Sam Jolman says, “Talking to your children about sex should be likened to having 100 one-minute conversations.” As we continue season 5 on relational intelligence, therapist and author Sam Jolman joins us once again, this time to talk about how to help our kids script a narrative of romance. In this episode, Sam shares profound insights on age-specific ways to talk to your kids about their body, why it’s important to follow their questions, and how to cultivate a value-based, not a fear-based conversation. In the end, the goal is to help our kids experience awe, not live in shame. Time Stamps: 0:00 Introduction 2:19 Sam Jolman joins the show! 3:10 Talking to kids ages 0 to 6 6:40 A profound insight on shame and glory 12:09 Talking to kids ages 7 to 12 20:50 Moving from fear-based to values-base conversation with your kids 24:40 Talking to teens 30:10 The difference between arousal and lust 33:20 Preparing our kids for marriage 40:02 Innocence, not naivety Show Notes: Get Sam Jolman’s book The Sex Talk You Never Got. https://amzn.to/4kflULX If you’re interested in a marriage you love, fill out this form: https://www.famousathome.com/loveyourmarriage Register now for the Tender & Fierce Fall Cohort: https://www.famousathome.com/offers/dDt2Aobj/checkout Download NONAH's brand new single Find My Way Home by clicking here: https://bellpartners.ffm.to/findmywayhome
