A Meditation to Be At Peace with How Things Are

In this week's meditation, Dr. Mark Bertin walks us through a practice that is both concrete and compassionate. It guides us to take note of our tendency to either deny or try and "fix" what's going on in our lives, and then find a third way—one where we aim to see things as clearly as possible, so that our decisions are filled with awareness, skill, and care for everyone involved.

Mark Bertin, MD, is a pediatrician, author, professor, and mindfulness teacher specializing in neurodevelopmental behavioral pediatrics. He's a regular contributor to Mindful.org and Psychology Today. He is the author of How Children Thrive: The Practical Science of Raising Independent, Resilient, and Happy Kids (Sounds True, 2018). Dr. Bertin resides in Pleasantville, New York. For more, visit developmentaldoctor.com.

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The transcription of this guided meditation will be online at Mindful.org next week. 

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Go Deeper

Being with reality exactly as it is, without judgment or denial, is one of the core principles of mindful practice. It is also one of the most challenging. If you want to learn more about what this principle looks like in practice, including fostering mindful awareness with neurodivergence, check out these additional articles:

• Wise Engagement with the World: What to Do When You Wish Things Were Different  

• Three Ways Acceptance Helps You Work with Difficult Emotions 

• Mindful Parenting for ADHD 

And for more practice building calm awareness in meditation, here are other meditations to try: 

• A Guided Breathing Meditation to Cultivate Awareness 

• A Mindfulness Practice for Nonjudgmental Awareness 

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