Almost Adulting with Violet Benson

WELCOME TO PART 2, b*tches!:) We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl c*m. Now listen up as Emily shows me the best way to find the REAL G-Spot. We end the episode...

From getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week’s episode is SO good, I’m giving you TWO parts. Welcome to part 1 besties:) I have Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse join us to teach you how to cum over...

Bonus episode - 3 hours of manifesting sound for anyone looking to elevate their vibrations and energy to better attract and manifest while sleeping or for anyone looking for frequency music to listen to while...

The Real Reason Men Shut Down, Pull Away, and Go Blank. Ever dated someone who was warm one minute… and emotionally shut down the next? In this week’s Benson Book Club, we break down Chapter 7 of The Untethered Soul...

Everything felt perfect… until the rabbit showed up. An emotional shift I couldn’t explain, a pullback I didn’t see coming, and the moment Bookman and I quietly unraveled. This episode dives into the signs you miss, the...

Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This November, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Sagittarius man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to...

You don’t want flowers. You want reassurance. If he can post a story, he can send a sentence that says “I care about you.” This episode is for every woman who feels crazy for needing words - because guess what? You’re...

The evil eye lives in your group chat. Did I stutter? Ever notice the SECOND you share good news - your life collapses faster than a Nature Valley bar? Same. One minute I’m being loved correctly, soft life era unlocked…...

Struggling with your goals? then listen to this. Today we dive into my dumpster fire of a life before diving into the science of habit formation with a sprinkle of sarcasm. We’re breaking down the game-changing insights...

What do you do when your hot‑girl era turns into a medical horror story? I broke my foot on a date, got a UTI, and spent the day being gaslit by the ER - who sent me home TWICE with a literal displaced fracture… but not...

Start with the PSA - it’s your biology lesson in detachment. Send it to every girl who caught feelings after he came inside her. Then we dive into vag myths, s@x lies & the patriarchy - we’re breaking down everything...

The trip ended, the lessons didn’t. In Part 2 of Finding My Husband: Vegas, I’m talking about the real game: how to keep him hooked without losing yourself Why even healthy love will still drive you a little insane...

It was supposed to be a romantic Vegas trip… until I got hemorrhoids, threw up in a $900 suite, did shrooms (allegedly), and had second thoughts about Bookman. Why? Because this man did the unthinkable… he texted back...

Thinking about starting that business, becoming an influencer, or finally posting that video?? If the only thing standing between you and your dreams is worrying what people might think.. then this episode is about to...

Do you pick the billionaire with private jets and a family fortune, or the guy who makes you feel safe but probably flies coach? In Part 6 of “Finding My Husband,” the universe drops a literal billionaire into my life...

Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This September, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to making a Libra man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 How to charm...

Think you’ve had the worst date ever? Try going out with a musician… WORST. DATE. FINAL. BOSS. From men wearing my Skims to guys with kids my age, the dating pool isn’t just in hell… it’s swimming in piss and UTIs...

Welcome to the narcissist playbook Think you’ve never dated a narcissist? Think again. From love bombing to gaslighting to the classic “I’m sorry you feel that way” non-apology—these are the Top 5 Mind Games Narcissists...

From choking games to first kisses. Welcome to the most chaotic update yet. Is Bookman too good to be true… or did I just meet my match? See Privacy Policy at and California Privacy Notice at.

He planned the perfect rom-com date.. five hours of sparks, soul-connection, and eye contact so intense - it puts your favourite book daddy to shame. Twenty minutes later? I dumped him. Did I fumble… or dodge a bullet?...

No intro. No filter. Just me crashing out mid-coffee jitters, questioning a man’s job, his five passports, and whether I just met my future husband or the next Tinder Swindler. Welcome to Part 2. See Privacy Policy at...

Welcome to our Monthly Zodiac Bonus Episode, dropping the third week of every month! This August, we’re giving you the ultimate guide to getting a Virgo man obsessed with YOU. Get ready to discover: 🔥 The secrets to...

Okay besties… it begins. I’m officially back in the dating game - I'm talking Hinge, matchmakers, awkward dates I already regret, and I’m taking you with me. This is Part 1 of Finding My Husband, and yes, there will be...

Think getting ahead is about luck? Think again. In this episode of Almost Adulting, I’m giving you my unfiltered playbook for turning every 'no' into a 'hell yes,' getting hired when you’re underqualified, nailing...

Why Women Are Choosing Younger Men This week on Almost Adulting, I’m joined by the power couple that broke the internet—and probably a few age-gap double standards. Caroline Stanbury (yes, that Caroline from Ladies of...