more than a question; it’s a moment to reflect, to be real, and to speak truth into what Black men deserve — not just today, but every day.

Conclusion: Grief in our Communities Final Episode Conclusion ✨ As we close out this series on grief, we reflect on the expectations placed on us, the reality of loss, and the life-changing impact that follows. Grief is not a moment—it’s a journey. It arrives suddenly, without warning, and becomes something we carry as life keeps moving. In this final episode, we sat with a guest who is still in the thick of grieving, reminding us that healing isn’t instant, and it isn’t linear. Together, we explored the causes and effects of grief, the ways it reshapes our daily lives, and the tools we can use to manage it while still pressing forward. We hope that this conversation leaves you with comfort, perspective, and strength. For anyone suffering in silence, know this: you are not alone . Sharing our stories opens doors to healing and offers reminders that there are ways to live beyond the impact. This series has been dedicated to being an outlet—an offering of wisdom, love, and community. If just one person feels less isolated in their grief because of these conversations, then our mission has been fulfilled.

🖤 PART 3: The Support This Saturday at 8AM on 89.9 KMOJ | The4Opinions 🎙️ Grief isn’t just about the person feeling the loss— It’s about the village around them too. So many of us want to show up, but don’t know how . What do you say when “I’m sorry” doesn’t feel like enough? How do you hold space for someone without rushing their pain? This week, we’re diving deep into what real support looks like during grief. Not the “check in once and disappear” kind— but the kind that sticks around, listens, and lets folks feel without fixing. Let’s talk about: • What NOT to say to someone who’s grieving • How to be present without overstepping • Ways to support when you feel helpless • And why sometimes, silence speaks louder than words If you’ve ever struggled to comfort a loved one going through it—or if you are the one grieving and wish people understood you better— this episode is for you. . Let’s do better. Together. #The4Opinions #TheWeightWeCarry #Part3Support #GriefSupport #BlackMentalHealth #KMOJ #ShowUpForYourPeople #CommunityHealing #HoldSpace #YouAreNotAlone

Grief doesn’t have a timeline—and healing isn’t linear. But what is true? You don’t have to go through it alone. This episode is a reminder that even in the silence, your pain is valid. Your memories matter. And your healing deserves space. So whether you're deep in it, just beginning to feel the weight, or walking beside someone in their grief— let this be your permission to feel, to rest, and to heal at your own pace . We’re not just talking about loss. We’re reclaiming our right to grieve fully, loudly, and unapologetically.

We say “take your time to heal”—but does the world really mean it, especially for Black folks? In this episode of The4Opinions, we’re cutting deep into the stigma around how Black people are expected to grieve, heal, and bounce back like it’s nothing. Whether it's the 3–5 day bereavement policy at work or family traditions that tell us to "just pray about it and keep moving," the reality is—healing doesn’t work on a schedule. Let’s make it clear—grief and healing aren’t luxuries. They’re part of life. And for Black folks especially, it’s time we stop letting others write the rules on how long we get to feel, hurt, and rebuild

The holidays can be joyful, but for many, they’re also a painful reminder of who’s no longer here. This Saturday, we’re holding space for that grief. Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Tanika West-Moore, affectionately known as “The Counseling Chef.” With over 21 years in the mental health field and a passion for healing through food and storytelling, Tanika shares her journey of losing her mother and how she’s turned her pain into purpose. Her new book, “When Mommy is Gone,” is more than just a story—it’s a soft landing for those carrying silent grief, especially during this season. As a therapist, life coach, doula, and founder of two heartfelt ventures named after her late mother, Tanika’s work reminds us that healing comes in many forms—sometimes in a conversation, sometimes in a home-cooked meal. This episode is for anyone grieving a mother, anyone feeling the heaviness of the season, or anyone needing to hear, "You’re not alone. Live on 89.9 KMOJ at 8AM CST Or stream online at www.kmojfm.com Join us, call in, share your heart, and let’s walk through this together.

Conclusion: We Ain’t Just Talkin’—We Healin’ As we close out this powerful two-month series on Black and Minority Mental Health, The4Opinions didn’t just bring conversation—we brought real ones to the mic. This final episode hit different. We were joined by Adoniyah Israel , who broke it all the way down on how mental health is deeply connected to being justice-impacted. From the weight of incarceration to the silent trauma carried after release, he reminded us that choices around healing don’t come easy—but they are necessary. His words were a bold reminder that if we don’t choose our healing, the system will choose our pain. Then we heard from T’Michael Cunigan , who brought raw and honest reflections about being a young Black man navigating mental health in today’s world. From growing up in a culture that told him to "man up," to learning how to actually check in with himself, he shared what it means to break generational habits and start walking in emotional freedom. This ain’t just podcast talk—this is legacy-building, heart-work, and community healing. 💬 Together, we explored: What it looks like to take care of your mind while carrying real-life struggle How systems continue to fail us, and how we have to show up for ourselves The importance of safe spaces, therapy, and having people who get it And most importantly— how to keep going, even when it’s hard 🧠 If nobody told you today: it’s okay to not be okay. Healing is a choice—and a radical one in a world that wants you broken.

Let’s Talk Juneteenth: Freedom, Reflection, and the Fight for True Unity June 19, 1865—more than two years after the signing of the Emancipation Proclamation—Union soldiers arrived in Galveston, Texas to inform the last remaining enslaved Black people that they were finally free. This moment became known as Juneteenth , the oldest nationally celebrated commemoration of the end of slavery in the United States. Juneteenth is more than just a holiday—it's a powerful reminder of delayed justice, the resilience of Black communities, and the ongoing journey toward equity and liberation. Over the years, the day has evolved into a vibrant celebration of Black history, culture, excellence, and pride. Parades, festivals, community cookouts, educational panels, and artistic performances all paint a picture of joy and empowerment—but beneath the surface, deeper conversations are still necessary. Join us on The4Opinions as we reflect on the modern-day meaning of Juneteenth. We’ll break down: The beauty of community celebration —the joy, culture, and tradition that brings us together The gaps and challenges, from commercialization to the lack of intentionality and inclusivity The need for unity —how the same divisions we fought to escape still show up in our own spaces The role of leadership —and what effective, accountable, and community-centered leadership should look like The vision forward —creating Juneteenth events that are safe, inspiring, and grounded in our shared liberation As Black people, we deserve more than just a symbolic celebration—we deserve healing, action, and lasting impact. How do we ensure Juneteenth continues to evolve as a space of transformation? How do we use this day not just to reflect, but to organize, educate, and empower? This episode invites voices from all corners—activists, organizers, community members, and everyday people—to help reimagine what Juneteenth could be when we truly lead with purpose and unity. Let’s talk. Let’s build. Let’s transform.

The Memory Still Hurts It’s been five years since the world watched George Floyd take his last breath under the knee of injustice. Five years since Minneapolis shook the globe and forced a reckoning. And still, the pain feels fresh. The anger still burns. The trauma still lingers. In Part 1, we reflect. We hold space for the grief. For the outrage. For the memories etched into our minds—of protests, chants, tears, and a community demanding change. What has changed since May 25, 2020? What hasn’t? How has this moment shaped us, our children, and the city we call home? We’ll hear from community leaders, activists, and everyday people who were there—on the front lines and in the background—making history with their pain, their power, and their presence.

Now that we’ve named the pain, let’s talk solutions. In Part 2, we focus on how to rebuild , relearn , and recover . We’ll sit down with therapists, life coaches, fathers, brothers, and healers to explore real pathways to mental wellness for Black men. From culturally competent therapy and safe spaces to faith, fatherhood, friendship, and freedom—this is about rewriting the narrative. What does it look like when Black men choose healing? What resources actually work? And how do we, as a community, support the journey? Because healing isn’t just possible—it’s necessary.

For generations, Black men have been told to “man up,” “suck it up,” or worse—“just pray about it.” But what happens when the pain runs deeper than prayer alone can fix? When silence becomes a survival tactic, and vulnerability is seen as weakness? June is Black Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month, and it’s time we talk about it—really talk. Why is it that in our communities, therapy is often seen as taboo, while trauma is treated like tradition? Why do our brothers carry the weight of the world with no outlet, no blueprint, and barely any resources? We want to shift that. Because silence is killing us—mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. This month, we’re breaking that silence. Let’s dismantle the myths, confront the cultural norms, and build a space where healing isn’t just possible—it’s necessary.

In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, host Clarence Jones sits down with Dr. Lolita King-Bethel, Assistant Director of African Mental Wellness, for a powerful discussion on mental health in African and Black communities. Together, they explore cultural stigma, access to care, and how community-based solutions are transforming mental health outreach.

In this timely and emotionally charged episode of The 4 Opinions , your hosts take a fearless dive into one of today’s most disturbing and revealing topics—the resurfaced abuse allegations against music mogul Sean "Diddy" Combs, brought to light by singer Cassie and several others. But this isn’t about headlines or Hollywood. This episode is about us . We use this case as a lens to unpack the deeper truths about abuse, silence, and generational trauma in Black and Brown communities. Why do so many victims feel they have no voice? Why is silence rewarded and speaking out punished? And how does the glamorization of power, wealth, and status allow abuse to flourish unchecked? Together, we’ll explore: The cultural dynamics that keep abuse hidden in families, relationships, and the entertainment industry. The mental health cost of staying silent—on the victim, their children, and the community. How generational trauma continues when we fail to have honest conversations and hold people accountable. Ways to empower survivors and shift the culture toward healing, truth-telling, and collective care. The role of media, music, and money in normalizing toxic masculinity and silencing women. Breaking the “don’t speak on family business” mindset that has protected abusers for decades. We’ll also offer space for healing and provide practical tips for recognizing abuse, supporting survivors, and starting hard conversations within your own circles. This is more than a podcast—it’s a call to action for community awareness, mental wellness, and breaking toxic cycles once and for all. Because silence breeds suffering—and the next generation deserves better.

Today’s conversation is not just about celebrity headlines—it’s about real pain, real people, and real healing . The recent revelations and emotional conversations surrounding Shannon Sharpe have stirred deep emotions across our community. Whether it’s his past experiences or the culture of silence many of us were raised in, this moment opens the door to something deeper— the generational silence that often surrounds abuse in our families, relationships, and communities. Too often, survivors—especially Black men and women—are taught to be strong, to stay quiet, to keep the family image intact. But silence is not strength . Silence keeps the cycle alive. Today, we’re peeling back the layers and asking the hard questions: How do we overcome abuse when speaking up feels like betrayal? Why is silence so common—and so dangerous? What does healing really look like? This is a space for truth, vulnerability, and transformation. Let’s talk about what it means to reclaim your voice, your power, and your future. ✊🏾🖤